City Girls no longer advertises on GFEClub. After GFEClub made changes to their escort advertising policy, we decided it was best to part ways. As a result, we are asking all of our CG members to discontinue posting escort reviews on that board. Instead:
How the BestGFE review process works
After your appointment, you will receive by email a short survey in which you can rate your date. Following submission of the survey, you will be directed to your date’s profile page on the BestGFE website. And by the way, it is always good practice to check ratings for every escort on the VIP website.
Where not to post reviews
Gents, please DO NOT post reviews on any other boards including but not limited to ECCIE and GFEClub.
CG website upgrade makes ratings more user-friendly
Come next week, City Girls is slated for a major website upgrade that will improve the ease with which you can submit and view providers ratings. We are always thinking about the user experience of our members.
Hobby Phone coming soon!
You’ve all been waiting and we are proud to announce that beta testing is complete. Hobby Phone is now connected to our phone dispatch system. Stay tuned for an instructional video soon to be released on how to use Hobby Phone as an alternative to your mobile device.
Nuru, meaning slippery, is an ancient Japanese art form and has fastly risen to the top of the list for sensual massage enthusiasts. Known as the grey area of massage, Nuru is all about tactile, auditory and visual stimulation. Many independent escorts specialize in Nuru massage in addition to their companionship services. Ever visited a Nuru girl?
Get ready for some intoxicating bliss
Popularized as the cousin of soapy massage, Nuru massage represents a transformational blend of healing and intimacy. A massage specialist akin to a sensual acrobat will slide her entire body all over yours from head to toe in a variety of ways that are utterly foreign, shiny, slippery and erotic. This is not your average day at the spa though when done correctly, there can be serious muscular benefits. Made from leaves of the brown seaweed plant, seaweed gel is the secret to enjoying a proper Nuru massage. Any other oily substance used does not lend to an authentic Nuru massage.
What to expect during a Nuru massage session
This incredible experience begins with a hot, steamy shower during which your massage specialist will prep you with a steadily-growing chorus of attention. The visual delight alone of her incredible body with all its tight and shapely bends will be enough to test your pleasure threshold. If you are lucky enough to find such a service, your Nuru girl may initiate the experience with a warm, sudsy bubble bath known as a soapy massage. In either instance, this is only the beginning. After this cleansing episode, she will take you by the hand and lead you in all of your wet and slippery splendor, to a soft surface sheathed with a plastic coating. Amidst flickering candles, soft music and a savory scent wafting through the air, your visual sense will be dazzled by the shiny smoothness of her flexible body. Lying down, she will slide all over you covering every inch of your body. Your hands might give in to curiosity as they eagerly explore the wonderful sensation of her curves. Arousal comes like a long, slow wave lingering at the brink of ecstasy.
As she continues to glide about your physique she will pull away from your body with a sticky, sucking sound so that you can view her body in a heightened state of stimulation.
When you want to relax and unwind it’s time to get wet
An ancient art of relaxation, Nuru massage is a must in every man’s intimacy repertoire. It is a celebration of the senses allowing your most intimate feelings to emerge and considered by many as the greatest massage you will ever experience. Double your pleasure with a 4-hands massage as two Nuru girls deliver you to a heightened sense of arousal never felt before. A body slide will take you to extraordinary levels, draining stress and anxiety, leaving you in a state of blissful joy.
How was your last make out session? For an intense sensual experience, kissing exchanges a host of information about compatibility with your date. The more time you spend kissing the more your evening is primed for the time of your life. Kissing opens the doors to passion that builds naturally. Before you begin your next romp, consider the following:
First base equals facial intercourse
It’s the first time you’ve met and your anticipation is intense. The door opens slowly to reveal the most intoxicating escort you have ever encountered. Before any words are spoken, this buxom vixen takes you in her arms and delivers the most delectable kiss imaginable. As you embrace, the kissing only intensifies and things quickly advance to second base. Then, you awake and realize it was only a dream.
Kissing releases feel-good endorphins
Those full, moist lips gently glossed reveal a dazzling smile and promises of ecstasy. Did you know that saliva contains testosterone which triggers the libido ? Passionate, playful, long and hard is the kiss that speaks for itself.
What’s your favorite kiss?
Whether you have seen your companion several times or are just hooking up, what kind of kiss delivers the ‘I really want you’ message?
The French kiss
It is a timeless, passionate gesture done with lots of saliva. Tongues circle while hands exploring each other as the movement and excitement heighten. French kissing can continue for hours or lead to urgent ecstasy.
