Is the FBI Reading Your Emails?

If the thought of it makes you weak in the knees, it should. Is it possible that the Federal Bureau of Investigation along with its sidekick the National Security Agency (NSA) is snooping around in your emails to see what you’re up to? If your email client is Yahoo, then the answer is a resounding YES.


Yahoo caved to the U.S. government

When the big kahuna came knocking at Yahoo’s door and demanded that they grant them the authority to scan all of Yahoo’s emails, Yahoo said okay sure, no problem. Yahoo then proceeded to secretly (as in, Yahoo email users didn’t know about it) build a custom software to search all of its customers’ incoming emails. Yikes!

Have all of your hobbying secrets been revealed?

Apparently, Yahoo’s software uses selectors that have the capability to zero in on specific information, keywords or key phrases within emails. According to former government officials and surveillance experts, this is not the first time something like this has happened with U.S. phone and internet companies. But it is the first time that a software or wiretap, if you will, was built to surveille such a broad collection of real time web data. Are you a Yahoo user who has contacted City Girls’ Call Center to book an appointment with any of our lovely independent escorts? The thought is chilling…


So….what are other email providers up to these days?

If former Yahoo employees leaked this troubling information, what will Google and Microsoft do when the NSA comes nipping at their heels? Of course, they say they’d never do that – expose all of our personal information that is contained in our emails. Who knows? At the behest of the U.S. government, anything’s possible.

The Fourth Amendment Right to Privacy says, NO WAY

The implications of the invasion of privacy are alarming. I think we all agree that U.S. intelligence is acting in the name of terrorism. But still. The act of Yahoo divulging millions of private emails tells us that no internet communication is private, the reader’s email included.


What City Girls has done to ensure your privacy

You can take comfort knowing that we tech gurus behind the scenes implemented a system back in 2013 to ensure safety and privacy of your messages when contacting Call Center. Our system safeguards your correspondence ensuring that no trace of it remains in your inbox, trash or even on Yahoo servers (where Yahoo keeps all of your deleted messages as required by law). Here’s how it works:

When you receive email correspondence from Support, you get an email with just a link in it. Only if you click on that link and visit the page can you read the message. That same message is secured by an autodestruction feature which renders the links found in the history of your emails inaccessible after destruction. Heavy sigh on the part of the reader!


As always, City Girls has got your covered

In light of the Yahoo email scandal, we think it fair to mention that communicating with City Girls is a rather invisible action, a fortress of guaranteed safety. We have taken privacy and discretion to a whole new level virtually unknown in the hobbying world. When you couple that with inexplicably gorgeous independent escorts who regularly blow the minds of our VIP members, why go anywhere else?

Screening – The Powerful Method of Employment Verification, Part II

The fact of the matter is that employment verification is an almighty screening method and virtual insurance policy that guarantees safety for both hobbyist and escort. In our first article in a series of three, we learned that nine out of ten gentlemen’s names were either fake or modified. That is a chilling statistic that drove us right into the hands of employment verification and we’ve never looked back.

Honesty and related 3d words including sincerity, believability, integrity, openness, transparency, truth, fairness and other virtues that build your reputation
Honesty and related 3d words including sincerity, believability, integrity, openness, transparency, truth, fairness and other virtues that build your reputation

Why is employment verification so dependable?

Because it requires honesty. When a person is honest, they obey the law. A honest, law-abiding gentlemen is going to be decent. When you have decency, no one gets hurt. When no one gets hurt you have a huge safety net and everyone is happy. It’s that simple.

Employment verification is 99.9% effective

Perfection does not exist except with the deity (if that’s your cup of tea) and of course, our jaw-droppingly gorgeous independent escorts. With employment verification, we do not get bad apples and if we do, well, that companion is not going to vouch for the guy to become a VIP member.

How employment verification works

For starters, we know this man’s true identity. We know where he works and have confirmed legitimacy of the data. His identification is affirmed by the escort at the onset of the date. Now, everyone is standing on a level playing field and we have a nice case of accountability. If the gentleman becomes aggressive and hurts a girl, we know where to find him(this have never happened yet). Because he is aware of this fine detail, he will never think about creating any problems during a date.

