How to Give Gifts to an Escort

Many hobbyists find the notion of giving gifts to their escorts quite romantic. It could be on the first date or several dates after they have established a sense of familiarity with the same lady.

Naturally, a polite and well-mannered companion will be content with the mere gesture of receiving a man’s token of affection no matter his gift of choice. We have come up with some helpful tips and guidelines for gift-giving guys to follow in hopes of brightening their dates and the smiles of many beautiful ladies who adorn them with their presence.

champagne flowers gift for escorts

How mundane are flowers, champagne and wine?

Although they are considered your average and most obvious gifts of choice, any one or combination is sure to please. Unless you know specifically what type of flower she favors, stick with classic and elegant red roses and champagne. Every woman loves flowers and will be thrilled to toast to a sip of champagne even if she does not drink the entire glass. Some independent escorts are more particular about what flowers they like (orchids, tulips, lilies, etc.

escorts gift lingerie

Dare to get a bit more intimate!

Giving lingerie is always an exciting prospect which every woman can put to good use (always to the visual benefit of the gift giver himself!). However, it might be a wise and safe decision to wait until after you have seen her a few times and gotten a flavor for what she likes and the sizes that she wears. Unless she informs you otherwise, black is a safe bet. Unless she clearly educates you on such lacy details, stay away from risky colors such as red, brown, burgundy, turquoise, pink and white until you know her better. Certain colors may clash with her skin tone or she simply may not favor your choice. Keep the styles simple and do your best to select sizes that you believe will fit her (um, spy on her bra and panty size when she’s not looking).

Go out on a limb with something really practical

Many independent escorts feature well-prepared wish lists on their personal websites that put to rest any question about the ideal gift that will make her day. Without that lifesaver of a guideline, what’s a gentleman to do? For starters, take note of her obvious personal belongings (without prying, of course) such as her computer, cellular phone, interest in music, favorite day spa, preferred destination, frequently flown airlines and the list goes on. Because so many ladies rely solely on their livelihood as independent escorts, they prefer to receive practical gifts. This is where gift certificates carry a lot of weight. Does she like to shop at Whole Foods? Would she get excited by a household shopping spree at Bed, Bath and Beyond? How about a year’s supply of special pet food for her dog or cat? Some ladies are thrilled when their gentlemen friends contribute to a charitable organization of their choice.

gift certificate present for escort

How pricey can you get?

For the truly enamored suitor, there is always Agent Provocateur, a top-of-the-line lingerie retailer. This sophisticated, glamorous boutique may be accessed online for discreet selection. Obviously, you have to purchase in advance with a destination and delivery date in mind. The world of AP has a gentleman’s best interest in mind with their virtual, personal shopper to ensure the perfect purchase with delicious hints of fantasy to add savoir faire to your date. AP is not for the financially faint hearted so have your pocket book ready. For the financially well-endowed sugar daddy who feels confident about his relationship with his sugar baby, perhaps a new car or investment in her entrepreneurial venture becomes you. We’ve heard of such occurrences on several occasions!

Everyone loves receiving gifts

At the end of the day, even a small box of chocolates will tug at the hearts of most companions. Women are just that way though many independent escorts tend to be a wee bit extravagant. Perhaps the thrill of a dainty necklace ‘accidentally’ nestled between succulent truffles isn’t a bad idea!

Scrumptious kisses, Chloe xoxo

Ultimate Guidelines for Becoming a Sugar Daddy

Most independent escorts enjoy their profession because of the freedom and independence that it gives them. On occasion, a companion may find herself becoming extremely comfortable with a client or even having feelings for him. When a hobbyist shares her sentiments, a potential sugar relationship is born.

When an independent escort becomes a sugar baby, her regular business becomes inactive. In some cases, she maintains multiple sugar relationships simultaneously. For the hobbyist turned sugar daddy, what is his role? We have come up with some guidelines based upon what we’ve seen and heard within the industry.