The single-lip kiss
Perhaps you have seen your date more than once and the affection is obvious. The single-lip kiss is where the mouth of one gently closes in on the top or bottom lip of the other. It is a soft, playful kiss that signifies romance.
The neck kiss
It is the kiss that takes your breath away and leaves you panting for more. It is a kissing motion full of caresses on skin that is sensitive and not generally touched very often. Generally followed by a luscious session of French kissing, neck kissing tends to release the wild side in both.
Preparing to pucker up
Before you engage in any deep kissing, a nice, close shave is best to remove any stubble followed by a few dabs of cologne. Freshen your breath by brushing followed with a swig of mouthwash. If you really want to sweeten the deal, gift a box of strawberries to your date to activate the sweet receptors in your mouths so that your sense of taste goes into overdrive. Be prepared for a grand slam!
Kissing is an art
And the key to intimacy. It is the ultimate in sensual excitement because you are completely engaged in one – lips, bodies and minds connecting. Allowing the hands to do a bit of exploring only intensifies the experience. You owe it to yourself to keep smooching!
You had only good intentions. Keep things simple and safe. Just dabble in a bit of fun on the side with a bombshell brunette. You know. Kick up your heels a bit and put the F back into fun. The wife’s content with her world and you’re both on decent terms; work’s going great and the mortgage is almost paid off. But then, you done went and fell in love. Seriously?
The heart is never invited to those steamy encounters
But on this particular date things were different. Maybe it’s because life is fairly bland and hasn’t thrown you any curves balls in a while so your guards were down. Or, perhaps a hint of loneliness has been tugging at your psyche for a while and this companion pushed all of your emotional buttons. She actually fulfilled you in more ways than just with frolic. Somehow, things felt so right during those few hours and you felt ardently on top of the world. She left you with a hop in your step but more importantly, a swell in your chest because you’ve been with butterflies ever since.
A hobbyist is not supposed to fall in love
But it happens. Heck, we’ve even seen a gent and his escort tie the knot. Sugar arrangements are probably a more common answer to intense romance – when you must see your muse on a regular basis otherwise you can’t function properly. In a way, such an emotional entanglement can present a sort of ball and chain in that it robs you of the very freedom you enjoyed going into the whole hobbying thing in the first place. Or not.
She makes you feel young again
Now, gents. Youthfulness is a state of mind and can be robbed of your soul at any age. If you’ve been working your tail off for decades and intimacy at home is in the refrigerator, her affection just might manifest the juvenescence in you. Voila! It’s sensual spring time and and you have a new lease on life.
The prime of your life renewed
Not only are you hizzit’n the skizzins like a virile 18-year old into the wee morning hours, but this chick gets off riding the flagpole like a wild cowgirl and has rendered you immortal in the process. You’ve got your mojo back and that glow about you shows. It’s just that her incredible body void of even an ounce of baby fat and those succulent lips drive you mad with desire. Whatever self- control you used to have is nowhere to be found and your brain is on holiday for the heart rules. Sure, all those yummy escorts you’ve dated over the years were epic but none of them ever had a vice grip on your heart.
Maybe it’s that small golden talisman that she wears on her nude person
Or the way her long hair falls about you when she’s…well, you know. Or perhaps it’s because she listens intently to everything you say and doesn’t ask too many questions, only to respond with another round of kisses. Her energy is unfettered; her inhibitions nonexistent. Her attitude is untainted; her desire for pleasure lustfully unconstrained. When the timing is right, no man can resist.
When does it end?
Only fate knows the answer. But for sure, when it is supposed to. Most important is not to muck things up with drama. Keep your affair neat, clean and confidential. Never spill the beans about your private life, personal affairs or those of your wife and kids (if you have them). Should your relationship ever turn South, the last thing you want to face is a confrontation or worse, a divorce. Enjoy the ride while you can because you never know if it will be the last.
Male testosterone is that mythical wonder that turns a memorable date into one exploding with stamina. You know testosterone, that good ol’ T that makes a man a man? The holy grail of male hormones, testosterone peaks around age 20, then gradually reduces by about one percent a year starting around age 30-40. If you are into dating resilient escorts with gym-sculpted bodies, keeping up performance-wise can only optimize your experience. There are heaps of things you can do to up the intensity of your T.