Some independent escorts and dating agencies discount the effectiveness of employment verification

It is an enigma that we struggle to understand. Why would any person or entity put their business and livelihood at risk for the sake of a date? Admittedly, the stringent method of employment verification might turn away some potential gentlemen friends, especially in the eyes of many independent escorts who don’t have the backing of say, someone like City Girls. But it certainly sets a high standard that contributes to a solid reputation that your companionship is the real deal.

Get the inside scoop and juicy details about screening

To complete our series of articles about screening, we will explore different verification services, their pros and cons. You won’t want to miss this one!

Screening-The Danger and Uncertainty of Reference Checking, Part I

Screening of hobbyists and providers is a critical process that is not to be taken lightly. Otherwise, you are swimming in turbulent waters by placing every aspect of your life deadcenter in the hands of a stranger when meeting with a person whom you do not know. Even if you have met with that person before and the date was a success, their true identity is not guaranteed. Or is it?


At one point, City Girls was the new kid on the block

Sure, we were experienced in the field of professional dating, but we lacked the trust of our peers because no one knew where we came from. Faced by skepticism of others in the industry, we relied upon reference checking, verification services and other methods, processes that were anything but reliable. It is a confession that we cringe to admit. A surefire method, employment verification was a process that we only dreamed about.

Why bother with employment verification?

Still green in the tedious process of verification, we weren’t really interested in this method. Reference checking seemed sufficient. Why not? Everyone else was doing it — and still is, for that matter. But at some point, the problems began.

Old school verification methods guarantee risk

With a growing sense of uncertainty came the decision to review our verification policies. Because reference checking is not a foolproof answer to safety, problems naturally surfaced. Most notably was an incident involving a moron that had been ‘verified’ by an Asian-run agency in New Jersey. It was the year 2013. Upon entering the hotel suite to greet his date, this idiot proceeded to ransack the room for anything he could grab. The independent escort screamed at the top of her lungs for help which scared him away, but not before he took off with her mobile phone. Thank you, Asian agency for opening our eyes to the perils of reference checking! We were terribly relieved that the escort’s life was not endangered.


An incident that could have cost lives and our Club was the moment of truth
What if that creep had been a psychopath? Sexual predator? No one wants to think about the potential consequences. Through this crisis, we realized that all information provided by this jerk was false. Moreover, we certainly had to consider the disturbing possibility that the entire predicament was a scam orchestrated by the Asian agency in an effort to jeopardize the good standing of City Girls! It was at this point that we banned the entire reference checking process.

Renee, owner of Après Vous Agency enlightened us

It was a booming year for City Girls as we were calling everyone in their mother for reference checks. Après Vous was no exception. Just imagine the volume of outgoing calls when you consider the fact that we were verifying hundreds of hobbyists on a monthly basis. We recall our first and only phone conversation with Renee that is forever seared in our memories. Keep in mind that this female business owner is kind, respectful and patient. But on this occasion, she was annoyed by the volume of our incoming calls (around ten per day) we were imposing upon her staff, often during peak business hours. What other solution did we have to verify our members? During our fifteen minute conversation with Renee, we learned vital information that set the course of the future for City Girls Club: rather than bogging down phone lines with bothersome calls for references, why not use employment verification? Thank you, Renee! The rest is history.

City Girls discovered the silver lining of that dangerous occurrence

Every member’s name had to be verified before scheduling a date and every member’s identification had to be shown at the beginning of an appointment. Subsequently, things felt right. Authenticity ensures accountability when you know a gentleman’s true identity. Such a method breeds trust between two people who are meeting for the first time. Without this obligation, a gentleman is not liable for his actions in that he is given free reign to violate or worse, harm an escort and thereby capable of vanishing without a trace. What recourse would we have had with the agency reference who verified this dude? None.


The shocking truth revealed after verification policy change

A statistical pattern surfaced:

About 90% of names were either fake or modified;
Nine out of ten guys used names different than the names that showed on their IDs.

Wow! Where was the safety in reference checking if in fact, none of the data provided was accurate? We were mortified to learn that had we continued to use the reference checking process, we might have under minded the confidence of thousands of City Club members who entrusted us with their loyalty and safety. Since then, we have not encountered any issues with the security of our members.


