Screening-The Danger and Uncertainty of Reference Checking, Part I

Screening of hobbyists and providers is a critical process that is not to be taken lightly. Otherwise, you are swimming in turbulent waters by placing every aspect of your life deadcenter in the hands of a stranger when meeting with a person whom you do not know. Even if you have met with that person before and the date was a success, their true identity is not guaranteed. Or is it?

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At one point, City Girls was the new kid on the block

Sure, we were experienced in the field of professional dating, but we lacked the trust of our peers because no one knew where we came from. Faced by skepticism of others in the industry, we relied upon reference checking, verification services and other methods, processes that were anything but reliable. It is a confession that we cringe to admit. A surefire method, employment verification was a process that we only dreamed about.

Why bother with employment verification?

Still green in the tedious process of verification, we weren’t really interested in this method. Reference checking seemed sufficient. Why not? Everyone else was doing it — and still is, for that matter. But at some point, the problems began.

Old school verification methods guarantee risk

With a growing sense of uncertainty came the decision to review our verification policies. Because reference checking is not a foolproof answer to safety, problems naturally surfaced. Most notably was an incident involving a moron that had been ‘verified’ by an Asian-run agency in New Jersey. It was the year 2013. Upon entering the hotel suite to greet his date, this idiot proceeded to ransack the room for anything he could grab. The independent escort screamed at the top of her lungs for help which scared him away, but not before he took off with her mobile phone. Thank you, Asian agency for opening our eyes to the perils of reference checking! We were terribly relieved that the escort’s life was not endangered.

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An incident that could have cost lives and our Club was the moment of truth
What if that creep had been a psychopath? Sexual predator? No one wants to think about the potential consequences. Through this crisis, we realized that all information provided by this jerk was false. Moreover, we certainly had to consider the disturbing possibility that the entire predicament was a scam orchestrated by the Asian agency in an effort to jeopardize the good standing of City Girls! It was at this point that we banned the entire reference checking process.

Renee, owner of Après Vous Agency enlightened us

It was a booming year for City Girls as we were calling everyone in their mother for reference checks. Après Vous was no exception. Just imagine the volume of outgoing calls when you consider the fact that we were verifying hundreds of hobbyists on a monthly basis. We recall our first and only phone conversation with Renee that is forever seared in our memories. Keep in mind that this female business owner is kind, respectful and patient. But on this occasion, she was annoyed by the volume of our incoming calls (around ten per day) we were imposing upon her staff, often during peak business hours. What other solution did we have to verify our members? During our fifteen minute conversation with Renee, we learned vital information that set the course of the future for City Girls Club: rather than bogging down phone lines with bothersome calls for references, why not use employment verification? Thank you, Renee! The rest is history.

City Girls discovered the silver lining of that dangerous occurrence

Every member’s name had to be verified before scheduling a date and every member’s identification had to be shown at the beginning of an appointment. Subsequently, things felt right. Authenticity ensures accountability when you know a gentleman’s true identity. Such a method breeds trust between two people who are meeting for the first time. Without this obligation, a gentleman is not liable for his actions in that he is given free reign to violate or worse, harm an escort and thereby capable of vanishing without a trace. What recourse would we have had with the agency reference who verified this dude? None.

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The shocking truth revealed after verification policy change

A statistical pattern surfaced:

About 90% of names were either fake or modified;
Nine out of ten guys used names different than the names that showed on their IDs.

Wow! Where was the safety in reference checking if in fact, none of the data provided was accurate? We were mortified to learn that had we continued to use the reference checking process, we might have under minded the confidence of thousands of City Club members who entrusted us with their loyalty and safety. Since then, we have not encountered any issues with the security of our members.

 

Stay tuned for our next article about screening

Part two in a series of three, look for our next article about The Secure Method of Employment Verification. See you there!

Happy Sexy Cinco de Mayo!

Hola Papacitas! In Spanish, that’s a warm welcome to all you debonair hobbyists out there trolling our website for a smokin’ hot independent escort on el Cinco de Mayo. Have we got any spicy specials? Si, Claro! But of course! Read on love enthusiasts, read on…

El Cinco de Mayo began in Mexico back in 1862 when the Mexican army triumphantly defeated French forces at the Battle of Puebla. Imagine the curvaceous acompaños (escorts) that awaited General Ignacio Zaragoza Seguín to glorify him with their Latina kisses when he arrived home. What will you do to commemorate the fiesta?

