Have You Ever Fallen in Love With Your Date?

You had only good intentions. Keep things simple and safe. Just dabble in a bit of fun on the side with a bombshell brunette. You know. Kick up your heels a bit and put the F back into fun. The wife’s content with her world and you’re both on decent terms; work’s going great and the mortgage is almost paid off. But then, you done went and fell in love. Seriously?

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The heart is never invited to those steamy encounters

But on this particular date things were different. Maybe it’s because life is fairly bland and hasn’t thrown you any curves balls in a while so your guards were down. Or, perhaps a hint of loneliness has been tugging at your psyche for a while and this companion pushed all of your emotional buttons. She actually fulfilled you in more ways than just with frolic. Somehow, things felt so right during those few hours and you felt ardently on top of the world. She left you with a hop in your step but more importantly, a swell in your chest because you’ve been with butterflies ever since.

A hobbyist is not supposed to fall in love

But it happens. Heck, we’ve even seen a gent and his escort tie the knot. Sugar arrangements are probably a more common answer to intense romance – when you must see your muse on a regular basis otherwise you can’t function properly. In a way, such an emotional entanglement can present a sort of ball and chain in that it robs you of the very freedom you enjoyed going into the whole hobbying thing in the first place. Or not.

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She makes you feel young again

Now, gents. Youthfulness is a state of mind and can be robbed of your soul at any age. If you’ve been working your tail off for decades and intimacy at home is in the refrigerator, her affection just might manifest the juvenescence in you. Voila! It’s sensual spring time and and you have a new lease on life.

The prime of your life renewed

Not only are you hizzit’n the skizzins like a virile 18-year old into the wee morning hours, but this chick gets off riding the flagpole like a wild cowgirl and has rendered you immortal in the process. You’ve got your mojo back and that glow about you shows. It’s just that her incredible body void of even an ounce of baby fat and those succulent lips drive you mad with desire. Whatever self- control you used to have is nowhere to be found and your brain is on holiday for the heart rules. Sure, all those yummy escorts you’ve dated over the years were epic but none of them ever had a vice grip on your heart.

Maybe it’s that small golden talisman that she wears on her nude person

Or the way her long hair falls about you when she’s…well, you know. Or perhaps it’s because she listens intently to everything you say and doesn’t ask too many questions, only to respond with another round of kisses. Her energy is unfettered; her inhibitions nonexistent. Her attitude is untainted; her desire for pleasure lustfully unconstrained. When the timing is right, no man can resist.

When does it end?

Only fate knows the answer. But for sure, when it is supposed to. Most important is not to muck things up with drama. Keep your affair neat, clean and confidential. Never spill the beans about your private life, personal affairs or those of your wife and kids (if you have them). Should your relationship ever turn South, the last thing you want to face is a confrontation or worse, a divorce. Enjoy the ride while you can because you never know if it will be the last.

Be Mine You Sultry Valentine

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February is a month of romance. If you are a hobbyist with a passionate heart who thrives on the girl friend experience then this is the day for you! How do you love her? Let us count the ways! Aristotle said that love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies. When you are strongly attracted to someone on an emotional and/or sexual level it is called love. There are many different types of love.

Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age.” Anais Nin

The legend of Saint Valentine

According to the Catholic Church, legend has it that Saint Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II declared that single men made better soldiers than those married with families, he outlawed marriage for young men. Realizing the injustice of the decree, Valentine defied Claudius by performing secret marriages for young lovers. Later, Claudius ordered that Valentine be put to death.

 “Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place.” Zora Neale Hurston

sexy valentines gift, rose
sexy valentines gift, rose

What love will do to a person

There are those hobbyists and gentlemen who fall head over heels in love with a companion. We have heard many stories about independent escorts who develop deep feelings as well. When such a situation occurs, a companion may let her emotional guard down and allow herself to be known on a personal and intimate level. She may even retire from her profession and actually marry her client.

How will you celebrate Valentine’s Day?

Whether you fancy love, lust or simply the company of a beautiful lady friend, it is best not to wait until she might be unavailable on this very special day. Ask your desired companion to be your valentine as soon as possible, if you have not done so already! What gift will you give to her? If it is red roses, call your local florist and reserve your bouquet as soon as you finish reading this article. Begin the evening by toasting a glass of champagne (ask her for her favorite bubbly or take a bottle of Veuve Clicquot). Build the romance by taking her to dinner at a spectacular restaurant (again, make that reservation as soon as possible). For those hobbyists who really want to create an evening that neither of you will ever forget, plan to spend the entire night together.

valentines day gift surprise
valentines day gift surprise

It’s your party – wear what you want!

If you are a sugar daddy who is feeling exceedingly romantic and wants your sugar baby to shimmer with delight, lingerie is the answer. But not just any lingerie. Agent Provocateur features stunningly seductive, lacey ensembles that are second to none in quality, elegance and originality. What an inspiration for love of epic proportion! Once again, place your order after you have finished reading this article and order overnight delivery. While we have talked about this subject in past articles, selecting red lingerie even in honor of this romantic holiday should be carefully considered. Red is a rather fickle color and does not compliment every independent escort’s figure. Pink is a safe and black is guaranteed!


Emphasize details that bring out the naughty of the night

Chances are very good that she will plan nuances of the evening. As a hobbyist, you can contribute by communicating your plans for the evening, where you will be taking her, what you might desire her to wear, etc. Will your hotel suite feature a fire place? Will there be a balcony? Separate sleeping quarters? Plenty of space that the two of you can explore from top to bottom? Last but by no means least, what will the morning bring? Plan to have toothbrush and mouthwash waiting in the bathroom to leave you minty fresh in preparation to greet her sleepy kiss at daybreak.