Stay tuned for our next article about screening

Part two in a series of three, look for our next article about The Secure Method of Employment Verification. See you there!

Dynamics of a Threesome (couple)

The energy between a man and two women can be delicate, especially when the woman is his wife. If you as a couples escort have been approached to spend time with a married couple, City Girls believes that paying careful attention to details and subtle nuances will result in a successful encounter. Let’s explore a few:

When it comes to a trio, the psychological impact that beauty and appearance make on a woman can be quite different than the impact they have on a man. It is your job to ‘read’ your new friends to stay in control of the situation by keeping them comfortable and at ease with you. They contacted you because they found you quite attractive. Most likely, the husband will orchestrate the encounter. When the three of you finally meet, your appearance will make a split second impression. The first words that fall from your mouth will pretty much seal that impression. Never ‘out dress’ or ‘outdo’ the wife. It’s a good idea to communicate with the couple prior to your meeting to determine if the engagement is a good fit (you want positive memories to resound long after your engagement). In doing so, you will gain a good sense of what to wear and how to present yourself, thereby matching the energy of the wife. If not handled elegantly, beauty becomes a liability whereas you’ve always felt it to be an asset. Don’t leave your psychology hat at home! Read on…

Who calls the [emotional] shots?

While this may be a generalization, usually it’s the wife. If the husband is smart, he’ll hang on to his knickers, sit back and allow the two of you to get comfortable. Play into her hands and get on her good side immediately. Get to know her. When she feels in control of the situation, all three will ease into harmony.

Bonding with the wife

As an independent escort, you are a professional entertainer. Whether you go for a walk in the park, attend an affluent social event or meet for cocktails in the intimate setting of a private suite, it is your job to quickly assess and constantly monitor the emotional and psychological dispositions of your clients. On the outside, you are approachable, easy to talk to and emanate a sense of safety about your presence. On the inside, your brain is a machine working a mile a minute. What is she thinking? How is her body language? You can be sure she has summed you up in the first minutes of your meeting. What does she want and need from you? Is she nervous? Does she want you all to herself or did her husband persuade her? The eyes in the back of your head are watching the husband’s behavior all the while. Once you have made these realizations, you can proceed to bond with her. Find her innermost beauty and essence and become best friends if only for the moment. Like her. Win over the wife and you’ve already succeeded. Carry it through to the end of your date and you’ve got repeat clients.

Achieving harmony in the trio

It is critical to pay close attention to the dynamic between you as an escort and the energy that’s crackling between the husband and wife as a couple. It is a balancing act equivalent to juggling 4 beach balls. Always be alert and never let your persona falter. They want you to transform them to another realm not present in their marriage. They are relying on you and despite how things may appear, it is your professional responsibility to take them there and give them the times of their lives.

Make them fall in love with you

When you have mastered your beauty to work to your advantage, determined who the leader in the relationship is, bonded with the wife and achieved harmony between the three of you, this couple who are your clients will fall in love with you. They will reminisce and fantasize about the experience long after the occasion. Your success as an independent escort entertaining a married couple then becomes a magical potion that will stimulate the quality of their marriage.

City Girls believes that the successful escort is one who spends time with her clients with the intention of turning them into long term clients

That is one of the secrets of increasing the stability of your job. When you have repeat clients your time is freed to focus on making new friends. Isn’t that what it’s all about?

Mechanics of a Good Hobbyist

I was recently talking with a girlfriend who is a very successful companion in Boston, Massachusetts. For the sake of privacy, I shall refer to her as Brit. Brit ranks among the top 100 providers on TER, nationwide.

