Categorizing the Hobbyist

From our perspective, there are all sorts of hobbyists who choose to see independent escorts. Their reasons vary greatly.

They are not necessarily hobbyists though many do fit the ticket. Then of course, there are the exceptions that are not shaped by any mold. We thought it would be interesting to consider the types that City Girls encounters often.

A green nametag sticker with the words Hello I Am New for a rookie, trainee, new staff hire, newbie, beginner or apprentice
A green nametag sticker with the words Hello I Am New for a rookie, trainee, new staff hire, newbie, beginner or apprentice

New girl client

In our case, we see this gentleman often. That’s because many of the independent escorts who are a part of the CG Club fall under the guise of TOFTT (Take One for The Team). They are spectacular and come highly recommended. However, they may still be considered ‘new’ to many men in the world of adult entertainment. Perhaps more common in controlled establishments (City Girls is a private club), new girls may fall victim to the Bottom Fish Client (see below). These hobbyists may attempt to exploit the new girl and even abuse her and endanger her life. Having not been around long enough to get her ‘escort wings’, she’s finished before she’s begun. Naturally, City Girls turns their back on these types of guys. We tend to shield our independent escorts with as much knowledge and guidance as possible.

Cartoon Ball and chain. Just married man with ball and chain
Cartoon Ball and chain. Just married man with ball and chain

Married man

He chooses the company of a companion not because his marriage is happy. Most often, he and his wife co-exist in a glorified roommate situation. The marriage is loveless and totally lacks intimacy. Or, the ties that bind are financial in nature and there might be children involved in a household where divorce is unconscionable. So the marriage dwells in a hapless state. This gentleman seeks emotional, physical and psychological fulfillment from a beautiful provider. She is the best in her field offering intimacy and camaraderie in a genuine capacity. It is common for these male types to be endlessly romantic, seeking the most genuine of girl friend experiences. The lines between a professional arrangement and love relationship are sometimes blurred. While he may not fit the structured definition of a sugar daddy, the relationship may naturally flow into a hybrid version.

Beautiful woman wearing the United States flag bikini holding a football isolated over white background
Beautiful woman wearing the United States flag bikini holding a football isolated over white background

Natural asset lover

This hobbyist seeks the company of an independent escort for sport. Her physical criteria are his primary focus. While he may date only a handful of girls, he remains emotionally detached. Gratification is his main objective. He enjoys her much like he would a football game and drinking a couple of beers. Marital status does not apply.

fetish man

Fetish man

The term fetish is in a class by itself. Though we have written about the topic before, there exists a vast range of unusual interests. It could include a specific fixation on an object, body part or material facilitated by a companion who makes no claim as a fetish expert. Or, it could be a more sophisticated, psychological obsession that requires a highly specialized dominatrix.

Disguised hobbyist reviewer
Disguised hobbyist reviewer

Bottom fish client

Unfortunately, they exist. They are the ones who give the hobby a bad rap. They are the ones who will never grace the presence of City Girls’ Club of independent escorts. At the risk of sounding haughty or negative, these men may be of a belligerent nature, motivated by a desire to exploit a provider. Often, he is a woman-hater with a sketchy or unethical past. He may try to take advantage of her and in the worst case, may hurt her. Inflicting pain is not just limited to the physical. He may falsify a bad review of their encounter, knowing very well that doing so will jeopardize her career. Imposing such vengeance on the reputation of a provider can be the kiss of death and end her career. He knows this.

Businessman in classic vest against row of suits in shop
Businessman in classic vest against row of suits in shop

Perfect client

This type of gentleman is most familiar to courtesans. He seeks true companionship on a higher level. Such a courtesan is acutely aware of who she will and will not spend time with. She will turn down a client if she does not sense a genuine connection. She truly enjoys her profession and usually spends time with a handful of suitors who shower her with utmost respect, gifts and travel excursions. This man is not a hobbyist per say and his is extremely discreet. He tends to maintain his relationship for a long time, sometimes even years. They might become very close friends and he may even assist her in financial endeavors. We have heard of cases where marriage resulted.

