Columbus Day Special

 

Remember that swashbuckling voyager Christopher Columbus who sailed to the Americas in 1492? Though you, oh lover of gorgeous independent escorts, may not have the day off, we’ve decided to extend a very special treat in the name of this historical day. But first, a few morsels of history about this European adventurer and how he happened upon the New World.

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Columbus and his contemporaries weren’t aware that the Pacific Ocean existed
But most Europeans knew that the world was round. Backed by Spanish monarchs King Ferdinand and Queen Isabella, Chris set sail for China, India and the Spice Islands only to land instead in the Bahamas. Not such a bad thing if you’ve ever been there, translucent turquoise waters and scantily clothed babes running around in the sunshine. Later that month, Columbus discovered Cuba and thought it was China. Sounds like Chris could have used a GPS to better navigate the new terrain but it was a bit early in the century.

What’s your feminine fancy to commemorate the celebration?

Especially if you are from New York and are Italian or Catholic, you might think of Columbus Day as an incentive to spend an evening with one of our very own City Girls’ succulent muses. We are giving you every reason to say ‘yes’ to a night of festive frolic that will undoubtedly affirm your manhood. Whether your pleasure is a blonde, petite prowess that fits neatly in your arms, a buxom brunette endowed with delicious curves or a daring siren of a redhead, we’ve got an entourage of entertainment just waiting for your attention.

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Columbus Day revelries begin with the City Girls holiday special

For a smashing $250 per hour, you can live it up like a bandit and get a little sinful with an electrifying tryst of your choice. You heard right. City Girls gets super generous around the holidays but the special applies only on Columbus Day. So gents, you snooze, you lose! Plan your communion with oneness with your favorite angel of delight before someone else does.

Sensual frontiers are yours for the taking

$250 per hour with a resolutely stunning woman of sheer perfection is almost too good to be true. Even Columbus would have eagerly jaunted across the Atlantic if he knew that one of our spicy flames of perfection was waiting for him with bated breath. When it comes to pleasure, City Girls is your procurer of passion, hands down.

Let’s get this private parade started!

Slide into Pleasure with a Nuru Massage

Nuru, meaning slippery, is an ancient Japanese art form and has fastly risen to the top of the list for sensual massage enthusiasts. Known as the grey area of massage, Nuru is all about tactile, auditory and visual stimulation. Many independent escorts specialize in Nuru massage in addition to their companionship services. Ever visited a Nuru girl?

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Get ready for some intoxicating bliss

Popularized as the cousin of soapy massage, Nuru massage represents a transformational blend of healing and intimacy. A massage specialist akin to a sensual acrobat will slide her entire body all over yours from head to toe in a variety of ways that are utterly foreign, shiny, slippery and erotic. This is not your average day at the spa though when done correctly, there can be serious muscular benefits. Made from leaves of the brown seaweed plant, seaweed gel is the secret to enjoying a proper Nuru massage. Any other oily substance used does not lend to an authentic Nuru massage.

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What to expect during a Nuru massage session

This incredible experience begins with a hot, steamy shower during which your massage specialist will prep you with a steadily-growing chorus of attention. The visual delight alone of her incredible body with all its tight and shapely bends will be enough to test your pleasure threshold. If you are lucky enough to find such a service, your Nuru girl may initiate the experience with a warm, sudsy bubble bath known as a soapy massage. In either instance, this is only the beginning. After this cleansing episode, she will take you by the hand and lead you in all of your wet and slippery splendor, to a soft surface sheathed with a plastic coating. Amidst flickering candles, soft music and a savory scent wafting through the air, your visual sense will be dazzled by the shiny smoothness of her flexible body. Lying down, she will slide all over you covering every inch of your body. Your hands might give in to curiosity as they eagerly explore the wonderful sensation of her curves. Arousal comes like a long, slow wave lingering at the brink of ecstasy.
As she continues to glide about your physique she will pull away from your body with a sticky, sucking sound so that you can view her body in a heightened state of stimulation.

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When you want to relax and unwind it’s time to get wet

An ancient art of relaxation, Nuru massage is a must in every man’s intimacy repertoire. It is a celebration of the senses allowing your most intimate feelings to emerge and considered by many as the greatest massage you will ever experience. Double your pleasure with a 4-hands massage as two Nuru girls deliver you to a heightened sense of arousal never felt before. A body slide will take you to extraordinary levels, draining stress and anxiety, leaving you in a state of blissful joy.