She has an attractive website and fantastic photos. What’s more, she’s a kind person with a heart of gold – you can tell in the first few minutes of speaking to her. She knows exactly what kind of man she likes. She even uses Google Analytics to track statistics on her website. She is a true professional, independent companion. Yet, she voiced some concerns and frustrations about the type of clientele attracted to her lately. She has been questioning what she might do differently. She will be joining the Club at City Girls. But then we got to talking about the gentlemen in her life and the types that she is attracted to. Together, we came up with many traits that she believes characterize a good hobbyist. Here’s what we discussed:

A gentleman should abide by a companion’s method of contact

Brit is very particular about how a hobbyist contacts her. She will not hesitate to disregard an inquiry from a potential, new client if he sends her a cryptic email instead of completing her contact form. She feels strongly about her preferred method because she is more of a dinner date/overnight type companion and is very selective. Yet, she struggles with this rigidity, wondering if she’s doing the right thing or selling herself short. Recently, she responded to a gentleman who contacted her by email. Hesitant to make the exception, she met the new hobbyist anyway. Reportedly, he was one of the best looking men she has ever met. Ladies, above all, listen to your intuition!

He should appreciate you and desire to see you beyond one date

I think we all know when we are being disrespected or unappreciated. As an independent escort, just because you are a professional entertainer does not mean that you must compromise your ethics or values for the sake of a date. Brit believes that because she has upheld her standards she has attracted a higher quality clientele. Now, one of her midterm goals is to increase the number of repeat clients whom she sees so that she can devote more quality time on a longer term basis. In Brit’s case, less is more.

Look for chemistry and harmony

Brit identified chemistry as one of the most important requirements when deciding whether or not to see a hobbyist. She emphasized that she must like her clients. And by ‘like’ she meant getting along well with them, sharing similar interests and being able to sustain a conversation. She looks for these features in a new hobbyist and feels that in doing so she is more likely to establish a longer term relationship. This also means that Brit turns down potential suitors. As a result, Brit has slowly transformed her business into one abundant with travel to exotic destinations, upscale dinner dates and really, pure enjoyment of life. Way to go, girl!

A man should pay attention to payment protocol and avoid negotiating

If ever a guy wants to ruffle the feminine feathers of a companion, all he has to do is insult her by discussing donations or the forbidden – negotiate. In Brit’s case, she will immediately end a date and cease from ever communicating with the hobbyist again. Stick to your guns, chicas!

A gentleman practices good hygiene that way you do

What woman finds attractive the hobbyist who shows up stale or stinky, not just freshly showered with minty breath and neatly shaven? It doesn’t take long for a man to groom himself and he most certainly takes less time than us girls. So what does it say about the man who smells from the day’s stress? It says a lot, my friends. We at City Girls believe that you shouldn’t compromise on such a standard because an ill-kept hobbyist is also one who does not respect you enough to take a 10-minute shower.

Your date should understand screening and adhere to your boundaries

At City Girls, an escort does not have to worry about screening because clients are pre-screened before she sees them. However, an independent escort such as Brit bears the burden of screening clients herself if she is to look out for her safety (another reason why she is joining City Girls). Assume your client has passed your screening process. Now, you must ensure that he understands and respects your boundaries. I talked about this in a previous article. Go here to find out more.

Question the legitimacy of gift-giving

I mean no offense to any gentleman who is wishes to embellish his date with the generosity of a gift! What girl will not be flattered? However, in the best interest of the girls, I am talking about the hobbyists who gives a gift laced with ulterior motives because he desires to manipulate her into doing something that she wouldn’t otherwise do. Brit talked about this. In fact, she does not accept gifts at all. I personally find that to be a bit extreme but it works for her. She prefers to avoid any complications, whatsoever. On the other hand, a gift given in all sincerity but denied by its recipient can offend the giver. It’s all about paying attention to the subliminal messages during your date.

What’s the formula for defining the perfect date?

Well, there is none. Wait! Before you get disappointed, re-read this article and others linked within. You will begin to see a pattern that emerges based upon your personal style and goals. Yes, escorting is a real job and therefore should have pre-defined goals. As your goals take shape, so will the quality of your clientele improve. These are words coming from Brit, a lady who has definitely carved her niche at the top in the world of independent escorting.

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Setting personal guidelines

The opposite of harmony is chaos. Chaos is disorder or confusion and that’s what you risk if you as an escort don’t set some personal guidelines by which to conduct your business. In the world of escorting, knowing where you stand ethically on a date can minimize jeopardizing your safety.