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Bailando con su fecha

Dancing with your date is a great way to kick off the sensuous festivities that await His Highness. Throwing back a few cervezas with your compadres is certainly well-deserved but where is that passionate mamacita in all of her physical splendor when the Mariachi band begins? Picture her long, shapely legs in mile high stilettos leading up to her bubble derriere beneath a micro mini skirt. She gives new meaning to salsa dancing, twisting that razor thin navel and bouncing those magnificent tetas all around you. Dios Mio! What is an hombre to do?

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We’re talking super caliente! Diehard curves, chiches delicious (grande or pequeña – you choose), firm posteriors and angelic features all accented in silky threads of intimate apparel. Most of that sexy attire is nothing more than a ceremonious veiling waiting for your hands to do the honors. What’s your pleasure?

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On this joyous, margarita-filled occasion

Careful with the tequila and certainly don’t eat the worm. You’re going to need every ounce of your sobriety to soak up these delectable dolls dripping with desire who aim to please.

Attention! All you bikini bombshell worshipers

In observance of this south of the border holiday, City Girls is honoring its VIP members with a Cinco de Mayo Special you won’t want to miss. For only 250 per hour, you can celebrate the occasion with any of our participating independent escorts who will rock your world on the 5th of May.

Specials at City Girls Abound

Already have plans on el Cinco de Mayo that you just can’t break? Don’t fret, my friend. We are always thinking about our VIP gents which is why you should always check our Specials Page to see what goodies await your indulgence!

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Putting the Tickle in Your Tax Day

Procrastinators, listen up! This tax season we can all thank President Abraham Lincoln for three extra days of scrambling to get your tax returns filed. For some of you pussyfooting hobbyists, this federal delay could present an opportunity to have some escort-lovin’ fun.

Happy Emancipation Day, America!

It’s called D.C. Emancipation Day, that holiday known by few outside of the District. Emancipation Day marks the signing by President Lincoln of the Emancipation Act of 1862 which abolished slavery. Since D.C. will celebrate on Friday, April 15th, the 2016 tax season deadline has been pushed forward to Monday, April 18th. We think the arrangement provides a great incentive to get a little patriotic with a bodacious blonde with a sizzling hot bod.

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When you just can’t be bothered

Or perhaps you will be bothered all night by that delicious brunette independent escort and don’t have the time to file your returns in which case think ahead and file for an extension. You’ll be needing that IRS form 4868 which your CPA should know all about. You gents whose returns stack more than three inches know what we’re talking about. If your tax returns pile high, chances are excellent you own at least a business or two, maybe more and Uncle Sam is waiting with open hands (we’re waiting with two yummy dames). If you’ve got the accountant in your back pocket as you should by now, he’s sure to pinch and scrimp here and there, shaving off enough bucks to fuel a night on the town with a few of our shapely babes. Can you say… ménage à trois?

Make good on your two-day tax reprieve

A jaw-dropping muse with tight curves and hellacious mounds is waiting to celebrate Emancipation Day with you. Chances are excellent she’ll be adorned in star-spangled lingerie displaying a tremendous amount of skin smooth enough to freeze any bank account. As we take this time of year to bow down to the omnipotent IRS, your lady will bow down to the almighty wonder that is your manhood. What an experience to savor!

For those folks who really drag their feet

The IRS is not going to take a rain check if you do not file your tax returns on time. Rather, they’ll hit you up with a penalty which you could otherwise spend on taking your lovely date to dinner. If you are a delaying tax payer, your best bet is to find a post office in your area that closes late so as to acquire the necessary April 18th date stamp on your manila envelope. Put a hop in your step by scheduling a midnight rendezvous immediately following deliverance at the post office. If you contact us early enough, we’ll arrange a date with one of our exquisite blonde bombshells who will spend the earlier part of the evening primping herself to your liking. Grab a bottle of fine bubbly on the way and she’ll greet you with open arms and a sensual hug. What a fabulous way to bid farewell to the IRS and set sail for another fiscal year!