How GFE Can Increase Your Self Image

HOW GFE INCREASES A MAN’S SELF IMAGE

Intimacy comes in many different flavors beyond the physical. Consider the gentleman who seeks the company of a true GFE escort in an effort to fortify his self perception. It is not a coincidence that many relationships fall apart because they grow apart, leaving identities and feelings of self-worth in the dust. Lack of intimacy can lead to angst, self-doubt and beliefs of inadequacy. Unconscious desires (or conscious, as it were) and emotional needs can in fact drive a man into the arms of an independent escort whose beauty goes beyond skin deep. But why does he choose the strategy of intimacy for hire versus traditional courting?

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GFE represents the red pill into sensual wonderland

If a man has had turbulent, unfulfilling or traumatic experiences with women, turning to the company of a GFE for personal validation can be liberating. We are not referring to the fast food of affection, where you’re in and out in an hour. This GFE-inclined man tends to spend more time with the same lady (or maybe a few), one whom he has deliberately sought out because he believes she is a good match for his needs. He seeks those watershed moments that feed his manly worth and deeply enhance what might otherwise be considered bland life occurrences. His companion takes him by the hand and jumps down the proverbial rabbit hole of passion, satiating his security and validating his self-esteem. In the conventional dating world, it might be years before he discovers this same depth of passion and compatibility with another woman and maybe never.

Masculine validation lies at the core of the girlfriend experience

Perhaps his companion does not even refer to herself as a GFE, that overused term to which we are all so accustomed. She is aware that the sum of her intellect, appearance and style will speak to the gentleman looking for a connection that actually goes way beyond what the acronym implies. In the world of companionship, everyone is looking for something. This man is looking for a transformation, one that will boost his mental and emotional dispositions and one that will amplify his love life.

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Losing the emotional baggage through GFE represents a healing encounter

Is it true that engaging in an ongoing affair with a compatible escort can improve a man’s mental health? Depending on his motivations, we tend to think so. Not getting your physical and emotional needs met can cause loneliness, frustration and isolation. A courtesan as gifted with intuition as she is blessed with stunning good looks can be the catalyst for healing gratification that her gentleman friend needs.

Men who seek the girlfriend experience for psychological gratification are more common than you think

Diminishing affection due to lack of attention from the wife who’s got her own story; demands of work which have all but given you a heart attack or physical impairment that leaves you feeling unattractive are just a few of the motivators that inspire men to look to the GFE for pleasure, healing and elation.

What is Sensual Massage?

Are you a gentleman who is constantly giving, delegating and making decisions? Perhaps you are so boxed into the mold of the daily grind that it is difficult to let go of it all. Of course, spending a few hours with a luscious bombshell of an escort with a body to die for is probably the first thought that pops into your yearning mind. Perhaps there is higher level of pleasure; one that is void of judgments and expectations. Sensual massage takes the luxury of receiving to a heightened level where your erotic sensuality is celebrated.

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Enter a suspended state of pleasure

Sensual massage is about losing expectations of a goal so that you may enjoy your body and exist in the moment in ways that are more profound than most can imagine. Nonexistent is the requirement or need to perform. Anxiety is nowhere to be found.

Sensual massage can enhance your love life

When enjoying a full body massage, you articulate the boundaries – where your masseuse will touch you and how far you want her to go. The purpose of sensual touch is to increase spiritual awareness, pleasure, healing and empowerment. It is a total release in which ‘taking care of the other person’ is not required, allowing a sense of freedom to be present in every inch of your body.

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The power of touch is remarkable

When you get to express what you want, you will develop a sense of rhythm and pace while tuning into your own sensations and experiencing whole body pleasure. The incredibly soothing yet arousing touch of your masseuse as her capable hands explore your entire body take you to a place of prolonged bliss. It is not an instant release but rather a meditative state of joy and lingering euphoria that leaves you in a trans, finally leading to ecstasy.

Get ready for an intimate environment

Sensual massage is given with a genuine sense of care. If your masseuse is also an independent escort, her mind blowing appearance will evoke feelings of arousal almost immediately. The candle lit room will shroud you in a soft, exotic scent as gentle music wafts through the air. A quiet stillness will begin to melt through stress and anxiety. As you unveil and start to relax, your gorgeous angel will slowly begin the ritual. Warm oil will coat your body as her skilled hands gently search for those areas longing to be set free. Your entire being will be stimulated as she takes you to a place of ethereal, never ending joy. Sensual massage is truly one of the most fulfilling experiences that a person can have.