What hobbyists think of boundaries

Boundaries and personal guidelines both imply similar things. Whether or not a hobbyist frowns upon the notion of boundaries they are vital for every escort. Your personal guidelines should be in place long before you meet with your date. As an independent escort, you are the one in control of your life and when it comes to your date you set the mood and progression. Contrary to some opinions, whether or not he realizes it ahobbyist needs to get a sense of what your boundaries are. Otherwise, how will he know if you are the provider for him? Example: should he try to reach you by phone and you don’t answer because you only communicate by email he may get frustrated if you haven’t established your method of contact. I’m not suggesting that you hand your client a list of personal dos and don’ts. To name just a few, some of your personal guidelines might include:

  • Only communicating by email or text messaging (talking by phone is off limits for many escorts)
  • Not offering GFE (and knowing what the meaning entails)
  • Only offering PSE (and knowing what the meaning entails)
  • Meeting a client in a public place before proceeding with your date
  • Not allowing your client to video tape the two of you during your date
  • Not emailing personal photos to clients and knowing how to handle the requests
  • Not negotiating with your date (being prepared to end the date right then and there should you be placed in such a compromising position)
  • Requiring your client to be thoroughly screened even though he tries to persuade you otherwise (remember, as a Club Member of City Girls, your clients are automatically screened)
Armoring your emotions

You’ve just concluded a date with the man of your dreams. You are on cloud nine for he has showered you with attention and flattering gifts. What’s more, he’s the consummate gentleman, wealthy and debonair. What more could a girl ask for? But wait. Escorting is your job which excludes your heart! There is a fine line between what you ‘feel’ for a gentleman and ‘falling’ for him. Escorting, especially if you offer the girl friend experience, can be charged with emotions as you spend intimate time with your date, perhaps even connecting on an emotional and/or intellectual level. A smart escort knows where to draw the line at the moment she senses that her client may be getting a grip on her heart because she has established her personal guidelines in advance. These guidelines give her the confidence and perspective she needs to armor her emotions and navigate through the date as the professional that she is.

Your home is a safe haven

If you are one of those escorts who maintains an incall in your personal home, more power to you. Remember, that your home should be your sanctuary totally private and separate from escorting. As an escort, you are offering your time characterized by intimacy, deep communication and visual appearance every time you date a client. Not allowing clients into your home much less letting them know where you live is a personal guideline that City Girls strongly recommends for reasons surrounding your personal safety and livelihood. You never know when a client could get over zealous in his attraction to you and show up on your doorstep causing a potentially embarrassing situation or worse stalks you (no offense to gentlemanly hobbyists!).

Allowing a client to push your limits

Unfortunately, there are men who will test your limits. Adhering to your personal guidelines could save you from getting trapped in a precarious situation that could escalate into something more. (By the way, being a Club Member of City Girls is one of the best ways to minimize this risk to your personal safety as our VIP Members abide by high standards!) When an escort has established personal guidelines in which she truly believes, she is less likely to be intimidated by a man who overwhelms her by trying to push her limits. In the end, she will stand tall with dignity and respect.

Saying ‘No’ can be appealing

As we’ve talked about in previous articles, an escort who exudes self confidence is ultra sexy. City Girls believes that an independent escort who asserts her personal guidelines is more likely to attract a higher caliber of gentleman and maintain a repeat clientele. You must always consider your personal safety and guidelines first and foremost as your guiding factors. Nervously and frantically deciding in the moment to do something that a client has asked you to do with which you don’t feel comfortable is dangerous. When you have already established your personal guidelines, you prevent this crisis from happening. City Girls believes that you should not risk or sacrifice your dignity or safety in any way, shape or form! The most we can do is lend a helping hand with our sincere advice and insight. As an independent escort, the rest is up to you.

The Truth About City Girls VIP status and Other Tidbits

Here at City Girls, we receive more than 15 VIP applicants per day and that figure is steadily rising. Approval is a rigorous process manually completed by our staff. Mind you, not everyone is approved. Obtaining VIP status gets your foot in the door. Maintaining VIP status is the Golden Rule and in today’s discretion-driven world of hobbying outstanding etiquette is key to remaining in the Club.

This article talks about the points of interest to keep at the forefront of your mind for as long as you partake in the many benefits that City Girls has to offer.

