You have met the perfect escort. She is your soul mate, beautiful inside and out. What’s more, the two of you have fallen in love! How do you deal with her job? This week’s article will talk about a plan of action when a gentleman wants to marry an escort.
As a hobbyist, you have fallen in love with an escort. The emotion and physical gratification bestowed upon a gentleman from such feminine perfection can be overwhelming, leaving your emotions in a state of total confusion. If the love is genuine and not coated with infatuation, the two of you will inevitably face decisions on adapting your respective lifestyles to join together in some form of marriage (spiritual, traditional, religious). Though they do exist, successful escort marriages are far and few between that form lasting relationships in which the escort continues to entertain other gentlemen in what would constitute a non-conventional relationship. As a soon-to-be-retired hobbyist, below are a few questions to ask yourself after your heart has riveted your world and taken the lead:
Will she stop escorting?
If your new love does not enjoy her work in the adult entertainment industry, then it will be easier for her to retire. But if she is rather vested in what she does and has a tendency to bond more intimately with friends, it is possible that she will find it a little more difficult to break away permanently.
Is she addicted to a lucrative income and luxurious lifestyle?
A companion who enjoys her career as a professional entertainer may find the lifestyle flattering and rewarding. If you as her new found love can match that comfort level then the strength of transitioning into marriage is strong. Such a situation does not render you a sugar daddy or her a sugar baby for that matter because love forms the foundation.
Is she attached to relationships that define her escort identity?
Many companions form durable friendships with their gentlemen friends that shape their individuality as entertainers and confidantes. Much of their time spent together includes plush entertainment and opulent travel reinforced by gentlemanly attention that nurtures and flatters their egos. While entering into a marriage by two people from any type of background can be challenging in today’s complicated world, doing so by an escort can be rigorous. Marital partners should be prepared to acknowledge awareness of each others’ pasts and be prepared to meet their respective needs to the best of their abilities.
What will be the direction of her new career, if any?
Assuming she chooses to retire, the independent escort who has outside aspirations will adapt to her new, conventional marriage by pursuing her ambitions. How exciting as her new and true identity takes form! As her husband, you the gentleman should be nothing but supportive (as should she be of you) so as to insulate the transition and ensure peacefulness within the marriage.
Success stories of married escorts who maintain their careers
There are married couples who swing while maintaining open relationships. There are those escorts whose husbands accept continuance of their work with an open mind. In the latter, most at some point do retire if for no other reason than to relieve the strain that escorting can place on a marriage with a man who desires not to share the intimacy of his woman with other men. All being said there are no rules in life except those that work. Dance to your own tune but follow your instinct and find the strength to ask yourself questions addressed in this article.