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Sensual massage is nature’s medicine for stress relief

When your masseuse welcomes you into an open, honest environment where it is appropriate to feel aroused, your body and mind will calm in ways that no other method of relaxation can accomplish. As your body becomes more and more sensually aroused, sensory messages transmitting from the skin and erogenous areas reaffirm your mind that you are safe. Hormones release causing muscles to loosen as you fall into a subconscious state. It is during this time that you will fully exist in the moment.

If you are a gentleman who has never experienced a sensual massage, you do not know what you are missing!

Happy Birthday to Us!

Get the CG Celebration Special

City Girls is turning five! We are so excited and have a very special promotion that we’d like to share with our members. But first, we want to extend a huge thank you to all of our loyal VIP members and heavenly bombshell escorts for making City Girls the go-to Club for extraordinary dating. We are honored by your patronage and could not have achieved such phenomenal growth and success without you all!

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A very special gift for you

On September 25th any of our participating City Girls’ independent escorts for only 250 per hour. Yes, you read right. You see, it’s not the support staff behind the scenes whose birthday we are celebrating but rather the beautiful angels who represent our amazing club. If it weren’t for these luscious muses, what would City Girls be? It is their birthday. Time to bring on the gifts, gents!

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How to gift the birthday date

She’s your favorite siren of all time and holy smokes! Is that woman gorgeous? Or what! We bet that you’re aching to know what she wants for her birthday. The best way to find out is to visit her profile page here on our website. Perhaps a bottle of her favorite perfume (Chanel, maybe?); or a gift card to her favorite boutique (Victoria’s Secret?). Oh heck, if you cannot decide she’ll be just as thrilled receiving a Vanilla Visa gift card, we’re sure.

Just imagine her dazzling smile beaming from ear to ear when you present that beautifully wrapped token of your affection. She’ll jump up and down with those well-endowed curves bouncing about and shroud you with a delicious thank you. Who knows what will happen next but we’re pretty certain that gift will keep on giving.

Gents’ you’ve got $50 to spend!

To get this incredible 250 per hour birthday deal, put 50 toward a gift for your birthday date (250 per hour 50 to purchase your birthday gift). Yes, this is the condition because we want our lovely treasures to be celebrated. After you have selected your diamond of a date and scheduled your engagement with the folks at City Girls, make a mad dash to the mall to purchase your gift. And don’t forget to tie it with a big, silky bow!

What Makes One Escort Better Than Another?

Your zeal for beautiful women has inspired you to date countless independent escorts over the years. Certainly, some have been better than others. All are unmistakably attractive and most have pleasured you at least to a certain degree. But in what sense is one companion superior to another? Let’s take a closer look at some of the qualities that form the ‘total package’ that is a first-rate escort.

She has a rockin’ body that doesn’t quit

It is the type of figure that every woman covets. Naturally, she is big into fitness which lends heavily to those long, lean yet muscular legs and ridiculously firm bubble bum. Her stomach is chiseled to perfection just below bouncy curves that defy gravity. Her feet are perfectly manicured and bring out the fetish in you.. Her body is a showstopper akin to a Victoria’s Secret model and you go out of your mind with desire. Most importantly, she knows what to do with it.

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She has illustrious hair and velvety-smooth skin

Two of the best assets on an independent escort are silken skin and long, glorious tresses that your hands cannot get enough of. Whether it’s an evening of romantic dining at your favorite restaurant or a flurry of private matters in the boudoir, both serve as delicious eye candy and you’ve got a major sweet tooth.

Her carnal aptitude is mind blowing

As a natural pleaser, this trophy of an escort spoils you with ground-shaking delight the likes of which you have never experienced. Now, that’s saying a lot being that you’ve been hobbying forever. What separates this lascivious muse from the rest is an animalistic drive that needs to be satiated on a regular basis. Such cravings WOW your intimacy which is why you feel like king of the universe every time you see her. In short, this chick is the real deal.

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Personalities just don’t get more charismatic

Is she faking it? Moodiness is not a word to describe her starburst disposition. She has a temperament like sunshine that breaks through the clouds after a thunderstorm. Her cheery disposition melts all stress rattling your nerves and all is right with the world. Here is an escort who is chemically balanced and emotionally grounded with a positive outlook on life. If only more women could be like her…

She is witty and smart but not stuck-up

Since you are a gentleman who seeks the girlfriend experience for whatever reasons (only you know what they are) it is quite nice to be able to carry an intelligent conversation. Equal to a woman’s physical splendor is a quick wit and innate wisdom for a combination of appeal that renders her the keeper that you seek. This companion is the sum of such allure and has piqued your interest to no end.