What VIP status really means

  • It means that your stellar reputation with the ladies qualifies you to apply for VIP Membership with City Girls;
  • It means that we should receive positive feedback from every CG lady that you date;
  • It means that otherwise, your VIP status can be disabled at any time for failing to maintain your stellar reputation.

If you are thinking that City Girls is being stuck up, think again. The hobby is a fragile world built on a delicate foundation of discretion, privacy, safety, trust and good behavior. Or at least, it should be and these are the principles to which we religiously adhere. So really, we are looking out for you. In the end, you will experience indescribably phenomenal dates with women who are simply too beautiful. Do I hear any complaints?

Why does my City Girls VIP application take so long to get approved?

That’s a really good question. It’s sort of like going to a five-star restaurant. Your meal is not going to be prepared instantaneously. But chances are excellent that it is going to be delicious and well worth the wait. If you go to a fast food chain your food will be prepared instantly but will taste like a bald, rubber tire. Think of City Girls as your gourmet option in the hobbying world, well worth the wait.

As stated previously, each and every application is processed manually by our staff. Now, don’t run off with your tail between your legs. We want to make sure that all City Girls’ ladies are complimented by dates with true gentlemen. We process more than 15 VIP applications per day but this doesn’t mean that we don’t care about each individual. So if you haven’t heard back from us within a few days, by all means contact our support line. Our staff are always ready to help.

VIP login system improved

We’ve received feedback from some of our VIP Status Members about passing through the security point of the login system. We are responding with bells and whistles. Some members’ networks are not accepting text messages from our service provider. In response, our developers are constructing a script which will place a call to your cell phone with the code and should work with any operator. The caller ID will be blocked and placed only at the time of your log in process.

I know what you’re thinking and extend many apologies in advance. At City Girls, privacy and safety prevail over a user-friendly website. That’s just the nature of the beast wherein privacy is critical to the well being of our Club Members. When you put things into perspective, actually receiving the phone call with the code and entering the code where requested only takes a few moments of your time. This little shroud of added security enables City Girls to offer the added benefit of viewing exclusive content.

Escort video is forthcoming

Who said City Girls is not on the cutting edge? The video section is on its way. We are looking toward the beginning of 2013.

City Girls Loyalty Program, individual provider rates and discounts

There seems to be a wee bit of misconception floating amongst our VIP Status Members. To clarify, not all City Girls’ Club Members participate in the CG Loyalty Program. It is totally optional. Remember, they are all independent escorts. Some offer discounts while others do not. Donations are also independent, as well. Not to worry. Both discounts and donations are always confirmed at the time that you are scheduling your appointment so there is never any confusion.

Don’t forfeit your VIP membership!

It’s a beautiful thing. Don’t wait to appreciate what you had until after you’ve lost it. If you must wonder what could cause you to lose your coveted VIP status, then I recommend a crash course on gentlemanliness. Lack of respect is the main issue. For goodness sakes, guys, treat a lady like a lady or how you would like to be treated! It all goes without saying. There are many other reasons which shouldn’t have to be explained.

I rest my case.

A Guide to Safe Hobbying Using Computers, Cell Phones and Email

For most gentlemen, the hobby is a secretive world riddled with risk. Getting into the hobby can be a satisfying and exciting venture and even lead to rewarding friendships and relationships.

As a hobbyist, if you don’t take the necessary precautions, your actions can bring you down. We’re talking significant others, employers, friends or worse whose knowledge of your hobbying actions can trigger the demise of your lifestyle should they find out. City Girls believes in keeping it squeaky clean and you won’t have a thing to think about.

Well, except for your next earth shattering engagement with a supremely attractive City Girls’ club member.