Talking About Bikini Zones

How do you like your ladyscape? We are talking below the beauty belt, the most highly coveted of all luxury femme spots. This juicy diameter of sensual real estate is the most highly sought after of all love zones where a man likes to nestle his netherrod as frequently as possible. We’ve heard from hundreds of hobbyists about how they like their vajayjays and this is what they told us:

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The Brazilian

 

Also known as the Hollywood or the Sphinx, The Brazilian is the Queen of all waxes. Bagging the bush is definitely the preferred style for the majority of gents who date our velvety-smooth, independent escorts. As soft as a baby’s butt is the resulting texture of a lady’s most Southern region with not a fuzz to be found. Period. The muse that regularly waxes her well-appointed mound and areas found further below bares the most erotic of looks sure to drive her man out of his honey-lovin’ mind.

No lady garden left unattended

Waxing doesn’t exactly tickle and therefore isn’t for the faint of heart. For many escorts, there is an alternative method of maintaining a clean conejo that produces the same delicious sans carpet style that you all love. Shaving has evolved into an art form, an intimate ceremony between a lady and her flower that if ever witnessed by you kitty-obsessed dudes would surely get you off with hardly a stroke. The attention with which she pays her hoo-hee starts with a long soak in a hot bath (just imagine her curves glistening through the suds as she massages herself so as to soften the skin prior to trimming). She then proceeds to groom her fleece until it is no more. She will conclude with yet another massage of perfumed oil to preserve this most succulent of areas in preparation for the fun to follow.

 

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Trimmed and tidy

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For the man aroused by a subtle shade of au naturel, this is the way to go. Of course, an escort must never style her canyon coiffure without first knowing her final destination. If she is especially creative, she may opt for a heart, floral or triangular shape for some extra added surprise. If she is of the brunette variety, that frisky shape will peek right through her lacy lingerie, beckoning immediate attention from who other than her admirer of the evening.

The Landing Strip

A glimpse of natural womanhood is the theme for this well-intentioned look quite arousing for the gent who loves his independent escort to catwalk in nothing more than her stilettos. It is a calculated groom, angular in nature and requires a mirror for accuracy. To achieve a precision look, many escorts opt for a partial Brazilian wax which implies to her date that she really cares about making a good impression.

Beauty bling for lady bits

Ooh la la! For the poon aficionado who likes his punani sparkling with jewels, the Vajazzle is the macdaddy of looks. Foofed out with a delicate flower, butterfly, heart or the like, her pelvic area is adorned with a delicate decoration that delivers one message to her inamorato: come and get me you big, handsome hunk. What man on this pink mink earth could resist?

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How do you like your honey pot?

As you all know, City Girls would not be the Club that it is today if we didn’t poke and probe our VIP members for their valuable opinions. This is why we want to know what your preference is!

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Are You a Peculiar Hobbyist?

There are gentlemen in the hobby with uncommon characteristics. They may have idiosyncrasies that separate them from the ‘average’ hobbyist in the form of physical, psychological or circumstantial conditions. Here at City Girls, we consider every person as an equal, no matter their persuasion, ethnicity, physical state or social status.

This article reaches out to such hobbyists while also speaking to independent escorts who may spend time in the future with these unique gentlemen.

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Physically disabled hobbyists

Such a gentleman may be bound to a wheelchair, rely upon medical devices/equipment or struggle with diabetes, obesity or excessive weight. Despite his physical limitations, he has needs just like every other man. It takes an independent escort with a compassionate and empathetic personality to accommodate him both on physical and emotional levels. As a result of his physical restrictions, this hobbyist may require a handicap-accessible location and special attention to an environment that will address his condition. He may not be able to perform like other men and will benefit from an escort who can bend her policies and services while retaining her personal and professional comfort level. His self-esteem may be delicate and require a gentle companion who can reinforce his confidence. A companion who spends time with a disabled hobbyist has a lot to think about in advance and should consider every detail very carefully.