Her psychology is spot on

Quite possibly the summit of all attributes is this escort’s quiet ability to know what you are thinking, feeling and desiring pretty much at all times. She reads your male radar with total precision. More importantly, she gauges what to say and how to say it without going overboard. It is an invisible talent that she uses to the advantage of both of you. In a nutshell, she is a true lady and the highest compliment a man can hope to ask for.

We’d love to get your feedback: About what defines the ideal escort. Let us know your thoughts.

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Happy Sexy Fourth of July!

On this Fourth of July, celebrate the red, white and blue with a gorgeous hottie wrapped in your arms for only $250 per hour. Get your groove on with some brisk affection from any of our participating escorts for as long as you like with this special offer. Fireworks are sure to explode as you celebrate your manhood and our Nation’s birthday with this awesome Independence Day special!

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“…Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.” We take this view, most notably promoted by Abraham Lincoln, as an inspiration to honor our country’s freedom with a few patriotic hotties.

On July 4, 1776, the Declaration of Independence was signed
by the Second Continental Congress freeing the thirteen colonies from the Kingdom of Great Britain. The Declaration justified the independence of the United States. Woo! Hoo! There are plenty of ways to celebrate our liberty, starting with a few gorgeous independent escorts dedicated to your happiness.

Sparkling muses with allegiance to pleasure are waiting for you
On this fine, Fourth of July holiday it is only fitting to mark the occasion with a curvaceous bombshell showing off her American spirit. While you are tossin’ back a few brewskies at the poolside cookout, your illustrious escort will sport a barely-there string bikini, rendering you the envy of all your comrades. Those electrifying curves atop mile-high stilettos are bronzed in Bain de Soleil and you can’t keep your hands to yourself. Temptation reigns as the two of you disappear for an irresistible quickie only to return to the party with smiles from ear to ear.

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Give yourself the gift of romance

Drenched in silken threads of red, white and blue, your date is a picture of mouthwatering desire. Already, fireworks are going off and you’ve barely begun. Those mounds have more oomph than you can handle and it is safe to say that her star spangled kitty is hot and bothered. Don’t blame us if you miss out on the festivities all together because you’re busy succumbing to attraction!

This midsummer holiday brings passionate escorts who will do you proud
Radiating lust and longing, this symbol of sensuality will flaunt her assets as the seduction begins. We’re talking about a spirited commemoration that welcomes an evening inspired by ecstasy. Unrelenting gratification will follow, the kind that is fit for a king. Now that’s what we call major fireworks!

Screening – The Powerful Method of Employment Verification, Part II

The fact of the matter is that employment verification is an almighty screening method and virtual insurance policy that guarantees safety for both hobbyist and escort. In our first article in a series of three, we learned that nine out of ten gentlemen’s names were either fake or modified. That is a chilling statistic that drove us right into the hands of employment verification and we’ve never looked back.

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Honesty and related 3d words including sincerity, believability, integrity, openness, transparency, truth, fairness and other virtues that build your reputation

Why is employment verification so dependable?

Because it requires honesty. When a person is honest, they obey the law. A honest, law-abiding gentlemen is going to be decent. When you have decency, no one gets hurt. When no one gets hurt you have a huge safety net and everyone is happy. It’s that simple.

Employment verification is 99.9% effective

Perfection does not exist except with the deity (if that’s your cup of tea) and of course, our jaw-droppingly gorgeous independent escorts. With employment verification, we do not get bad apples and if we do, well, that companion is not going to vouch for the guy to become a VIP member.

How employment verification works

For starters, we know this man’s true identity. We know where he works and have confirmed legitimacy of the data. His identification is affirmed by the escort at the onset of the date. Now, everyone is standing on a level playing field and we have a nice case of accountability. If the gentleman becomes aggressive and hurts a girl, we know where to find him(this have never happened yet). Because he is aware of this fine detail, he will never think about creating any problems during a date.

Some independent escorts and dating agencies discount the effectiveness of employment verification

It is an enigma that we struggle to understand. Why would any person or entity put their business and livelihood at risk for the sake of a date? Admittedly, the stringent method of employment verification might turn away some potential gentlemen friends, especially in the eyes of many independent escorts who don’t have the backing of say, someone like City Girls. But it certainly sets a high standard that contributes to a solid reputation that your companionship is the real deal.

