Screening-The Danger and Uncertainty of Reference Checking, Part I

Screening of hobbyists and providers is a critical process that is not to be taken lightly. Otherwise, you are swimming in turbulent waters by placing every aspect of your life deadcenter in the hands of a stranger when meeting with a person whom you do not know. Even if you have met with that person before and the date was a success, their true identity is not guaranteed. Or is it?

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At one point, City Girls was the new kid on the block

Sure, we were experienced in the field of professional dating, but we lacked the trust of our peers because no one knew where we came from. Faced by skepticism of others in the industry, we relied upon reference checking, verification services and other methods, processes that were anything but reliable. It is a confession that we cringe to admit. A surefire method, employment verification was a process that we only dreamed about.

Why bother with employment verification?

Still green in the tedious process of verification, we weren’t really interested in this method. Reference checking seemed sufficient. Why not? Everyone else was doing it — and still is, for that matter. But at some point, the problems began.

Old school verification methods guarantee risk

With a growing sense of uncertainty came the decision to review our verification policies. Because reference checking is not a foolproof answer to safety, problems naturally surfaced. Most notably was an incident involving a moron that had been ‘verified’ by an Asian-run agency in New Jersey. It was the year 2013. Upon entering the hotel suite to greet his date, this idiot proceeded to ransack the room for anything he could grab. The independent escort screamed at the top of her lungs for help which scared him away, but not before he took off with her mobile phone. Thank you, Asian agency for opening our eyes to the perils of reference checking! We were terribly relieved that the escort’s life was not endangered.

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An incident that could have cost lives and our Club was the moment of truth
What if that creep had been a psychopath? Sexual predator? No one wants to think about the potential consequences. Through this crisis, we realized that all information provided by this jerk was false. Moreover, we certainly had to consider the disturbing possibility that the entire predicament was a scam orchestrated by the Asian agency in an effort to jeopardize the good standing of City Girls! It was at this point that we banned the entire reference checking process.

Renee, owner of Après Vous Agency enlightened us

It was a booming year for City Girls as we were calling everyone in their mother for reference checks. Après Vous was no exception. Just imagine the volume of outgoing calls when you consider the fact that we were verifying hundreds of hobbyists on a monthly basis. We recall our first and only phone conversation with Renee that is forever seared in our memories. Keep in mind that this female business owner is kind, respectful and patient. But on this occasion, she was annoyed by the volume of our incoming calls (around ten per day) we were imposing upon her staff, often during peak business hours. What other solution did we have to verify our members? During our fifteen minute conversation with Renee, we learned vital information that set the course of the future for City Girls Club: rather than bogging down phone lines with bothersome calls for references, why not use employment verification? Thank you, Renee! The rest is history.

City Girls discovered the silver lining of that dangerous occurrence

Every member’s name had to be verified before scheduling a date and every member’s identification had to be shown at the beginning of an appointment. Subsequently, things felt right. Authenticity ensures accountability when you know a gentleman’s true identity. Such a method breeds trust between two people who are meeting for the first time. Without this obligation, a gentleman is not liable for his actions in that he is given free reign to violate or worse, harm an escort and thereby capable of vanishing without a trace. What recourse would we have had with the agency reference who verified this dude? None.

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The shocking truth revealed after verification policy change

A statistical pattern surfaced:

About 90% of names were either fake or modified;
Nine out of ten guys used names different than the names that showed on their IDs.

Wow! Where was the safety in reference checking if in fact, none of the data provided was accurate? We were mortified to learn that had we continued to use the reference checking process, we might have under minded the confidence of thousands of City Club members who entrusted us with their loyalty and safety. Since then, we have not encountered any issues with the security of our members.

 

Stay tuned for our next article about screening

Part two in a series of three, look for our next article about The Secure Method of Employment Verification. See you there!

How to Build Confidence When Dating Beautiful Women

As you all know, City Girls takes gorgeousness to a whole new level when it comes to ravishing independent escorts. No matter where you select your next date, if you are the type of gentleman who gets weak at the knees in the face of beauty then this article is for you.

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Your pockets may be deep but your self-esteem is delicate

When it comes to financial net worth, you are a superhero! You are a money-making machine with the Midas touch — except when it comes to that stunner of an escort that you can’t resist dating. For some gents (and this just might be you), Junior does not speak big bucks and thus may opt to ‘take the night off’ just when you need him most. Since the male gender cannot fake performance, there are certain practices that will calm the nerves thus, opening the doors to that libido dying to get out.