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A sugar daddy should be in a position to meet his financial obligation

A sugar daddy is an established gentleman who is usually a wealthy entrepreneur or operates a successful corporation. He is at a point in his life where he can enjoy the freedom and exhilaration that being with a sugar baby gives him. His net worth is solid, he drives a luxury automobile and he can afford to take care of himself. He has ample income to compensate his sugar baby on a regular basis (weekly, bi-weekly or monthly). In exchange, he enjoys her companionship through regular dating, traveling, conversation and intimacy.

A sugar arrangement should be respectful and beneficial to both

A sugar relationship is a contracted relationship. Both parties should enter into the agreement fully aware of what each gives to the other. How often will a sugar daddy want to see his sugar baby? How much advance notice does she need to set aside quality time to see him? Details of the arrangement should be understood at all times to keep things clear. A proper sugar daddy demonstrates the value and worth of his sugar baby by looking out for her in several ways:

  • He sees that she is well taken care of with an elegant wardrobe;
  • He makes sure that living conditions are top notch;
  • He ensures that her transportation is more than adequate and accommodating;
  • He regularly shows his appreciation for her beauty, intelligence and is there for her when she needs him.

luxury dinner served on  the table with glass of red wine

 

Generosity is important

Above and beyond the agreed financial compensation that a sugar daddy bestows upon his sugar baby, he shows his generosity by giving her gifts and trinkets and even surprises her with romantic travel excursions. Remember, the little details that count! On one occasion he may bring her flowers; on another he may surprise her with tickets to the theater; he might treat her to a luxurious dinner at a prestigious restaurant; and in some cases, may even buy her a new car. A sugar baby should feel that she is special to her sugar daddy. The sum of his gestures and her gracious receipt of them will encourage a wonderfully exciting and stable sugar relationship.

sugar daddy with sugar baby

Setting boundaries is the golden rule in a sugar relationship

No matter how genuine, intense or romantic a sugar relationship becomes, a sugar daddy and sugar baby should not become too attached and never lose respect. Doing so goes against the rules of the contracted relationship, blurs boundaries and can seriously jeopardize the arrangement. Even though she is a sugar baby, she has a life, may have a job or go to school and even have children. A sugar daddy should expect his sugar baby to establish some sort of schedule that applies to how often and when they see each other, frequency of phone calls and communication in general. On the other hand, a sugar daddy should not:

  • Abuse the relationship by taking advantage of her in any way;
  • Show up at her home unexpectedly;
    Control her life; or
  • Infringe upon her private matters.

A sugar baby is not an object but a human being to be respected at all times.

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Set of different Hobbyists cosmetics

Never forget good hygiene

When a sugar daddy takes good care of himself his sugar baby will appreciate his efforts and likely find him more attractive. The last thing a sugar daddy should do is ‘let himself go’ because he feels that he is entitle to do so. Chances are that his sugar baby will be considerably younger than him with a lot of vitality. Regular exercise, a healthy diet and vitamin supplements all contribute to good health. Neat, fashionable attire, meticulous grooming and regular skin treatments are all a part of maintaining good hygiene.

A sugar relationship should be loads of fun

The world is an exciting playground in a sugar relationship! Build great experiences by getting to know one another, going places, traveling, dining, talking and laughing. A sugar daddy should take in his sugar baby’s youthful exuberance and positive energy by living life to the fullest. Isn’t that what it’s all about?

Unforgettable kisses, Chloe xoxo

Decoding Your Fantasies

Picture the hobbyist in a tepid marriage where sparks have long disappeared. The kids have flown the nest. He loves his wife and does not believe in cheating yet cannot end the marriage due to the tangled nature of their history (mortgages, finances, friends, relatives, grandchildren, etc.). He finds himself looking at other women in ways he never did.

Fantasies provide a necessary escape from the here and now. As long as we do not become too rigid or mistake our fantasies for reality they can be entertaining, distracting and arousing. Ooh la la! The possibilities are endless, especially in the hobby. Let us explore a few broad topics that touch (no pun intended) upon your innermost secrets.