Get the inside scoop and juicy details about screening

To complete our series of articles about screening, we will explore different verification services, their pros and cons. You won’t want to miss this one!

Are You an Alpha Male?

“I’m loving like there’s no tomorrow because there isn’t one.” Don Draper, Mad Men

Are you a man who has reached your full potential? Do you want to up your game with women? It is much more than being smooth with the ladies, you know. The alpha male lives inside all men and is only a question of mastery. Becoming an alpha male is one of the highest accomplishments a man can achieve. It’s what puts the ‘m’ in manliness. It is about self-awareness, concern for personal growth and less concern for the opinions of others. City Girls gives you peak experiences that inspire, strengthen and renew your manhood. Let’s take a look at the qualities that characterize an alpha male.

Alpha men lead by example

Let us consider a few wildly successful, bold decision-makers; the financial big dogs, the sexy bad asses of American society with whom we are all familiar:

Richard Branson, founder of Virgin Records;
Elon Musk, business magnate and CEO of Tesla Motors (and too many other accomplishments to mention here);
Hank Moody of Californication;
Anthony Hopkins, famous actor; and of course
James Bond.

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Alpha men are self-actualized

What a man can be he must be. Think Albert Einstein, gents. It is the desire for self-fulfillment, a need to reach your full potential. The alpha male must become everything that he is capable of becoming. Recognize any of these traits in your handsome self?

Acceptance and realism – you have realistic acceptance of yourself and the world around you (which are two major reasons why CG independent escorts regularly blow your socks off);
Problem-centering – motivated by ethics, you like to solve problems outside of yourself including helping others and finding solutions to issues in the outside world;
Spontaneity – while you can conform to the norm, you might consider yourself as an unconventionalist and generally let things happen as they may (like when you are the first to respond to the CG Special for that gorgeous muse you’ve been dreaming about and cancel all business meetings that afternoon to hook up with her);
Autonomy and solitude – independence and privacy are at the top on your needs list. You must have that alone time to focus on your individual potential;
Continuous gratitude – even the smallest things in life create wonder and awe in your book. You find inspiration in matters that might seem ordinary to others yet for you are refreshing sources of pleasure; and
Apex encounters – what fills you up are those moments of intense joy and ecstasy that transform you (why City Girls is your holy grail of pleasure because our independent escorts constantly deliver you to the pinnacle of satisfaction).

The alpha male radiates confidence and intelligence

Failure is only a minor setback and never an obstacle. You are optimistic, considering any failure one step closer to success in any endeavor.

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You are a natural leader and problem solver

As an alpha male, you are neither dominant nor aggressive. You may be a CEO, executive director or perhaps excel in a more ‘behind the scenes’ type of position that facilitates change. No matter your position (you are the alpha, not the job), you are a mover and a shaker when it comes to influencing change.

You are passionate and composed

As an alpha male, you are a cool cat and never lose your composure – which is why you never drink too much and certainly don’t do drugs – especially with the ladies. As a matter of fact, the desire for intense passion is what drives you to City Girls in the first place because you know that CG speaks high-octane pleasure.

Alpha males are physically fit

Doesn’t necessarily mean that you are Arnold Schwarzenegger or that you sport a six-pack. What it does mean is that you take care of your physique and believe that fitness should be an integral part of your life.

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Alpha actions are controlled

You speak in a manner that is measured and deliberate, not rushed or desperate. Your way of speaking commands attention.

Alpha males are excellent communicators

You definitely know how to effectively get your point across and it is done with minimal words because you think things through first. As an alpha male, you are also highly informed which adds to your intelligence. You are not afraid to express yourself with a companion because you understand that doing so will benefit the good of your date.

The alpha male is clever and witty

You’ve got that rascal charm and knightly respect for women the sum of which marks you as a magnet for the ladies (why, as a VIP member, CG adores you). You are adroit at shaking the tension right out of a business meeting or craftily turning the tables during a power negotiation.

Alpha males are important

By that we do not imply arrogance or conceit. As an alpha male, you exude a distinctive significance, the likes of which draw people to you as the leader that you are.

Alpha males manifest strength and stability

You exhibit qualities of bravery, determination and groundedness, a combination that women find irresistibly attractive. Oh, you didn’t know that our hotties secretly love you?