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Adopt a form of meditation prior to your date

You’d be surprised at the effectiveness of deep breathing before you get out of the car to meet that bombshell blonde. Simply close your eyes, turn off your phone and breathe slowly and deeply with all focus on the breath. Do this for approximately five minutes. Release the mind and tell yourself what a handsome gent you are. The results are profound. If you are the sipping type, toast over a glass of your favorite beverage after greeting your luscious muse, just to break the ice and ease the self. (We don’t condone getting tipsy so it’s best not to get out of hand.)

Accept your physique for what it is

Let’s face it. The average man is not the picture perfect cover boy of Men’s Health Magazine. Keeping long hours at the office and dining out frequently equal junk in the gut. Throw in happy hour every now and then with your colleagues and after some time, you might not like what you see in the mirror. Guys: life gets in the way of the ideals that we formed in our minds ages ago about how perfect we should look. The reality is that no physique is perfect. Women and especially independent escorts tend to be quite accepting of a man’s imperfections. You have permission to accept your body for what it is.

Pump up the hygiene

No matter how many muscles you’ve got (or don’t have), without stellar hygiene, you will be deemed unattractive by your date. This is a no brainer, folks and an area in which you can truly build confidence. Companions are more concerned about your hygiene than your six pack or lack thereof. Here are a few pointers:

• Start with a precision haircut done by an expert;
• Always be freshly showered and clean cut (North and South);
• Don’t wear cheap cologne. Invest in a bottle of designer something – Creed, Tom Ford, Armani, Versace (these high end scents are made with known aphrodisiacs and they work. Your date will climb all over you);
• Get a manicure. Seriously, dude. That succulent escort is going to look at your cuticles;
Brush your teeth and invest in a pack of minty gum to keep those kisses comin’ on.

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Pay attention to [clothing] detail

The best way to increase your insecurity it to dress is a frumpy manner. If you are one of those gents who doesn’t place too much value in your appearance – news flash: your clothing matters and your self-esteem will sky rocket as a result. If you haven’t got a clue about fashion, visit a department store such as Nordstrom or Saks where customer service is tailored to suit your looks. If you are so inclined, splurge and visit a Gucci, Brooks Brothers or Ralph Lauren boutique and let them adorn you in manly attire that best matches your personal style. A nice pair of loafers and a neat belt are big assets, much like the ones on your evening tryst that you can’t wait to get your hands on. Thank us later.

Become the consummate gentleman

Aaaah, here we get to talk about the holy grail of your confidence and golden rule of successful dating. No matter how pimped out is your wardrobe, how buffed are your nails or how sizeable is your package, manners are the be-all and end-all of a prized engagement. Every single escort you will ever date looks for this and if you are that consummate gentlemen, she’ll rave about you. Let us turn you on to a few pointers:

• Greet her with a proper salutation – doesn’t have to be mushy or overly formal;
Open and hold the door for her;
• At dinner, when she has to visit the ladies room, stand when she does; when she returns, stand again and pull out her seat before she sits down;
• When strolling down the street, walk on the outside. Companions notice this detail especially;
• After your date ends, send a short text (if you have her mobile) later that evening thanking her for such a splendid evening.

Seek companions who are kind and empathetic

Gold diggers, shiny bimbos with plastic personalities and fakers who can’t wait to finish your date are probably not model escorts for you. You are the kind of man who benefits from a gentle touch from a companion who has compassion for people in general. Find an escort who actually enjoys being with you for the man that you are. When you find this combination, behold the sparks that will fly in the boudoir as your confidence soars to heaven. Again and again.

Ultimate Guidelines for Becoming a Sugar Daddy

Most independent escorts enjoy their profession because of the freedom and independence that it gives them. On occasion, a companion may find herself becoming extremely comfortable with a client or even having feelings for him. When a hobbyist shares her sentiments, a potential sugar relationship is born.

When an independent escort becomes a sugar baby, her regular business becomes inactive. In some cases, she maintains multiple sugar relationships simultaneously. For the hobbyist turned sugar daddy, what is his role? We have come up with some guidelines based upon what we’ve seen and heard within the industry.