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Fantasy of the perfect love

Your days are filled with fantasies of a beautiful woman longing for your attention. You yearn for her company and attention. Rather than risk the complications and potential drama of meeting another woman in a conventional manner, you seek the company of a courtesan. Manifested, this situation is more commonly coined as the girl friend experience (GFE). The perfect love can be realized in the sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship when taken to the extreme between hobbyist and companion. In either scenario, finding that ideal match comes as close as to intimate perfection as humanly possible. While the situation may be frowned upon or even immoral in the eyes of some, your marriage stays intact while your emotional and physical needs are met.

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The secretive, more perverse side of your desires

While City Girlsindependent escorts tend to be deliciously ‘strawberry, vanilla swirl with whipped cream on top’ if you will, there are those gentlemen who seek ‘triple chocolate peanut butter fudge with nuts on top’, if I may. This is a sweet and sassy way of referring to the kinkier thoughts that inhabit the minds of many (yes, many). Light roll playing, perhaps a bit of fetish or dress up might flight your fancy. Now, while City Girls stops short of classic BDSM, there are those spicy independent escorts who love to kick up their heels with some gentle Domination (call her your Domina or Goddess).

Sensuality is mutual meditation

It is perfectly fine to entertain those lascivious thoughts dwelling in the hidden corners of your mind. Exploring your fantasies with a companion who understands and accepts you can actually improve your quality of living. Realizing your fantasies is invigorating and can instill a sense of freedom.

Turning off auto pilot

If you are a hobbyist or gentleman daydreaming of forbidden erotica perhaps it is time to stop procrastinating and do something about them. There is a common misconception that fantasies objectify and distance partners from one another. It is absolutely untrue. Sharing your secret, sensual cravings can actually promote a strong sense of trust and bring you more in touch with yourself. The private self that does not see work or friends deserves just as much attention. You do not have to be quiet. Just be comfortable and confident about what you want. If you are a newbie in terms of exploring your fantasies, start small and work your way up. Express your desires with your companion to make sure that she too is comfortable. Soon, you will discover kinky bliss!

With a multitude of kinky kisses, Chloe

Be Mine You Sultry Valentine

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February is a month of romance. If you are a hobbyist with a passionate heart who thrives on the girl friend experience then this is the day for you! How do you love her? Let us count the ways! Aristotle said that love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies. When you are strongly attracted to someone on an emotional and/or sexual level it is called love. There are many different types of love.

Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age.” Anais Nin

The legend of Saint Valentine

According to the Catholic Church, legend has it that Saint Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II declared that single men made better soldiers than those married with families, he outlawed marriage for young men. Realizing the injustice of the decree, Valentine defied Claudius by performing secret marriages for young lovers. Later, Claudius ordered that Valentine be put to death.

 “Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place.” Zora Neale Hurston

sexy valentines gift, rose
sexy valentines gift, rose

What love will do to a person

There are those hobbyists and gentlemen who fall head over heels in love with a companion. We have heard many stories about independent escorts who develop deep feelings as well. When such a situation occurs, a companion may let her emotional guard down and allow herself to be known on a personal and intimate level. She may even retire from her profession and actually marry her client.

How will you celebrate Valentine’s Day?

Whether you fancy love, lust or simply the company of a beautiful lady friend, it is best not to wait until she might be unavailable on this very special day. Ask your desired companion to be your valentine as soon as possible, if you have not done so already! What gift will you give to her? If it is red roses, call your local florist and reserve your bouquet as soon as you finish reading this article. Begin the evening by toasting a glass of champagne (ask her for her favorite bubbly or take a bottle of Veuve Clicquot). Build the romance by taking her to dinner at a spectacular restaurant (again, make that reservation as soon as possible). For those hobbyists who really want to create an evening that neither of you will ever forget, plan to spend the entire night together.

valentines day gift surprise
valentines day gift surprise

It’s your party – wear what you want!