Securitizing your computer while hobbying

I know, I know. You’ve heard it before. But seriously. If you don’t get into a stringent habit of eradicating all trace of hobbying on your computer, not doing so could come back to bite you in the booty and bring you down if discovered by the wrong person. Think of clearing the browsing data on your computer as equivalent to brushing your teeth. It’s something that must (or should) be done frequently. Clearing the browsing data includes:

  1. Clearing browsing history
  2. Clearing download history
  3. Emptying the cache
  4. Deleting cookies and other site data
  5. Clearing saved passwords
  6. Clearing saved auto fill form data

Steps involved in cleaning your computer vary from browser to browser whether you use Internet Explorer, Mozilla Firefox, Google Chrome or Apple Safari (there are many more of course, but these are the most widely used). Follow these basic steps and you’ll be on the safe track:

  1. Go to your computer’s tool bar and click on ‘tools’
  2. Click on ‘internet tools’
  3. Click on ‘delete files’ and delete all offline content
  4. Click on ‘delete cookies’
  5. Click on ‘clear history’
  6. Click on ‘clear saved passwords’ (otherwise, the next person on your computer could possibly be privy to your user ID and password!)
  7. Click on ‘internet options’
  8. Click on the ‘content’ tab
  9. Go to ‘auto complete’
  10. Click on ‘clear forms’
  11. Click on ‘clear passwords’

Deleting programs on your computer

While there are many programs out there that profess to erase programs from your computer, CC Cleaner works well, is free and shouldn’t slow down your computer’s processor.

Use your corporate email while hobbying and risk falling into a booby trap

Rule of thumb: when hobbying, never correspond using your corporate email account. Consider the IT department of your employer as Big Brother when it comes to monitoring your e-actions. Can you imagine the embarrassment of getting fired for what would be considered unsavory activity?

Don’t get a false sense of safety if you are using a corporate laptop just because you can transport it outside of the office. Laptops can crash just like computers. And if you’re in the middle of some titillating hobbying activity and that puppy goes down, it has to go in to corporate for evaluation and subsequent repair. Imagine getting caught with your pants down.

Establish a separate email account

Would you wear a suit to a foot ball game? Jock shorts and a t-shirt to a corporate meeting? Hardly appropriate. Your regular email account should not be associated with any of your hobbying activity. Period. Hushmail is a secure, web-based, free email service that protects your privacy by adding strong encryption on a web based server. It’s the best way to go.

Negating the suspicious significant other

Naturally, how a gentleman chooses to conduct his private life is just that – private. City Girls turns the other cheek to unethical activity. However, if your significant other suspects and starts snooping, he or she could install hidden software on your computer that captures key strokes and records all that you do, or, uh, type into your computer. Further elaboration on this topic is left to technical gurus but you get the idea.

When you are surfing provider’s sites, for heaven’s sake, don’t add any sites to your list of favorites. Even if you don’t add any favorites manually, check that list frequently as some sites may do it automatically. Think discretion, discretion, discretion!

Now that I’ve gotten you on the right track, do I really need to say this? Okay. Don’t store any incriminating material on your computer such as provider photos, gripping emails or other potentially damaging information that could contribute to your demise. Store them in your heart and memory. Delete the rest.

And then there’s your printer. There’s a good chance that you might print out directions to an exciting engagement that you have planned with a club member from City Girls. It may not matter at the moment, but if your printer runs out of paper, what if there were pages left to print? In your haste, what if you accidentally selected multiple copies? It happens to the best of us, especially when your date is drop dead gorgeous and has left your fingers trembling with anticipation as you hit the print button. There, sitting in your computer lurks evidence of your hobbying activity just awaiting discovery.

Cell phones can be your best friend or your worst enemy

The shadow of a cell phone is its call log. It never goes away. If you use your personal or corporate cell phone to communicate with providers, know that the call log traces all of that activity. Can you imagine if your employer investigated that call log? No, no no. It’s a good idea to have a hobby phone dedicated strictly to the hobby. It goes without saying that the phone should be password protected and that only you have access to the bills or online account. And it should remain invisible. Many verification services require that you call from a phone number that they have registered with you. Worst case scenario, you can always purchase a prepaid cell phone. Just remember to modify the number with those services.

The safest way to secure your privacy

There is a handy little device out there called Ironkey. Ironkey offers the safest USB flash drive imaginable. We will explore Ironkey further in an upcoming article under the category Safety

City Girls believes in transparency

When you start getting caught up in all the fun as a VIP club member you’ll understand why. In the meantime, this article provides you with the homework to safeguard your activity, rendering you armed and dangerous, so to speak. When City Girls’ club members catch on to your savvy behavior, you’ll become highly sought after and your VIP status will soar!