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A sugar daddy should be in a position to meet his financial obligation

A sugar daddy is an established gentleman who is usually a wealthy entrepreneur or operates a successful corporation. He is at a point in his life where he can enjoy the freedom and exhilaration that being with a sugar baby gives him. His net worth is solid, he drives a luxury automobile and he can afford to take care of himself. He has ample income to compensate his sugar baby on a regular basis (weekly, bi-weekly or monthly). In exchange, he enjoys her companionship through regular dating, traveling, conversation and intimacy.

A sugar arrangement should be respectful and beneficial to both

A sugar relationship is a contracted relationship. Both parties should enter into the agreement fully aware of what each gives to the other. How often will a sugar daddy want to see his sugar baby? How much advance notice does she need to set aside quality time to see him? Details of the arrangement should be understood at all times to keep things clear. A proper sugar daddy demonstrates the value and worth of his sugar baby by looking out for her in several ways:

  • He sees that she is well taken care of with an elegant wardrobe;
  • He makes sure that living conditions are top notch;
  • He ensures that her transportation is more than adequate and accommodating;
  • He regularly shows his appreciation for her beauty, intelligence and is there for her when she needs him.

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Generosity is important

Above and beyond the agreed financial compensation that a sugar daddy bestows upon his sugar baby, he shows his generosity by giving her gifts and trinkets and even surprises her with romantic travel excursions. Remember, the little details that count! On one occasion he may bring her flowers; on another he may surprise her with tickets to the theater; he might treat her to a luxurious dinner at a prestigious restaurant; and in some cases, may even buy her a new car. A sugar baby should feel that she is special to her sugar daddy. The sum of his gestures and her gracious receipt of them will encourage a wonderfully exciting and stable sugar relationship.

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Setting boundaries is the golden rule in a sugar relationship

No matter how genuine, intense or romantic a sugar relationship becomes, a sugar daddy and sugar baby should not become too attached and never lose respect. Doing so goes against the rules of the contracted relationship, blurs boundaries and can seriously jeopardize the arrangement. Even though she is a sugar baby, she has a life, may have a job or go to school and even have children. A sugar daddy should expect his sugar baby to establish some sort of schedule that applies to how often and when they see each other, frequency of phone calls and communication in general. On the other hand, a sugar daddy should not:

  • Abuse the relationship by taking advantage of her in any way;
  • Show up at her home unexpectedly;
    Control her life; or
  • Infringe upon her private matters.

A sugar baby is not an object but a human being to be respected at all times.

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Never forget good hygiene

When a sugar daddy takes good care of himself his sugar baby will appreciate his efforts and likely find him more attractive. The last thing a sugar daddy should do is ‘let himself go’ because he feels that he is entitle to do so. Chances are that his sugar baby will be considerably younger than him with a lot of vitality. Regular exercise, a healthy diet and vitamin supplements all contribute to good health. Neat, fashionable attire, meticulous grooming and regular skin treatments are all a part of maintaining good hygiene.

A sugar relationship should be loads of fun

The world is an exciting playground in a sugar relationship! Build great experiences by getting to know one another, going places, traveling, dining, talking and laughing. A sugar daddy should take in his sugar baby’s youthful exuberance and positive energy by living life to the fullest. Isn’t that what it’s all about?

Unforgettable kisses, Chloe xoxo

When a Hobbyist Wants to Marry an Escort

When a dating engagement is carefully measured, considering all aspects of compatibility, the stage is set for explosive chemistry. Such is the scenario when a hobbyist pursues the company of a companion or courtesan who excels in the girl friend experience. Most likely, he is not looking for permanent love. But if he seeks emotional and/or psychological fulfillment or restoration from loneliness, his heart becomes vulnerable. Factor in his escort’s physical splendor and charismatic personality and he becomes a bulls eye target for amour.

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While this may appear as a scary question due to the nature of her work as a companion, what man really knows the difference in the beginning of any love relationship? Romance and matters of the heart involve powerfully blinding emotions that can skew the good judgment of anyone.

Is it really love or just infatuation?

There are no guarantees in any relationship and if there were, insurance companies would bank! There are men and women alike who come from multiple divorces, dysfunctional families, broken homes and even abusive backgrounds. Someone, please reveal the ideal formula for a marriage that does not end. Even childhood sweethearts with storybook families end up divorced. Who is to say that the hobbyist/escort romance cannot tie the knot and prevail indefinitely?

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Is he headed down the sugar daddy path?