If you are a sugar daddy who is feeling exceedingly romantic and wants your sugar baby to shimmer with delight, lingerie is the answer. But not just any lingerie. Agent Provocateur features stunningly seductive, lacey ensembles that are second to none in quality, elegance and originality. What an inspiration for love of epic proportion! Once again, place your order after you have finished reading this article and order overnight delivery. While we have talked about this subject in past articles, selecting red lingerie even in honor of this romantic holiday should be carefully considered. Red is a rather fickle color and does not compliment every independent escort’s figure. Pink is a safe and black is guaranteed!


Emphasize details that bring out the naughty of the night

Chances are very good that she will plan nuances of the evening. As a hobbyist, you can contribute by communicating your plans for the evening, where you will be taking her, what you might desire her to wear, etc. Will your hotel suite feature a fire place? Will there be a balcony? Separate sleeping quarters? Plenty of space that the two of you can explore from top to bottom? Last but by no means least, what will the morning bring? Plan to have toothbrush and mouthwash waiting in the bathroom to leave you minty fresh in preparation to greet her sleepy kiss at daybreak.

Some of the most romantic and memorable experiences are enjoyed between hobbyists and independent escorts

Valentine’s Day is an opportunity to give and receive delectable gifts of pleasure. As you create riveting bouts of love and lust remember your friends here at City Girls!

Managing Emotions in Escort Dating

What is the true nature of a meeting between a hobbyist and an independent escort? While discretion is paramount, a companion’s emotional warmth should be sincere yet measured within a zone that feels safe to her. Not all providers may agree with this as there are those who keep clients at far more than an arm’s length. All being said, how an escort and a hobbyist choose to manage their emotions is purely subjective.

The decent and trustworthy gentleman who deserves a little more

He is a companion’s best client. He demonstrates his patronage by requesting the pleasure of her company often. He revels in her presence and there is a sense of loyalty about him. She may recognize him as a gem and even a friend. One would suspect that such an ideal hobbyist/provider relationship deserves extra recognition because there is value evident on both sides. Perhaps such a scenario should allow for genuine warmth and a certain amount of trust.

Screening is important
Portrait of the man in a hood against an urbanistic wall – stranger. Screening is Important!

The green provider who ignores her instincts

Independent escorts who are new to the industry should learn to recognize men who take advantage of naïve providers. In this situation, an independent escort who is not backed by a club or agency may be placing herself in harm’s way without properly screening potential clients. In this case, possessing good common sense is critical. Without such, she may override her instincts for the mere sake of scheduling an appointment. Regrettably, there are plenty of providers who exercise poor judgment and place their reputations or even lives in danger as a result.

Where to draw the line with empathy

The genuine girl friend experience illustrates a perfect circumstance. When a hobbyist finds himself in a state of emotional neediness due to divorce or marital problems, he may be vulnerable. An independent escort who feels a sense of kinship and genuine compassion to this man may open the doors to sentiment. Her sincere intentions as well as his unguarded disposition make the recipe for feelings gone awry. She should never lose touch with her professionalism and always keep her focus on the client/provider relationship.

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Male and female legs during a date

Managing a sugar relationship

While neither man nor companion may refer to themselves as sugar daddy or sugar baby respectively, many such interactions take on all the characteristics defined by sugar. It is rare that a married man with ties to his family will leave his household to fully devote himself to his sugar baby. Therefore, a companion turned sugar baby should keep her wits about her and never fail to recognize the relationship for what it really is – one with benefits and boundaries.

The hobby can be richly rewarding or devastatingly damaging

It is not always easy to keep the mind and emotions separate for they often run parallel. Wisdom in navigating the hobby is truly about safety on every level: hygiene, emotion, reputation and even death. Whether you are a hobbyist or a provider, you should always keep your wits about you, never ignoring your instincts. There is always that little voice whispering deep down inside. It generally knows best.