City Girls is in no way biased toward any person

We support freedom of individuality. Every hobbyist, independent escort or sugar daddy/baby is totally unique! We recognize the good in folks and encourage that everyone practice higher ethics through virtuous behavior. Do unto others as you would have them do to you!

Many kisses, Chloe xoxo

Escort Fashion – Tips on How to Look Like a Million Bucks

Next Let’s talk about some basic guidelines helpful in building and staying up-to-date with your wardrobe.

Be comfortable in your skin

In the escort industry, it is a myth that a companion must conform to a manner of dress that is cheap and revealing. Allow your personal style to shine through clothing that allows you to feel comfortable and at ease. As a GFE, realize that you should dress according to a standard that resembles that of your client and one that is appropriate for the venue. It is not necessary to subscribe to the latest fad or fashion trend. Adding timeless, classic pieces to your wardrobe will last much longer than the time stamped trendy garment.

Dress for the occasion, the person and the location

As a GFE independent escort, you need to invest in a versatile wardrobe that allows you to dress for a variety of occasions at a moment’s notice. Weather plays a huge factor in attire, especially when touring. The dress code of an independent escort who resides in Miami is drastically different than that of the escort who resides in West Virginia or New York City. Familiarize yourself with the fashion code respective to every city where you will tour. Every event will require its own signature look whether you are attending a black tie engagement, joining a hobbyist for an elegant dinner or simply staying in to enjoy your own private party. If you are spending an extended period of time with a hobbyist, meticulously plan every conceivable outfit suitable for the destination.

Wear your own version of classy yet seductive attire

Seductive clothing is not limited to a micro mini dress and 5-inch platform heels. While you may look simply ravishing in such an ensemble, unless you are attending a night club or rockin’ party, chances are excellent that your look will be too conspicuous and that you should wear something more suitable. A companion well put together in a fitted pencil skirt, feminine silk blouse and sleek pumps is undeniably sexy and irresistibly seductive. If you are attending a sporting event, a pair of nice jeans that hug your figure, a playful, slightly revealing blouse and heels will win the heart of your man. Will you accompany your client to a business engagement in Washington, D.C. during the heart of winter? Perhaps a pair of chic, leather boots, fitted wool dress and overcoat will impress him with your stunning appearance.

Hairstyle and makeup can make or break your look

Equal in importance to your fashion statement is your physical presentation. As an independent escort, yourhair should look and feel luxurious and healthy, whether thin, thick, short or long. Dry, damaged hair will compromise any style. Dry hair can be a reflection of poor diet or lack of maintenance or both and make you look less refined. Start with a good cut and conditioner followed by some sort of color treatment, whether it is a cellophane, dye, bleach or highlights. Follow up every six to eight weeks with a trim and touch up. Your complexion should radiate. Familiarize yourself with the best color palette for your skin tone. If you are unsure about how to apply makeup that is most flattering without looking caky and overdone, consult with a makeup artist at the cosmetic counter of a department store.

City Girls gives you the basic building blocks of a fabulous look

With a little research and skillful organization, looking like a million bucks doesn’t take much! And you do not have to break the bank to build a ravishing wardrobe. Do not hesitate to consult with a fashion stylist if shopping overwhelms you. Familiarity with your style complimented by creativity can make the difference between an independent escort who ‘wows’ her client and the one who barely raises his brow!

Looks or Personality? The Most Important Factors in Escorting, Part I

In the competitive industry of independent escorting, flaming hot good looks will attract hobbyists to you. A bright and charismatic personality coupled with talents inherent in an independent escort will draw repeat clients. This is the winning combination crucial for the independent escort who wants to be successful!

Attraction encompasses much more than just the physical

Here’s a silly analogy but you will get the idea: imagine receiving a beautiful gift for your birthday ornately wrapped and tied with a silk bow. When you open the box in sheer anticipation, it is empty. How disappointed would you be? As an independent escort, if the box is your physique and the content is your personality, a hobbyist is going to be disappointed if he is left with nothing. You will hear hobbyists talk about ‘how beautiful’ or ‘how hot’ she was. But you will also hear comments about how engaging, interesting or genuine she was. Good looks will get your foot in the door with a gentleman. Your sparkling personality will cause him to want to see you again and again.