Hobbyists with mental challenges

An independent escort should carefully consider her ability, desire and safety when entertaining a gentleman with any sort of clinically mental issue. Does this hobbyist deal with a neurosis? If so, what symptoms characterize the illness? Is he bi-polar, paranoid or schizophrenic? The right provider will accept his disorder as part of a normal lifestyle for him and place special emphasis on friendship and understanding. He will value her companionship and might even become a very loyal client.

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The importance of diet and medication

An escort should never entertain a client without first confirming his physical

and mental dispositions and any dietary limitations and medicinal requirements. A hobbyist who fails to take his meds can present a life and death situation to an independent escort, thereby placing her livelihood and safety at risk. If he has severe allergies, she should know about them in advance. If he is diabetic, she should ensure that she offers him appropriate snacks. She must confirm in advance and at the time of greeting that he has taken any required medication on a timely basis. Further, she should rely upon her intuition, her ‘gut instinct’ if you will, whether or not she feels that he is being truthful.

Hobbyists with physical deficiencies

Physical birth defects, deformities from arthritis, malformed limbs, and scars from burns or car accidents alter the physique of this hobbyist. A companion should be secure within herself, knowing and accepting that he is human with feelings and needs just like every other person on this planet. Never should she judge him or form a negative opinion. Part of her job as a professional companion is to reassure him that she accepts him for the person he is.

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Hobbyists accompanied by others

A gentleman may request an escort to visit him in his home if he is a caretaker. There are actually some hobbyists who either care for elderly parents or are elderly persons themselves. The situation may be perfectly safe. However, an independent escort should use extreme caution in ensuring that the arrangement will not adversely impact her safety, discretion and privacy. Though this type of occasion seems unusual, it is probably perfectly realistic for the client who will appreciate his companion’s services. Again, an escort must always exercise good judgment when determining the truthfulness of her client and the authenticity of the encounter.

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A hobbyist should fully disclose any uncommon physical or mental challenges to his companion. In turn, an escort should do her homework educating and preparing herself in advance. The hobbyist should not take advantage of his escort and neither should get emotionally attached. When both parties are prepared, the groundwork will be in place for a fantastic encounter.

How to Give Gifts to an Escort

Many hobbyists find the notion of giving gifts to their escorts quite romantic. It could be on the first date or several dates after they have established a sense of familiarity with the same lady.

Naturally, a polite and well-mannered companion will be content with the mere gesture of receiving a man’s token of affection no matter his gift of choice. We have come up with some helpful tips and guidelines for gift-giving guys to follow in hopes of brightening their dates and the smiles of many beautiful ladies who adorn them with their presence.

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How mundane are flowers, champagne and wine?

Although they are considered your average and most obvious gifts of choice, any one or combination is sure to please. Unless you know specifically what type of flower she favors, stick with classic and elegant red roses and champagne. Every woman loves flowers and will be thrilled to toast to a sip of champagne even if she does not drink the entire glass. Some independent escorts are more particular about what flowers they like (orchids, tulips, lilies, etc.

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Dare to get a bit more intimate!

Giving lingerie is always an exciting prospect which every woman can put to good use (always to the visual benefit of the gift giver himself!). However, it might be a wise and safe decision to wait until after you have seen her a few times and gotten a flavor for what she likes and the sizes that she wears. Unless she informs you otherwise, black is a safe bet. Unless she clearly educates you on such lacy details, stay away from risky colors such as red, brown, burgundy, turquoise, pink and white until you know her better. Certain colors may clash with her skin tone or she simply may not favor your choice. Keep the styles simple and do your best to select sizes that you believe will fit her (um, spy on her bra and panty size when she’s not looking).

Go out on a limb with something really practical

Many independent escorts feature well-prepared wish lists on their personal websites that put to rest any question about the ideal gift that will make her day. Without that lifesaver of a guideline, what’s a gentleman to do? For starters, take note of her obvious personal belongings (without prying, of course) such as her computer, cellular phone, interest in music, favorite day spa, preferred destination, frequently flown airlines and the list goes on. Because so many ladies rely solely on their livelihood as independent escorts, they prefer to receive practical gifts. This is where gift certificates carry a lot of weight. Does she like to shop at Whole Foods? Would she get excited by a household shopping spree at Bed, Bath and Beyond? How about a year’s supply of special pet food for her dog or cat? Some ladies are thrilled when their gentlemen friends contribute to a charitable organization of their choice.