Many kisses, Chloe xoxo

Categorizing the Hobbyist

From our perspective, there are all sorts of hobbyists who choose to see independent escorts. Their reasons vary greatly.

They are not necessarily hobbyists though many do fit the ticket. Then of course, there are the exceptions that are not shaped by any mold. We thought it would be interesting to consider the types that City Girls encounters often.

A green nametag sticker with the words Hello I Am New for a rookie, trainee, new staff hire, newbie, beginner or apprentice
A green nametag sticker with the words Hello I Am New for a rookie, trainee, new staff hire, newbie, beginner or apprentice

New girl client

In our case, we see this gentleman often. That’s because many of the independent escorts who are a part of the CG Club fall under the guise of TOFTT (Take One for The Team). They are spectacular and come highly recommended. However, they may still be considered ‘new’ to many men in the world of adult entertainment. Perhaps more common in controlled establishments (City Girls is a private club), new girls may fall victim to the Bottom Fish Client (see below). These hobbyists may attempt to exploit the new girl and even abuse her and endanger her life. Having not been around long enough to get her ‘escort wings’, she’s finished before she’s begun. Naturally, City Girls turns their back on these types of guys. We tend to shield our independent escorts with as much knowledge and guidance as possible.

Cartoon Ball and chain. Just married man with ball and chain
Cartoon Ball and chain. Just married man with ball and chain

Married man

He chooses the company of a companion not because his marriage is happy. Most often, he and his wife co-exist in a glorified roommate situation. The marriage is loveless and totally lacks intimacy. Or, the ties that bind are financial in nature and there might be children involved in a household where divorce is unconscionable. So the marriage dwells in a hapless state. This gentleman seeks emotional, physical and psychological fulfillment from a beautiful provider. She is the best in her field offering intimacy and camaraderie in a genuine capacity. It is common for these male types to be endlessly romantic, seeking the most genuine of girl friend experiences. The lines between a professional arrangement and love relationship are sometimes blurred. While he may not fit the structured definition of a sugar daddy, the relationship may naturally flow into a hybrid version.

Beautiful woman wearing the United States flag bikini holding a football isolated over white background
Beautiful woman wearing the United States flag bikini holding a football isolated over white background

Natural asset lover

This hobbyist seeks the company of an independent escort for sport. Her physical criteria are his primary focus. While he may date only a handful of girls, he remains emotionally detached. Gratification is his main objective. He enjoys her much like he would a football game and drinking a couple of beers. Marital status does not apply.

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Fetish man

The term fetish is in a class by itself. Though we have written about the topic before, there exists a vast range of unusual interests. It could include a specific fixation on an object, body part or material facilitated by a companion who makes no claim as a fetish expert. Or, it could be a more sophisticated, psychological obsession that requires a highly specialized dominatrix.

Disguised hobbyist reviewer
Disguised hobbyist reviewer

Bottom fish client

Unfortunately, they exist. They are the ones who give the hobby a bad rap. They are the ones who will never grace the presence of City Girls’ Club of independent escorts. At the risk of sounding haughty or negative, these men may be of a belligerent nature, motivated by a desire to exploit a provider. Often, he is a woman-hater with a sketchy or unethical past. He may try to take advantage of her and in the worst case, may hurt her. Inflicting pain is not just limited to the physical. He may falsify a bad review of their encounter, knowing very well that doing so will jeopardize her career. Imposing such vengeance on the reputation of a provider can be the kiss of death and end her career. He knows this.

Businessman in classic vest against row of suits in shop
Businessman in classic vest against row of suits in shop

Perfect client

This type of gentleman is most familiar to courtesans. He seeks true companionship on a higher level. Such a courtesan is acutely aware of who she will and will not spend time with. She will turn down a client if she does not sense a genuine connection. She truly enjoys her profession and usually spends time with a handful of suitors who shower her with utmost respect, gifts and travel excursions. This man is not a hobbyist per say and his is extremely discreet. He tends to maintain his relationship for a long time, sometimes even years. They might become very close friends and he may even assist her in financial endeavors. We have heard of cases where marriage resulted.