Your social behavior is calculated

Alpha males tend to surround themselves with those who are of equal or greater intelligence. You gets along best with and find value in spending time with other men who are also alpha males. You realize that an integral part of avoiding failure in your endeavors lies in the first-rate friends and colleagues whom you choose as your company.

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Women are sexually attracted to alpha men

Aaah, here is the true bliss that all alpha males enjoy! With all of that drive, ambition and spearheaded direction, you are nothing less than a masculine sex pot that escorts flock to.

Remember, guys that an alpha male lives in all of you

If you haven’t gotten to know him, understand that he is dying to come out. For all of you other gents who are chuckling at this very moment, kudos to you.

Screening-The Danger and Uncertainty of Reference Checking, Part I

Screening of hobbyists and providers is a critical process that is not to be taken lightly. Otherwise, you are swimming in turbulent waters by placing every aspect of your life deadcenter in the hands of a stranger when meeting with a person whom you do not know. Even if you have met with that person before and the date was a success, their true identity is not guaranteed. Or is it?

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At one point, City Girls was the new kid on the block

Sure, we were experienced in the field of professional dating, but we lacked the trust of our peers because no one knew where we came from. Faced by skepticism of others in the industry, we relied upon reference checking, verification services and other methods, processes that were anything but reliable. It is a confession that we cringe to admit. A surefire method, employment verification was a process that we only dreamed about.

Why bother with employment verification?

Still green in the tedious process of verification, we weren’t really interested in this method. Reference checking seemed sufficient. Why not? Everyone else was doing it — and still is, for that matter. But at some point, the problems began.

Old school verification methods guarantee risk

With a growing sense of uncertainty came the decision to review our verification policies. Because reference checking is not a foolproof answer to safety, problems naturally surfaced. Most notably was an incident involving a moron that had been ‘verified’ by an Asian-run agency in New Jersey. It was the year 2013. Upon entering the hotel suite to greet his date, this idiot proceeded to ransack the room for anything he could grab. The independent escort screamed at the top of her lungs for help which scared him away, but not before he took off with her mobile phone. Thank you, Asian agency for opening our eyes to the perils of reference checking! We were terribly relieved that the escort’s life was not endangered.

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An incident that could have cost lives and our Club was the moment of truth
What if that creep had been a psychopath? Sexual predator? No one wants to think about the potential consequences. Through this crisis, we realized that all information provided by this jerk was false. Moreover, we certainly had to consider the disturbing possibility that the entire predicament was a scam orchestrated by the Asian agency in an effort to jeopardize the good standing of City Girls! It was at this point that we banned the entire reference checking process.

Renee, owner of Après Vous Agency enlightened us

It was a booming year for City Girls as we were calling everyone in their mother for reference checks. Après Vous was no exception. Just imagine the volume of outgoing calls when you consider the fact that we were verifying hundreds of hobbyists on a monthly basis. We recall our first and only phone conversation with Renee that is forever seared in our memories. Keep in mind that this female business owner is kind, respectful and patient. But on this occasion, she was annoyed by the volume of our incoming calls (around ten per day) we were imposing upon her staff, often during peak business hours. What other solution did we have to verify our members? During our fifteen minute conversation with Renee, we learned vital information that set the course of the future for City Girls Club: rather than bogging down phone lines with bothersome calls for references, why not use employment verification? Thank you, Renee! The rest is history.

City Girls discovered the silver lining of that dangerous occurrence

Every member’s name had to be verified before scheduling a date and every member’s identification had to be shown at the beginning of an appointment. Subsequently, things felt right. Authenticity ensures accountability when you know a gentleman’s true identity. Such a method breeds trust between two people who are meeting for the first time. Without this obligation, a gentleman is not liable for his actions in that he is given free reign to violate or worse, harm an escort and thereby capable of vanishing without a trace. What recourse would we have had with the agency reference who verified this dude? None.

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The shocking truth revealed after verification policy change

A statistical pattern surfaced:

About 90% of names were either fake or modified;
Nine out of ten guys used names different than the names that showed on their IDs.

Wow! Where was the safety in reference checking if in fact, none of the data provided was accurate? We were mortified to learn that had we continued to use the reference checking process, we might have under minded the confidence of thousands of City Club members who entrusted us with their loyalty and safety. Since then, we have not encountered any issues with the security of our members.

 

Stay tuned for our next article about screening

Part two in a series of three, look for our next article about The Secure Method of Employment Verification. See you there!