Some of the most romantic and memorable experiences are enjoyed between hobbyists and independent escorts

Valentine’s Day is an opportunity to give and receive delectable gifts of pleasure. As you create riveting bouts of love and lust remember your friends here at City Girls!

How to Marry an Escort

You have met the perfect escort. She is your soul mate, beautiful inside and out. What’s more, the two of you have fallen in love! How do you deal with her job? This week’s article will talk about a plan of action when a gentleman wants to marry an escort.

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As a hobbyist, you have fallen in love with an escort. The emotion and physical gratification bestowed upon a gentleman from such feminine perfection can be overwhelming, leaving your emotions in a state of total confusion. If the love is genuine and not coated with infatuation, the two of you will inevitably face decisions on adapting your respective lifestyles to join together in some form of marriage (spiritual, traditional, religious). Though they do exist, successful escort marriages are far and few between that form lasting relationships in which the escort continues to entertain other gentlemen in what would constitute a non-conventional relationship. As a soon-to-be-retired hobbyist, below are a few questions to ask yourself after your heart has riveted your world and taken the lead:

Will she stop escorting?

If your new love does not enjoy her work in the adult entertainment industry, then it will be easier for her to retire. But if she is rather vested in what she does and has a tendency to bond more intimately with friends, it is possible that she will find it a little more difficult to break away permanently.

Is she addicted to a lucrative income and luxurious lifestyle?

A companion who enjoys her career as a professional entertainer may find the lifestyle flattering and rewarding. If you as her new found love can match that comfort level then the strength of transitioning into marriage is strong. Such a situation does not render you a sugar daddy or her a sugar baby for that matter because love forms the foundation.

Is she attached to relationships that define her escort identity?

Many companions form durable friendships with their gentlemen friends that shape their individuality as entertainers and confidantes. Much of their time spent together includes plush entertainment and opulent travel reinforced by gentlemanly attention that nurtures and flatters their egos. While entering into a marriage by two people from any type of background can be challenging in today’s complicated world, doing so by an escort can be rigorous. Marital partners should be prepared to acknowledge awareness of each others’ pasts and be prepared to meet their respective needs to the best of their abilities.

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New career, new start concept

What will be the direction of her new career, if any?

Assuming she chooses to retire, the independent escort who has outside aspirations will adapt to her new, conventional marriage by pursuing her ambitions. How exciting as her new and true identity takes form! As her husband, you the gentleman should be nothing but supportive (as should she be of you) so as to insulate the transition and ensure peacefulness within the marriage.

Success stories of married escorts who maintain their careers

There are married couples who swing while maintaining open relationships. There are those escorts whose husbands accept continuance of their work with an open mind. In the latter, most at some point do retire if for no other reason than to relieve the strain that escorting can place on a marriage with a man who desires not to share the intimacy of his woman with other men. All being said there are no rules in life except those that work. Dance to your own tune but follow your instinct and find the strength to ask yourself questions addressed in this article.

Mastering Charisma: How to Make Women Fall for You, Part II

Last month we talked about the power of charisma and how a man can have women falling at his feet. In this article, we will delve a little deeper into attaining this powerful, unseen dynamic called charisma.

Become aware of how you sound and come across to others

The morning began with traffic resulting in tardiness at your first meeting. The day proceeds with skipping lunch and ends with a headache. For a hobbyist, this scenario is certainly not a precursor for an upbeat mood when meeting with an independent escort. What you say and how you come across may be muddied by your attitude without even realizing it. Of course, she is going to relax you and make you feel better and then some. However, as a hobbyist you want her to like you and desire you. Now more than ever is the time to be aware of your disposition and try a little harder to watch your words and tone of voice. Your efforts will pay off tenfold!

Optimize your posture

Poor posture suggests many things: bad attitude, insecurity, lack of confidence, even discontent. As a hobbyist, you do not need to be Brad Pitt to radiate charisma with goodposture and it doesn’t matter how much you weigh. Practicing good posture is actually pretty easy but takes a little conscientiousness, especially if you are a sloucher. Pull your shoulders back. Lengthen your neck and keep your chin up. Be aware of when the old posture sets in (and it will for a while) and consciously correct yourself. This is a million dollar tip!

Smile and make eye contact

You may be thinking, “But I don’t like my smile. I am self-conscious because of my teeth” or something of that nature. The purpose of a smile is not to convey that you had braces or just had your teeth whitened. A smile is a priceless form of electric magnetism that will always, I repeat, always draw an escort to your side. Women love men who smile. Heck, men love women who smile! A smile communicates confidence, warmth, openness, approachability and sexiness. A hobbyist who can use smiling to his advantage (in all genuineness, of course) will win the heart of his companion every time!

Give her the opportunity to meet you

There are certain gestures and objects that can communicate defensiveness when meeting with another person. For example, standing at a bar facing the counter conveys that you are unapproachable; stand facing away from the bar. Conversing with your arms crossed over your chest conveys arrogance or defiance. Turning your back to reach for an object (such as a cocktail on the table) can make your date feel awkward. As ahobbyist, try to stay open and disarming when meeting with an independent escort and reap the benefits of your efforts.

Success with charisma is at your fingertips

At City Girls, we believe that for hobbyists and independent escorts alike, all things are attainable if you want them badly enough. By studying these basic yet powerful tips and with a little effort, achieving charisma will certainly bring many happy endings!