There is a chance that if she stops working in order to devote her time exclusively to her man and their relationship, her income will vanish. Both parties must check within themselves for genuineness of their involvement. Further, supporting a partner is a financial and emotional responsibility (regardless of his net worth) which can burden the relationship if not handled openly and with clear intent. However, if hobbyist turned fiancé accepts his role as main breadwinner, they are in love and escort turned future wife agree, then it is not a sugar relationship.

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Will she continue working as an independent escort if they marry?

Now here is an interesting twist that defies all convention. Admittedly, there are those marriages in which an escort remains same with knowledge and acceptance of her husband. Are they swingers? Do they have children? Does he fully accept what she does for a living? Personally, I do not know what the divorce rate is of such a unique demographic, but who cares? Even the most conservative couples divorce for a myriad of reasons. Often when an escorting couple divorces, the split is caused by reasons indirectly related to the act of escorting itself.

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Will she sign an annulment?

Doing so may be considered a true test of love. While I understand how a gentleman would want to protect his assets, especially if he has an x-wife who took him to the cleaners during the divorce process, many women find the proposition offensive. Truthfully, two people should marry for nothing but love and a balanced ability of both parties to support each other spiritually, mindfully and psychologically. But that is not the way the world works for most.

Proceed with caution and wisdom

Perhaps the most difficult challenge for the hobbyist who wants to marry his escort is honoring the deepest corners of his integrity. He should remain clear about his true intentions with a sharp eye focused on the fate of his future. In the end, both parties should remember that despite what conventional society has to say, what do they know? If there was a perfect formula for marriage then no one would be divorced.

With boundless kisses, Chloe xoxo

Talking About Male Menopause

To enjoy an outstanding love life, experts recommend vibrant health. Good diet and robust exercise are the best guarantors that your testosterone will remain at a healthy level. What could be more important for the active hobbyist dating bombshell escorts? But what is a gentleman to do as he moves into his 50s and 60s and things don’t ‘work’ the way they used to? It is good to know about something called andropause.

Male menopause as it is commonly known is different than ‘mid-life crisis’ which is a state of mind. Also known as viropause, it is the male version of female menopause. It means that a man’s ability to produce testosterone is diminished.

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hobbyist swimming in the pool

Does male menopause really exist?

Hobbyist or not, you may not like to admit that you are not feeling well. Men go to the doctor about 50% less than women and certainly talk far less about physical ailments or emotions. According to the Mayo Clinic, a man’s testosterone decreases 1% per year after the age of 30. You do the math. Such a shift can gradually cause physical, emotional and psychological changes. In truth, ‘male menopause’ as it is often referred, is quite different from female menopause (our hats go off to all of the lovely and mature, independent escorts in their 40s and 50s!). Menopause happens quite suddenly while male menopause can take decades while some men never experience it at all. Due to these differences, some doctors prefer to call this shift in male hormones andropause or androgen deficiency of the aging male.

Don’t fret about that wavering libido!

Low energy, fatigue, depression and insomnia can be symptoms of low testosterone. Doctors have found that there is also a close relationship between low testosterone and osteoporosis. Abdominal fat can also be a cause and an effect of low testosterone. Kind of like a classic chicken-and-egg situation, abdominal fat and low testosterone reinforce each other.

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libido measure

Reclaim that sexy life of yours!

While we here at City Girls are certainly not doctors, we tend to favor more of a homeopathic approach to ailments. Consider the following suggestions:

  • Healthy diet – in addition to an active lifestyle, a healthy, natural diet cannot be underestimated;
  • If you smoke, now is the time to stop;
  • If you are overweight, focus on losing those extra pounds with sports and exercise;
  • Ask your doctor about hormone replacement therapy for men;
  • Talk to a health care practitioner about natural supplements, herbs and vitamins that can help reduce symptoms of andropause (they are very powerful!).

If andropause has become a part of your life, it is time to reclaim your manhood. Beautiful escorts await your company. Allow these lovely companions to become your inspiration. Make it your goal to get re-acquainted with pleasure and sensuality. These sumptuous ladies may even be the answer to raising your testosterone.

Robustly yours, Chloe xoxo

Hobbying with a Pure Conscience

Hobbying – why do men seek the company of escorts? The reasons are many. Those women who specialize in professional dating provide a valuable service to gentlemen whose motivations are quite justifiable. Let us take a closer look.