Lift the heavy stuff
Working out your body’s biggest muscles – the glutes and legs – packs a huge hormone hit. For heaven’s sake, get your hobbying butt in the gym and start lifting weights. For added motivation, picture that dynamite independent escort prettying herself for a delightful evening of intimate entertainment just for you. The thought will certainly put the incentive in your workout and may even add a few extra reps to your squat set. Don’t forget your cardio and use those kettle bells to strengthen the much needed core. Still lacking motivation? Hire a trainer of the blonde, bodacious type. She’ll get your gym shorts in a roar.
Fatten it up
Diets with higher amounts of monounsaturated and saturated fats have higher testosterone levels. We are not talking fried chicken, 40-ounce porterhouse steak or pizza. Check it out:
• Monounsaturated – olive oil, almonds, avocados, peanut butter
• Saturated – red meat, coconut oil, egg yolks, cheese
Get more sleep
Are you burning the midnight oil? Dealing with long days at the office or extended business trips in which you didn’t sleep a wink because of that passionate brunette with her curvaceous body wrapped around yours? Either way, lack of zz’s will tweak your T and you don’t want to fall asleep in the arms of that gorgeous creature, now do you!
Include these super foods in your diet
Maybe you’re a meat and potatoes man or perhaps even a vegetarian (in which case you’ll want to rule out animal proteins) but these yummy food items should become testosterone staples in your diet: bananas, mushrooms, black beans and acerola cherries.
Don’t believe the cholesterol myth
Did you know that testosterone is derived from cholesterol? There is a strong correlation between HDL cholesterol (the good one) and free testosterone (the one considered bioavailable, unbound to proteins and absorbable by tissue). Incorporating whole eggs into your diet can improve the lipoprotein profile for increased HDL cholesterol (and also improve or contribute to preventing a host of other health issues including heart disease). When you awake with a sleeping angel in your arms, pound a few poached eggs before you burst into morning recreation.
Sugar is the devil
Calling all sweetaholics – you know who you are! Research has found that sugar ingestion can cause a man’s testosterone to drop by up to twenty five percent. This is not good for performance when you have an epic evening planned with a gorgeous muse and you just chowed down on a candy bar driving to meet her. Keep in mind that sweet liqueurs are also loaded with sugar so when you go for that nightcap, think again. Are we getting the picture?
Ingest natural herbs and supplements to treat low T
While some of us are into homeopathy, the results are not always conclusive. On the other hand, ingesting natural, organic Chinese herbs can yield powerful results. If you are a man who wants to go the extra mile by increasing your libido and enhancing your performance, the following herbs are known throughout indigenous cultures around the world to increase testosterone levels: Fenugreek, horny goat weed (pun intended), Malaysian ginseng, puncturevine, Ashwagandha, yohimbe, DHEA (Dehydroepiandrosterone), pine bark extract, arginine, zinc, vitamin D (go on…do some pool time!), D-aspartic acid, garlic (in pill form, will not taint your minty breath), Korean red ginseng, Chrysin, saw palmetto (every man with a prostate over the age of 40 should be taking this, no questions asked). Hold off on buying the silly stuff – proprietary blends that feature words such as ‘Extreme’ or ‘XXX’. If you’re not into doing the research, see a Chinese herbalist. They’ll hook you up with the right herbs that will have your libido doing summersaults in no time. Your date will thank you.
City Girls is all about the power of your testosterone
Impaired sexual function is not something that a man needs for reasons we all are aware of. Let’s not even go there. Combine our tips and put them into practice because if you do, the fruits of your efforts will blow your testosterone off the manly map and all of our delectable dames will be asking for dates with you!
How do you like your ladyscape? We are talking below the beauty belt, the most highly coveted of all luxury femme spots. This juicy diameter of sensual real estate is the most highly sought after of all love zones where a man likes to nestle his netherrod as frequently as possible. We’ve heard from hundreds of hobbyists about how they like their vajayjays and this is what they told us:
Completely bare doesn’t grow there
Also known as the Hollywood or the Sphinx, The Brazilian is the Queen of all waxes. Bagging the bush is definitely the preferred style for the majority of gents who date our velvety-smooth, independent escorts. As soft as a baby’s butt is the resulting texture of a lady’s most Southern region with not a fuzz to be found. Period. The muse that regularly waxes her well-appointed mound and areas found further below bares the most erotic of looks sure to drive her man out of his honey-lovin’ mind.