City Girls is in no way biased toward any person

We support freedom of individuality. Every hobbyist, independent escort or sugar daddy/baby is totally unique! We recognize the good in folks and encourage that everyone practice higher ethics through virtuous behavior. Do unto others as you would have them do to you!

Many kisses, Chloe xoxo

Connecting Deeply Through the Girlfriend Experience

Ever wonder if there are hobbyists who seek companionship for connection deeper than just a few hours of frolic? Many beautiful relationships are shared between independent escorts and hobbyists who seek meaning that delves beyond skin deep.

Understanding the role of a companion

Many companions serve different roles in diverse capacities. Spending an hour or two with a gentleman to entertain him is probably the most common. But there are companions and independent escorts whose roles in the lives of their hobbyist friends extend far beyond a quick tryst. These ladies are well acquainted with passion. They are confidantes whether gentlemen express their deepest feelings or taboo desires. A courtesan understands the psychological composition of her client. She is nurturing in an emotional aspect. She caters to his physical needs much in the same way a massage therapist ‘feels’ the physiological needs of her patient. No matter her label, a provider is a master of men. Her expert tuition lovingly and compassionately nurtures his physical, emotional and psychological whims according to his needs and requests.

What circumstances lead a gentleman to an escort?

It is true that many men seek the company of an escort because they want to have a good time. Motivation is different from man to man. Perhaps he is single and is looking for a thrill. He may be lonely and desire to confide in a companion who pampers him and takes care of him in many ways. He might come from a troubled marriage and seek healing in total confidentiality. Perhaps his needs are of a fetish nature and he secretly desires to explore them. On a different note, there are women, girlfriends and wives with cravings to explore introduction of another woman into their relationships. In all cases, sensual openness is the main component in assisting ladies and gentlemen to understand and fulfill their needs.

Deep connection
Deep connection

Defining the deep connection

Establishing chemistry moves beyond stunning lingerie, a good time and a few laughs. There is a strong sense of openness, a flame that is ignited, a kindling of the spirits that turns a date into an ongoing affair. It might take two or three encounters to seal this kind of connection. As with any relationship, qualities build from there. As a result, there are those hobbyist/escort interactions that evolve into sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangements. There are also gentlemen who re-discover intimacy with their wives through interacting with an independent escort. They talk about their marriages in a therapeutic form. And there are couples who seek to explore their relationships with the guided hand of a companion.

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closeup picture of man and woman’s hands with gift box

The girlfriend experience is a multi-faceted one

It means different things to different people. Just the same, different factors draw hobbyists to independent escorts for different reasons. Most certainly, it is the emotional familiarity of the experience to which they connect and often even nostalgia that men seek. There are many different layers of love. Marriage represents one of them. Some hobbyists fall in love with their companions as a result of the connection. Regardless, intimacy seems to be the missing link in marriages or relationships that lead gentlemen to find the girlfriend experience within the company of an independent escort.

Fervent kisses, Chloe xoxo

A Gentleman’s Guide to Purchasing Lingerie

Gentlemen, during this Christmas season giving the gift of lingerie can be risky business. Even in the world of adult entertainment, you never know for sure if you are purchasing the appropriate garment.

Will it fit her? Will the size you choose offend her? Master both challenges during this cozy holiday season and reap the rewards. My masculine friends, City Girls is here to turn your questions into answers!

Brunette tawny lady wearing sensual, black lingerie
Brunette tawny lady wearing sensual, black lingerie

Noir is known to please

Can you say black? It’s about as safe and flattering as it gets. Think passion, drama (the good kind), and contour. Every independent escort loves black lingerie and has at least one piece in her collection. All at once, black is sophisticated, mysterious and sexy. Moreover, black is the best friend of every woman as it enhances shape and perfects size. No woman can ever have too much black lingerie. If your pocketbook allows, look for black silk whether lace or satin. Silk is the platinum of lingerie.