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Travelling hobbyist

The traveling business man with no time to pursue a conventional date

There are those men who travel for business and desire to be with a woman at a specific time and place. They do not have the schedule or tolerance to deal with the hassles or games associated with regular dating. In this case, dating an independent escort makes total sense. If he is paying for her time and company, then he may want her to provide desert after dinner. He can decide how he wants the evening to end. In any case, the encounter is neat, clean and organized and fits within his rigid schedule.

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The married man searching for something more

He has children, family, a mortgage and a circle of close friends. Breaking the marriage is absolutely out of the question for psychological and financial reasons. He may love his wife and they might even be close friends. However, behind closed doors, the marriage suffers from neglect and dissatisfaction. There is a strong element of intimate unhappiness. As an alternative to divorce, it is much more convenient to seek the company of an escort who tailors herself to his needs. Often, the relationship is one based upon companionship and deep intimacy.

The guy who wants a guaranteed good time

He can be a devilishly handsome single man, a successful and distinguished executive or a combination. He prefers to find his companion online according to his list of personal specifications. He is a perfectionist when it comes to women. He expects his date to be splendidly dressed and impeccably manicured. He is aroused not only by her fabulous figure but her gracious and classy demeanor. Behind closed doors, she will do most anything to satisfy his desires. She is the epitome of intimacy and romance. This man realizes that the benefits of dating an escort far exceed that of a conventional date in both time and consideration.

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Some men have a hard time closing the dating deal

The gentleman who does not shine in the personality department may seek the company of a companion. Perhaps he has a difficult time approaching women, much less landing a date. Or, his physique may be significantly less than ideal or both. When he dates an escort, his self worth is renewed because she is able to draw forth the best in him. She is the kind of woman who makes him feel like a million bucks. Why should he go anywhere else?

Many couples become close friends and even do business together as entrepreneurs

As a hobbyist, when your intentions are clear, honest and defined, the dating experience is one of spectacular quality. Many providers that begin solely with the intention of professional dating as a source of income come to love their profession. Why? Because they forge memorable relationships with men of gentility and utmost respect.

With only delicious kisses, Chloe xoxo

Decoding Body Language

Ever get a vibe from your date that something just isn’t right? You’re a hobbyist who is quite the escort enthusiast. But sometimes, a lady can cause you to feel a certain way that is strongly communicated without words. It’s called body language. Your entire body participates in the business of either concealing or displaying your mental state. In the first article of a series, we will take a look at a few clues that will make your escort dating experience sweeter than ever!

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An icon set of doodled cartoon smiley faces in a variety of expressions.

What’s really behind that facial expression?

Emotions are expressed through facial expressions. They are the most universal forms of body language. Facial expressions are tied directly to emotions as expressed vividly by an independent escort through the girl friend experience. They may or may not be accurate, sometimes lending to a sense of false happiness. In the dynamic between an escort and a hobbyist, facial expressions can indicate either a sense of detachment or a genuine desire to connect. Joy, anger, fear, surprise and sadness are among the most common emotions tied to facial expressions.

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Portrait of beautiful girl with red lips, red manicure. Close up. frizz

Oh, those bedroom eyes

Ever heard the expression, ‘the eyes are windows to the soul’? It is quite true! The eyes can reveal a great deal about what an escort is feeling almost like a sneak preview into her psyche. Pay attention to whether or not she makes direct eye contact or breaks the eye contact. When she looks directly into your eyes, she is interested with full attention! But if her gaze is shifty, she could be feeling distracted, uncomfortable or evasive about her feelings. While blinking is natural, too much blinking can be a sign that an escort is feeling distressed or uncomfortable.

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young couple hobbyist and escort at bar counter talking

Arms and legs tell more than you may realize

You’ve just met and are sipping cocktails in the corner of a piano bar. If she positions her chest and legs in your direction, you know that you are the most meaningful thing to her, at least in the moment! Does she cross her legs away from you? The gesture could be a sign that she is feeling uncomfortable. Crossed arms can be an indication that an escort is feeling defensive, self-protective or closed off.

Interpreting that pretty smile

Probably one of the best at-a-glance indicators of an independent escort’s emotion disposition is whether her mouth is turned slightly up or slightly down. Lips turned slightly up can indicate that she is feeling happy and optimistic. A slightly downturned mouth can be a sign that she is sad, unhappy or frustrated. Covering the mouth can indicate a desire to hide an emotional reaction.

What really is the underlying message?