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How pricey can you get?

For the truly enamored suitor, there is always Agent Provocateur, a top-of-the-line lingerie retailer. This sophisticated, glamorous boutique may be accessed online for discreet selection. Obviously, you have to purchase in advance with a destination and delivery date in mind. The world of AP has a gentleman’s best interest in mind with their virtual, personal shopper to ensure the perfect purchase with delicious hints of fantasy to add savoir faire to your date. AP is not for the financially faint hearted so have your pocket book ready. For the financially well-endowed sugar daddy who feels confident about his relationship with his sugar baby, perhaps a new car or investment in her entrepreneurial venture becomes you. We’ve heard of such occurrences on several occasions!

Everyone loves receiving gifts

At the end of the day, even a small box of chocolates will tug at the hearts of most companions. Women are just that way though many independent escorts tend to be a wee bit extravagant. Perhaps the thrill of a dainty necklace ‘accidentally’ nestled between succulent truffles isn’t a bad idea!

Scrumptious kisses, Chloe xoxo

Psychology of a Healthy Escort

A woman chooses to become an independent escort for a variety of reasons. For some readers, the first thing they think of might be the social stigma surrounding a woman who is an escort. Other gentlemen may read these words with nothing but fond memories of service providers (as some like to be called) who are incredible women in their eyes.

We thought it would be interesting to explore some of the more common traits of an independent escort from a non-escort and non-hobbyist point of view.

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An independent escort comes from a troubled childhood

This conception is probably one of the most common in conventional society and recognized among some hobbyists. However, one must consider that if we took a hard look at the psychological profile of every non-escort in their profession what we may learn. The point is that most individuals in the general population do not come from storybook backgrounds. While an independent escort may have grown up in a dysfunctional home, she became an adult capable of making rational decisions. However, social spotlight glares on the profession due to the intimate nature of her work, opening her to harsh criticism.

A professional dater hates men

The most obvious pre-requisites for becoming an independent escort are to radiate exceptional beauty and sport a heart stopping figure. Biologically, women are wired to think with their hearts, blurring the lines between emotion and intellect. The most demanding and unspoken requirement of an independent escort is an iron clad ability to maintain distinction between personal and professional feelings and conduct. The task comes easier to some than to others. She must constantly check her reality to make sure that she has not lost her balance in life. The task can be quite dangerous and draining. This is one reason why many companions take breaks from their profession. They need to regroup and reclaim a sense of self. An independent escort must essentially go against her biological grain and maintain distinction between professional and personal. It is a constant psychological workout. She must always remember that her persona is not really her but a distant reflection of who she is at best. When she allows reality and fantasy to mingle, she loses control not only of herself but of her business. She gets hurt. When this happens continuously, she may grow to dislike men.

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Style redhead independent escortl with shopping bags.

A professional entertainer loves her job

She is the companion, courtesan or independent escort who has learned to navigate the sometimes treacherous waters of professional intimacy. It is an inherent talent that comes natural to her. Such an independent escort knows when to ‘check out’. In other words, she knows when she has finished work and can resume her personal life. A courtesan has mastered balancing the opposing worlds of reality and fantasy and is empowered as a result. Even still, she knows to retreat at some point to rejuvenate and nurture her sense of self.

The wise escort is discerning about who she entertains

Associating with a club such as City Girls provides her with an insurance policy of sorts. She is provided with the peace of mind that her suitors are gentlemen who will treat her with respect. But the escort who is not backed by such a club (or any reputable agency) is on her own. She will not date just anyone for the sake of a date. She has adopted a business model, so to speak. She has a clear vision of what defines her clientele and does not stray from a process that is tried and true. She couples mandatory screening with a refined intuition that work in concert to keep her safe and her business lucrative. The results are magnificent! Her formula attracts clients who compliment her. In turn, her reputation flourishes. Her success snowballs and suddenly her profession as an independent escort flows.

With a multitude of kisses, Chloe xoxo

Be Mine You Sultry Valentine

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February is a month of romance. If you are a hobbyist with a passionate heart who thrives on the girl friend experience then this is the day for you! How do you love her? Let us count the ways! Aristotle said that love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies. When you are strongly attracted to someone on an emotional and/or sexual level it is called love. There are many different types of love.

Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age.” Anais Nin

The legend of Saint Valentine

According to the Catholic Church, legend has it that Saint Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II declared that single men made better soldiers than those married with families, he outlawed marriage for young men. Realizing the injustice of the decree, Valentine defied Claudius by performing secret marriages for young lovers. Later, Claudius ordered that Valentine be put to death.

 “Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place.” Zora Neale Hurston

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What love will do to a person

There are those hobbyists and gentlemen who fall head over heels in love with a companion. We have heard many stories about independent escorts who develop deep feelings as well. When such a situation occurs, a companion may let her emotional guard down and allow herself to be known on a personal and intimate level. She may even retire from her profession and actually marry her client.

How will you celebrate Valentine’s Day?

Whether you fancy love, lust or simply the company of a beautiful lady friend, it is best not to wait until she might be unavailable on this very special day. Ask your desired companion to be your valentine as soon as possible, if you have not done so already! What gift will you give to her? If it is red roses, call your local florist and reserve your bouquet as soon as you finish reading this article. Begin the evening by toasting a glass of champagne (ask her for her favorite bubbly or take a bottle of Veuve Clicquot). Build the romance by taking her to dinner at a spectacular restaurant (again, make that reservation as soon as possible). For those hobbyists who really want to create an evening that neither of you will ever forget, plan to spend the entire night together.

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valentines day gift surprise

It’s your party – wear what you want!

If you are a sugar daddy who is feeling exceedingly romantic and wants your sugar baby to shimmer with delight, lingerie is the answer. But not just any lingerie. Agent Provocateur features stunningly seductive, lacey ensembles that are second to none in quality, elegance and originality. What an inspiration for love of epic proportion! Once again, place your order after you have finished reading this article and order overnight delivery. While we have talked about this subject in past articles, selecting red lingerie even in honor of this romantic holiday should be carefully considered. Red is a rather fickle color and does not compliment every independent escort’s figure. Pink is a safe and black is guaranteed!


Emphasize details that bring out the naughty of the night

Chances are very good that she will plan nuances of the evening. As a hobbyist, you can contribute by communicating your plans for the evening, where you will be taking her, what you might desire her to wear, etc. Will your hotel suite feature a fire place? Will there be a balcony? Separate sleeping quarters? Plenty of space that the two of you can explore from top to bottom? Last but by no means least, what will the morning bring? Plan to have toothbrush and mouthwash waiting in the bathroom to leave you minty fresh in preparation to greet her sleepy kiss at daybreak.

Some of the most romantic and memorable experiences are enjoyed between hobbyists and independent escorts

Valentine’s Day is an opportunity to give and receive delectable gifts of pleasure. As you create riveting bouts of love and lust remember your friends here at City Girls!

Scent of Sensuality

Whether dangerously sweet or daringly spicy, an alluring scent can act as a powerful aphrodisiac. It can truly represent a man’s personality when properly selected. It can be vexing when applied in excess or hazardous to the health when worn around a sensitive person. In the latter two cases, fragrance can be a deterrent with adverse effects on a hobbyist and his date. Scent is just that potent!

Less is more

We have talked about this before. Are you a gentleman who drowns himself in less expensive cologne that happens to be made with alcohol? Perhaps out of nervousness, you may feel inclined to apply excess the likes of taking a shower in an overexerted effort to capture the bouquet. Thank the stars above that such fragrances quickly evaporate from the skin. Bless the nostrils that grace your presence in the meantime because they will be overpowered.  Better to invest in a pricier fragrance (check out the men’s department at Nordstrom for their customer service works great with the clueless). The scent will be far more original and only require a few dabs here and there (uh, ‘there’ is entirely up to you) to flatter not irritate your companion.