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What is red hot?

A sexy cut in the right tone of red equals an irresistibly spicy piece of lingerie. However, not every independent escort is into red. We recommend purchasing red lingerie only to the hobbyist who is familiar with the likes and dislikes of his companion. Whether her style is classic, contemporary or retro, an entire ensemble should be included. One piece of red does not stand on its own so easily. Complete the look with a bra, panty, suspender and stocking combo. Getting overwhelmed, guys? Simplify your shopping with a super silky slip coupled with a pair of matching boudoir mules and be on your way.

Beautiful escort in sexy lingerie over white background
Beautiful escort in sexy lingerie over white background

Dream of a white Christmas

An entire universe separates white and winter white. White is like pure snow while winter white is more like ivory. Not every woman is into white which necessitates a little investigation in advance. Done right, white lingerie can look quite elegant and alluring. Done wrong, it can look cheap and tacky. If white is the way to go, a silk robe or kimono is a safe bet. Include a white silk panty and some matching pom pom mules and you’ll have yourself one sexy angel!

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When to get kinky

If you are a sugar daddy who knows your sugar baby well, you just may qualify to give the gift of kink. For the hobbyist enamored with his companion, look to her wish list for guidance. Latex, leather and themed outfits cross the line that separates convention and fetish. We strongly caution hobbyists against purchasing such unusually specific lingerie gifts without first knowing what a companion is into.

Buy first for her and second for you

It’s time to get selfless, gents. Purchase lingerie motivated by your desires and run the risk of disappointment. As we have discussed in previous articles, visit a small boutique where customer service is the focus and insure her satisfaction. However, if you still not feeling the confidence, take her on a Christmas shopping spree. Target a [high end] boutique and schedule an intimate appointment with a consultant. Complete the afternoon with a lovely champagne-filled lunch and watch her fall all over you.

Only fervent kisses, Chloe xoxo

Turning a Companion into Your Sugar Baby

The sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship takes the hobbyist/escort interaction to a more integrated level. As a hobbyist, you may not intend to secure an ongoing girlfriend arrangement and it just happens naturally. Or, you may go all out and profile your objective on various sugar websites.

Perhaps you are a man who seeks a ‘bargain’ with an escort to see her for a fixed amount of time on a consistent basis on a discounted consideration structure. Let us explore the different types of sugar babies within the United States.

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Your basic, several-sugar-daddy sugar baby

There are companions who make it their goal to date several sugar daddies to achieve an elevated lifestyle, meet the expenses of their college educations or support their families. For these ladies, it’s all about the bottom line, a numbers game. How much are you as a sugar daddy willing to compensate her for her company? Her goal is to take on as many sugar daddies as she is able to spend time with while simultaneously meeting her income needs.

The non sugar baby

This lady is more of a courtesan who will never refer to herself as a sugar baby. She is the sophisticated lady whom by passers quietly wonder if she is a kept woman but will never verbalize it because she is simply too classy and demure. She runs in elite circles, is smart and educated with a phenomenal figure, a chic, expensive wardrobe that whispers of sensuality and a presence that will make any man desirous of her. She is the lady who keeps tight, highly confidential relationships with men of stature. She is a lovely confidante who cultivates a deeply influential connection that far surpasses what these men have with their own wives.

beauty young woman in white shirt at home smiling friendly, girl next door
beauty young woman in white shirt at home smiling friendly, girl next door

The organic sugar baby

She is a natural born entertainer who loves her profession. She has a knack for deep, spiritual connections and genuinely revels in the glamour, respect and attention bestowed upon her by gentlemen friends. Her clients do not refer to themselves as sugar daddies but they are looking to spend sincere time with a lady whom they feel has it all. Clear in their intentions, they seek her out, become enamored with her and naturally fall into the sugar daddy pattern. Her work comes easy for her and she is good. She is acutely aware of her charms, intellect and radiant personality the sum of which manifests an air of charisma that radiates about her. This rather mysterious aura acts as a magnet that attracts the esteemed gentleman who falls in an amorous state with her. She embodies perfection but could also be the girl next door, unsuspecting in her role as a sugar baby. In short, you would never guess.