We all know that when an independent escort dates a hobbyist, her goal is to please. But for the gentleman who seeks more intimacy and genuineness from the dating experience understanding the subtle nuances of body language plays a big roll. On the other hand, deciphering what an escort is saying to a hobbyist with her bodily expressions can be especially challenging for the non emotive type. Most importantly, a gentleman should pay attention to what her overall presence and the total sum of her body language, is saying to him.

Kisses…Chloe

Reflections of a Hobbyist

The creed of pleasure – We invite seekers of the sweet life for we represent the pinnacle of happiness. The hobbyist who follows his bliss is the one who opens sensual doors that lead to enthralling companionship. Groundbreaking intimacy is experienced by the gentleman who opens his mind, body and soul to the fervent nuances bestowed upon him by a bewitching girlfriend.

Philosophy laid the conceptual groundwork for principles and values that shaped the possibility of world peace – democracy, human rights, justice and equality. For centuries, philosophy has opened doors for new concepts and ideas and creativity across global cultures. World Philosophy Day is a United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization (UNESCO) initiative created in 2002 and celebrated every November. It draws people around the world to engage in reflection on contemporary issues. We have our own set of beliefs here at City Girls that we would like to share with our readers, namely our VIP friends and hobbyist and independent escort – club member.

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A front black car

Living the sensuous lifestyle

Such a gentleman knows that his faculties will spiral to heightened levels of ecstasy on a regular basis whenever he revels in the ethereal presence of a lovely, independent escort. He becomes the beneficiary of her love affair with life, lust and spirituality. In turn, he learns to worship her body and what it can do to his. This amplified standard of living is an addiction of sorts, much like the compulsion of driving a luxury automobile or craving of fine cuisine and vintage wine.

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vip member

Ethos of a VIP member

Put quite simply, these gentlemen set the gold standard of hobbying. In exchange, they expect the epitome of independent escorts who are made of erotic dreams hallowing them with pure gratification. Such a man knows that gentility is the cornerstone of character that brings to life all of the juicy confections offered by his independent escort. He believes that anything less than refined conduct will smolder the crackling chemistry that he seeks with his companion.

What are our moral beliefs?

In order to maintain the platinum level of pleasure that is shared between devoted hobbyists and committed companions, we abide by a strict standard of excellence. We care about our VIP members and independent escorts from the first moment we connect right down to the last letter that is typed on our website. Delicious memories that linger in the diary of the mind are intangible bonuses that we strive to exalt upon our members. When this occurs, the dating process has been sanctified and everyone is happy!

Love, Chloe xoxo

Hobbyists Balanced Lifestyle that Leads to Happiness

Whether you are a hobbyist who saves every month to date the lady of your dreams or a man who can afford to support the lifestyle of your favorite sugar baby, balance is a sacred privilege that must be achieved on your own accord.

Likewise, independent escorts who do what they do because they love the business or have found that their careers serve as lifelines to their families, finding mental peace will only invite good things. Romance sings in concert with many subtle instruments that contribute to the balance in our lives. Have you found them?

Don’t fool yourself into thinking that you’re something you are not

Try as you may, you are who you are, nothing more, nothing less. Accepting that realization alone is a celebration! If you are a hobbyist who doesn’t feel so hot about your physique or feels lonely or emotionally needy, step up your game and take action to make some changes. This is the key. In that process, accept yourself for who you and release false expectations of turning into George Clooney or Kobe Bryant. A little physical exercise, reading a self-discovery book and/or seeing a therapist can really boost the way hobbyist feels about himself when he is dating a gorgeous independent escort.

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find your passion phrase handwritten on the school blackboard

Find the passion in your career

We all spend a substantial portion of our lives working in the office away from other things that matter most to us. If you do not enjoy what you do for a living, that adds up to a lot of time wasted, apart from paying the bills and paying for your children’s college funds! Become the CEO of your life and find the pleasure in your career by putting the sexy back into functional. Granted, it may be unrealistic for a 50-year old hobbyist to change careers during this stage of life. But something got you into your business. Observe what it was and commemorate that re-discovery!

Hobbyist, focus on your specific needs!

There are those hobbyists entering the later stages of life after their kids have gone off to college and their wives are busy doing other things. The mortgage is paid off and retirement looms ahead like a warm sunset. Ever considered becoming a sugar daddy? There are plenty of young, smashing, independent escorts who are eager to define your new lifestyle by affirming your manhood as yoursugar baby. Find a ravishing lady full of vitality who compliments your style and live it up my friends!