No lady garden left unattended
Waxing doesn’t exactly tickle and therefore isn’t for the faint of heart. For many escorts, there is an alternative method of maintaining a clean conejo that produces the same delicious sans carpet style that you all love. Shaving has evolved into an art form, an intimate ceremony between a lady and her flower that if ever witnessed by you kitty-obsessed dudes would surely get you off with hardly a stroke. The attention with which she pays her hoo-hee starts with a long soak in a hot bath (just imagine her curves glistening through the suds as she massages herself so as to soften the skin prior to trimming). She then proceeds to groom her fleece until it is no more. She will conclude with yet another massage of perfumed oil to preserve this most succulent of areas in preparation for the fun to follow.
Trimmed and tidy
For the man aroused by a subtle shade of au naturel, this is the way to go. Of course, an escort must never style her canyon coiffure without first knowing her final destination. If she is especially creative, she may opt for a heart, floral or triangular shape for some extra added surprise. If she is of the brunette variety, that frisky shape will peek right through her lacy lingerie, beckoning immediate attention from who other than her admirer of the evening.
The Landing Strip
A glimpse of natural womanhood is the theme for this well-intentioned look quite arousing for the gent who loves his independent escort to catwalk in nothing more than her stilettos. It is a calculated groom, angular in nature and requires a mirror for accuracy. To achieve a precision look, many escorts opt for a partial Brazilian wax which implies to her date that she really cares about making a good impression.
Beauty bling for lady bits
Ooh la la! For the poon aficionado who likes his punani sparkling with jewels, the Vajazzle is the macdaddy of looks. Foofed out with a delicate flower, butterfly, heart or the like, her pelvic area is adorned with a delicate decoration that delivers one message to her inamorato: come and get me you big, handsome hunk. What man on this pink mink earth could resist?
For the past few years, City Girls has offered the TOFTT program to its VIP members. Whether you are a hobbyist versed in its amazing benefits or just getting familiar, below is useful information about the new and improved features of TOFTT.
TOFTT dates are $250 per hr!
TOFTT stands for ‘Take One For the Team’.In the hobbyist world, TOFTT means that a gentleman has dated an independent escort who has not yet received any reviews. Following TOFTT protocol, he respectfully highlights his encounter with fellow hobbyists within the community. His date could have been passionately groundbreaking, intimately memorable or boringly bland. In following TOFTT philosophy, he has scored his experience by putting the word out to his escort dating comrades.
Benefits of a TOFTT date through City Girls
Though they are stunningly gorgeous and unspeakably talented, some of our independent escorts are unknown in the hobbying world and therefore not backed by escort reviews. Our ladies are approved as club members based upon recommendation for their obvious beauty and sensual aptitude. For City Girls, TOFTTreviews solidify ladies’ memberships as independent escorts and strengthen our (already solid) reputation as a club that stands behind its VIP members. When a hobbyist gets to date an exceptionally talented beauty at the discounted TOFTT rate, it’s a win-win situation.
Who is eligible for a TOFTT date?
Only VIP members of City Girls backed by a solid reputation of feedback and participation on the BestGFE website qualify. If you are a VIP member of City Girls, you must have participated in a minimum of five BestGFE threads.
How to get approved for TOFTT status
Log in to your VIP account
Click Menu button and Settings.
TOFTT approval Status and if not approved, press Request Approval.
Enter your BestGFE username and click Verify.
Wait a few seconds for approval status to show below the TOFTT approval indicator. If you do not have a history of participating in five threads in a BestGFE forum, you will receive an error message If you meet the criteria, you will receive a private message (PM) through BestGFE that includes a PIN code. Enter your PIN code to complete the approval process
Don’t have a BestGFE account?No worries! Sign up for your free account at www.BestGFE.com where you will find a wealth of resourceful information and insight about the hobby.
Scheduling time with an exceptionally beautiful lady does not preclude a gentleman from feeling nervous. The notion of time spent with such a stunning goddess can hold him back. His stomach may churn if for nothing more than excitement of the unknown. Concerns about making a good first impression on a first date, fear of rejection or even performance anxiety can be a bit intimidating.
If you are a hobbyist reading these words, how do you combat ‘gorgeous date anxiety’? We spoke to a few of our top VIP members and this is what we summarized:
Focus on your date
Listen to what you date talks about. Pay attention to her words, body language (well, this one may be obvious), smile and eye contact. Communicate with her. Stay outside of yourself and downplay internal reactions. In other words, try not to get stuck on thoughts or opinions. Make an effort to absorb what she talks about.
Be open minded and optimistic
Companions come from all walks of life. Focus on the positive possibilities of your date by suspending judgment and not dwelling on trivial details. Set aside personal assumptions, beliefs and thoughts and allow yourself to enjoy the moment! Be optimistic and open. As a result, you will notice a warm interaction, perhaps exchange a few jokes and opinions.