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Elegant sensual young woman holding perfume, golden tones, small amount of grain added

Fragrance tastes repulsive

The reader will pardon me for taking this particular section a few steps down South. If you have ever kissed, licked or otherwise mingled your taste buds with skin tainted by the bitter, chalky flavor of deodorant or body spray, you know what I’m talking about. Ugh. There is no better way to shock the libido into non existence. Hobbyists and independent escorts alike, I’m talking to you: apply your perfume where you wish but exercise caution. Those hungry lips searching for the back of your neck or certain areas of the chest may be greeted by the sour surprise of your delicious fragrance turned evil. Perfume can be your friend or foe so best to get to know what it can and cannot do for you. Apply to areas least likely to meet with saliva – backs of your wrists, hair, knees, sides of your waist, underarms.

Consider your dating environment before applying

Taking a long drive to reach your dining destination? Enjoying a romantic, candle lit evening within the tight quarters of a one-room hotel suite? Attending the opera? Any scent beyond a subtle whiff is going to mock the senses of your date and wreak havoc on your evening. To be quite blunt, one of you may even get pissed off and say something you will both regret. It is better to be safe than sorry and forego the creed that scent is compulsory. As an alternative, purchase some aromatic, organic shampoo, conditioner and/or body wash. Aveda has a fabulous line for men. Both parties will be highly appreciative and might even get lucky.

Burden lies with the person with the sensitivity

Ladies and gentlemen, if any of you are highly sensitive to artificial scent, the onus is on you to inform your date! Personally, there have been times when my nose has met with the foul-smelling perfume that the wearer sadly considered to smell fine. Worse yet, if any of you have asthma or allergies, inform your date in advance that he or she should arrive unscented. Be specific about shampoos and hair products if your condition is that severe. Scent is a sensual thing and should be revered for its power whether it is perfume, the lingering aroma of fresh bread, sizzling garlic or the musk of just-loved bodily oils. The aspects of desire and physical appeal rely heavily on what adorns your skin. Make yourself impossible to forget. If you want to capture your date’s attention, whisper.

Many succulent kisses, Chloe xoxo

Categorizing the Companion

Whether she refers to herself as an independent escort, companion or courtesan, there are many reasons why a woman chooses to become a provider.

If we were to generalize, we might talk about certain stereotypes as defined by society. In any case, probably the most common threads are the aspiration for a comfortable income and expression of sensuality. Whether or not the reader agrees with the implied ideals at hand, many companions feel good about themselves, not to mention their clients who feel even better.

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Very beautiful and sexy working woman wearing
a safety or security jacket or vest and a helmet

The working woman provider

She has a professional career or job. She works as an independent escort for a variety of reasons. At the end of the day, she enjoys her business and the gentlemen with whom she comes in contact. Often, women with day jobs find that they so enjoy their work as independent escorts that some walk away from their conventional employment.

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Let’s go shopping!

The materialistic escort

She is the kind of girl who takes an avid interest in designer fashions, fine cars and cuisine and an overall upscale lifestyle. While she exudes sensual talent, her standards for the high life are rigorous. Often, her aspirations extend beyond the physical world to uphold spiritual values and morals.

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Fashion photo of young sensual woman in jeans

The sensual escort

She is the companion who happily discovered her niche in the world of adult entertainment. She may be mature. For sure, she loves what she does in the genuine sense. While she may be a bit eccentric, she is emotionally balanced and finds solace in self expression through eroticism.

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Rear view of sexy fetish woman in black leather corset

The alternative escort

For a combination of various factors, this provider is into alternative measures such as BDSM, Femdom, fetish or other avenues of kink. To what degree she advances her practice is subjective. She could be a glorified provider with an emphasis on subtle domination for kicks and giggles or she could be genuinely into any of the aforementioned. Sensual massage may be her thing and she might even be a Tantrica in the making. All attributes are experienced at the benefit of her client.

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Woman and airplane

The international companion

She is a natural born courtesan. She is educated, worldly and/or wise, striking in her own way and is an inherent relationship expert. She is a confidante. Her clients flow toward her like water in what typically result in long lasting interactions. Her engagements are generally not less than an entire weekend, week or longer. She tends to travel with her suitors. She is empowered by her profession, yet retains a sense of humbleness. She is uncommon. While we do not promote labeling or generalization, we do acknowledge that there is measured validity in recognizing provider prototypes. As in any profession and life in general, individuality prevails. Every person has their story. Independent escorts and hobbyists are no exception.