Care about yourself but also care about others

Empathy and compassion are simply heartfelt emotions that invite good karma into your life. Small acts of kindness whether expressed toward the grocery store clerk, the driver who wants to merge in front of you or the companion with two kids go a long way in making someone’s day. If you do not take care of yourself who else will? When it comes to dating an escort care about yourself, her and your encounter by first doing your homework.

Dating a professional girlfriend can be quite a fulfilling experience

Opening doors to other elements of satisfaction yet known. While this article could go on for days, I believe I have covered some of the essentials that when addressed will contribute greatly to a balanced and therefore happy life. Follow your guts, gentlemen (not only the little guy) for there is a lot of goodness and satisfaction to be found in your future relationships.

Dating Essentials for Every Hobbyist

Women agree that style and demeanor separate the average man from the irresistible gentleman

We’ll dive into demeanor in a future article. Adopting a sense of style can make the difference between an amazing date and one that is turbo charged with sizzling eroticism. But what if you are a hobbyist who hasn’t a clue about style or one who really couldn’t give a hoot? The following tips will set you on the path to making a signature statement that will impress the companions in your life.

Invest in a fabulous pair of jeans

A nice pair of jeans makes a loud statement that you care about your appearance. Whether you dress them up or dress them down you will automatically place yourself at the front of the line in terms of who escorts prefer to date. While nice jeans may not be cheap, they will last for years if you take good care of them. Even if you do not have the physique of an all-star football player (they all have fabulous buns), take the time to add this important staple to your wardrobe. Yes, shopping for a pair of amazing jeans can be daunting because there are

Purchase a notable watch

Sporting a nice watch (one that is not all beat up) does not necessarily mean that you have to break the bank purchasing a Rolex or Omega. I recommend owning two – one that is casual and one that is a little more formal. Of course, there are those hobbyists who own watch collections and pair a different one with every outfit. How sexy is that? Chanel designs some chic, elegant time pieces. Then again, so do Michael Kors, Guess and Fossil and make sure you check our Rado .

Women care about shoes

As a hobbyist, wouldn’t you gasp in horror if your date greeted you wearing a shockingly hot dress and beachy flip flops? Yes, yes you would. You might be a sex god but show up at the door of your date wearing tired shoes fit for the garbage and watch the sparks fade from her eyes. I do not know of any greater turn off next to rudeness. I recommend owning at least four pairs – two pairs for work (black leather and brown leather), a casual pair for the weekends (purchase a neutral tone that goes with all) and a smokin’ hot pair of sneakers (Nike has a style for every personality type as does Addidas; Gucci also designs sneakers for the very fashion-savvy man).


A stylin’ hairstyle speaks volumes

I am not necessarily talking about going to the barber shop. There are a lot of hip barbers these days but my hunch is that a hobbyist will have better results finding a reputable stylist who can envision what cut will work best for his look. Coiffure counts with women. But don’t stop there. If you are a hobbyist with a fuzzy neck, get it manicured and maintain it! For the super furry types, there are those who wax their necks. Ssssh. Don’t tell.

A clean car is a testament to your excellent hygiene

A hobbyist with a Mercedes Cabriolet or Nissan Sentra is the same in my book if both are trashed inside with dirt, debris and paraphernalia. Clean your car and implement some order, gents! Every few months, have it detailed and jazz it up with a little scent (new car smell is nice).

Alluring scent is an aphrodisiac

Old Spice is nice but is totally recognizable and about as common as it gets when it comes to defining some manly style. If you want to turn the heads of women who are drawn to you by your scent, invest an hour of shopping time and a few dollars more to discover an original fragrance that matches your personality. Remember, you get what you pay for. The cheaper scents are diluted with alcohol and do not last. The more expensive ones are pure and will last throughout the evening. Macys and Nordstrom offer a vast selection of men’s fragrances. If you are a hobbyist who would like to take your animal magnetism to the next level, visit your local Aveda store and check out the men’s line. Oh my. You are in for a sensual treat!

Sensual style is not limited to escorts

Here at City Girls, we believe successful dating is a two-way street. While you may be a hobbyist who does not subscribe to that philosophy, we aspire to enhance your dating endeavors by shedding a little insight from which you will greatly benefit. After all, this is the hobby, right?

Chloe, xoxo