The world is saturated with beautiful women

If you are just starting out as an independent escort, you may get by for a while on just your ravishing looks. But there is more dimension to a successful escort than just her physical charm. With so many beautiful women in the world from which a hobbyist can choose, what sets you apart from the rest? At the end of the day, the world will not stop for your mouth-watering looks. Humble yourself and ask, “how can I better myself?”

Create repeat clients with your personality

When a hobbyist is at ease, he is more likely to relax and reveal his desires to you. Accommodate your client with the charisma of your personality. When you yourself are relaxed, inviting, engaging and understanding, you provide a sanctuary of comfort which is exactly what a gentleman is looking for.

Learn how to ‘read’ the needs and desires of a hobbyist

Evaluation of your client may present somewhat of a challenge that eventually you will master if you set your mind to it. Flexibility and intelligence play a big role in ‘reading’ or interpreting his fantasies. Is he a casual guy looking for fun? Is he a corporate figure stressed who needs to unwind? Is he entangled in a troubled relationship and needs your understanding? Always be polite and never uptight. Smile and maintain your sunny disposition. It is your job to move him into your comfort zone. Regardless, you can be sure that he will make the most of your time together. But it is your job to give him more. Give him an experience that will resound in his memory causing him to want to see you again and again.

All that glitters is not always gold

Independent escorting is not a mindless job. There is a psychological element to escorting and those companions who ‘get it’ are the ones who prevail with success. Hobbyists seek the girl friend experience from an independent escort who is understanding and talented. Set your mind to these tasks and you will succeed! Stay tuned for part two of this topic. There is so much more to talk about!

The Power of Lingerie

Lingerie speaks to the subtle or demanding about fashion, power and sexuality

The word lingerie is an old French term meaning linge orlinen. It was originally introduced into the English language as a euphemism for scandalous underclothing. The actual term lingerie did not become widespread until the 1850’s. From the feminine and boyish to the painful and practical, lingerie has a rich history and reveals a lot about a society’s social and political values.

The bra and panty set

Every escort claims in her collection of lingerie several of these magical sets. Delicate lace gently hugging the shape of a her breasts can be intoxicating. A satin push up bra can lend to exquisite cleavage which alone will compel her lover’s fantasy. When his eyes fall to the lucky panty affectionately embracing her hips and secret treasure, suddenly two garments minimal is size shroud his desire with a erotic spell. Whether these delightful bits of thread concealing her feminine charms remain intact or are feverishly removed by hungry hands, the bra and pantieshave done their job and mad lust is to be made.

Black Lace Body Suit

While a companion may assertively adorn her body for you in one of these addictive pieces of lingerie, a hobbyist very well may have to make the request. This devilish little number may not be something your lady fancies as sleepwear but it is certainly a dark and delightful stimulant to loads of vigorous fun. Some body suits hold a naughty little opening conveniently located and noticeable when straddling the legs of your lady. The black lace body suit unquestionably worships the shape of a woman’s physique lighting fire to even the most tepid of libidos.

Garter Belts

Oh la la! Garter belts just may be the euphoria of lingerie. A shimmery suspender that opens to reveal a thong that disappears between your companion’s legs is poetry waiting to be expressed through the bodily language of love.

The Corset

Panels of mystical, floral embroidery that stretch tightly around her waist, molding her curves, can be visually mind blowing. While some corsets politely shape the breasts, others sinfully reveal the breasts, jutting and probing them forward into the mouth of their suitor. Every escort should lay claim to at least one corset.

The superior sexiness of stockings

Even the least expensive stockings are better than no stockings. However, if you are a hobbyistwho is a true connoisseur, the sleek fineness of a silk stocking with just a lick of lace to hold in place surrounding the top of the thigh is deliciously preferred. The heavenly caress of a silkstocking does not lie.

All of us here at City Girls recognize that sensuality makes the world go ‘round

It is the bare essence of human nature since the beginning of time. The visual appeal of sexuality is far reaching whether it’s present in political marketing, indulgence in cuisine, fashion or the privacy of your bedroom. We get it and our independent escorts speak the language of lingerie.