Little Black Leather Locked Diary

Relationships of all sorts

Romance comes in all shapes and sizes. Marriage and conventional relationships are the two most common types that are talked about and accepted in the mainstream. Busy beneath the surface of our society are other types of involvement not talked about. These gentlemen (and even ladies) are driven by needs and desires burning for fulfillment to the degree that they seek and find their sugar babies. The inner workings of these relationships are transparent and confidential, rarely publicized and hardly ever recognized by the average, ignorant eye.

Kisses, Chloe xoxo

Quieting Holiday Loneliness with a GFE

Amidst happy lovers bundled arm in arm, Christmas carols resonating throughout the city and holiday shoppers bustling at the mall quietly mingle the lonely souls of many hobbyists

They show us what they want us to see: smiling faces, secure demeanors and professional composure. Yet beneath the surface dwells a state of unfulfillment in their homes. They experience lack of love and intimacy in dormant marriages that have been frozen for years. These hobbyists coexist with their wives in a barren world of monotony, mortgage payments and facades of false happiness. On a darker side, their marriages suffer from arguments or worse, fighting, separation and divorce.

Not all hobbyists are necessarily out to turn a few tricks or on a more perverse note take advantage of women as independent escorts

There are a lot of good men (whether single or not) who dabble in the demimonde of adult entertainment out of yearning for genuine companionship that surpasses the mere physical aspect associated with escorts. Herein lies the reality that shatters the stigma attached to independent escorting. These men have a hunger to satisfy their needs for closeness and understanding in a loving and non judgmental environment offered by gorgeous companions who believe in the girl friend experience.

Silhouette of kissing girl and guy
Silhouette of kissing girl and guy

What exactly is the girlfriend experience?

It means different things to different people. The term has evolved since its origin to the point that some independent escorts do not want to be associated with the acronym or any other label that might pool them with all the rest. Many escorts use it as a marketing tool while others genuinely offer the girlfriend experience. The modern day, successful GFE possesses sophisticated, psychological insight and a charismatic talent for attracting and bonding with her clients. Often times, hobbyist and companion become close friends, blurring the lines between paid companionship and true camaraderie.

When such a relationship reaches this heightened level of intimate stability, it may stabilize into what is known as a sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangement or simply an ongoing tryst.

All alone on Christmas Eve

It doesn’t have to be this way. A hobbyist or gentleman who does not have a conventional girlfriend, close friends or family does not have to suffer in silence with an aching heart during the most sentimental time of year. Whether he chooses to spend one hour with a smoking hot bombshell or a weekend with a tender soul blessed with understanding and total femininity, there are companions out there eager to become the period at the end of his sentence. It is just a matter of defining who she is and finding her.

Check list. Vector illustration EPS version 8.
Check list. Vector illustration EPS version 8.

Make a list and check it twice

If a man wanted to purchase a car, he would eventually develop a ‘needs list’ of the features that the automobile should contain after looking at so many. Before he made the purchase, he would know exactly what he wanted. Do your homework. Start by making a list on paper of the features that define the woman who best suits your personality, needs and desires. Shop around. Read biographies. Look at photos. Get a feel for her style. Inquire with a few (without wasting their time) to get a sense of chemistry. If it fits the budget, one or two pre-requisite dates are highly recommended before spending significant holiday time with a lady to find out the hard way that the two of you may not be suited for each other.

New Year’s Eve is just around the bend

We all know that life slows down to a crawl this time of year. Many ladies are spending time with family and may not be available. Connecting with an independent escort whom you really like is a task that should be pursued well in advance before the actual holiday arrives. Who knows? The two of you might actually take a trip together to ring in the New Year.

Many kisses, Chloe xoxo