Identify the positives and opportunities
Independent escorts (and even random strangers) have something unique and interesting from which we can learn. Keep an open mind and take an interest in understanding who she is and where she is coming from.
It will remove you from your head and help see the positive aspects of your encounter. You will feel more social, enjoy better conversations and get to know your date just a bit more. Look for ways that will help the two of you connect. The act of exchanging perspectives, experiences and opinions can be a great segway to intimacy especially if you are the nervous type. Identifying a sense of familiarity can go a long way in breaking the ice and lead to a fabulous time together.
Keep in light and flirty
Focus on happy topics of conversation and avoid talking about dramatic, traumatic or negative events. However, if you are a gentleman seeking emotional fulfillment through a true girl friend experience, you may be more inclined to approach deeper subjects and needs. If you sense chemistry, chances are that you will see her again. You can then feel more at ease taking the time to establish a sense of familiarity during your first engagement. Then, your second date will be better than ever! The goal is to be ‘growth oriented’, to play and have both people enjoy time spent together.
Diminish worry and anxiety
No matter the scenario, dating a beautiful escort can be riveting at best, nerve racking at worst. Your encounter should be beneficial, enjoyable and memorable. Beyond the obvious, finding the fun in your date can enrich your experience by volumes! When both hobbyist and independent escort connect, there are no limits to gratification.
Gentlemen, during this Christmas season giving the gift of lingerie can be risky business. Even in the world of adult entertainment, you never know for sure if you are purchasing the appropriate garment.
Will it fit her? Will the size you choose offend her? Master both challenges during this cozy holiday season and reap the rewards. My masculine friends, City Girls is here to turn your questions into answers!
Noir is known to please
Can you say black? It’s about as safe and flattering as it gets. Think passion, drama (the good kind), and contour. Every independent escort loves black lingerie and has at least one piece in her collection. All at once, black is sophisticated, mysterious and sexy. Moreover, black is the best friend of every woman as it enhances shape and perfects size. No woman can ever have too much black lingerie. If your pocketbook allows, look for black silk whether lace or satin. Silk is the platinum of lingerie.
What is red hot?
A sexy cut in the right tone of red equals an irresistibly spicy piece of lingerie. However, not every independent escort is into red. We recommend purchasing red lingerie only to the hobbyist who is familiar with the likes and dislikes of his companion. Whether her style is classic, contemporary or retro, an entire ensemble should be included. One piece of red does not stand on its own so easily. Complete the look with a bra, panty, suspender and stocking combo. Getting overwhelmed, guys? Simplify your shopping with a super silky slip coupled with a pair of matching boudoir mules and be on your way.
Dream of a white Christmas
An entire universe separates white and winter white. White is like pure snow while winter white is more like ivory. Not every woman is into white which necessitates a little investigation in advance. Done right, white lingerie can look quite elegant and alluring. Done wrong, it can look cheap and tacky. If white is the way to go, a silk robe or kimono is a safe bet. Include a white silk panty and some matching pom pom mules and you’ll have yourself one sexy angel!
When to get kinky
If you are a sugar daddy who knows your sugar baby well, you just may qualify to give the gift of kink. For the hobbyist enamored with his companion, look to her wish list for guidance. Latex, leather and themed outfits cross the line that separates convention and fetish. We strongly caution hobbyists against purchasing such unusually specific lingerie gifts without first knowing what a companion is into.
Buy first for her and second for you
It’s time to get selfless, gents. Purchase lingerie motivated by your desires and run the risk of disappointment. As we have discussed in previous articles, visit a small boutique where customer service is the focus and insure her satisfaction. However, if you still not feeling the confidence, take her on a Christmas shopping spree. Target a [high end] boutique and schedule an intimate appointment with a consultant. Complete the afternoon with a lovely champagne-filled lunch and watch her fall all over you.
You have met the perfect escort. She is your soul mate, beautiful inside and out. What’s more, the two of you have fallen in love! How do you deal with her job? This week’s article will talk about a plan of action when a gentleman wants to marry an escort.
As a hobbyist, you have fallen in love with an escort. The emotion and physical gratification bestowed upon a gentleman from such feminine perfection can be overwhelming, leaving your emotions in a state of total confusion. If the love is genuine and not coated with infatuation, the two of you will inevitably face decisions on adapting your respective lifestyles to join together in some form of marriage (spiritual, traditional, religious). Though they do exist, successful escort marriages are far and few between that form lasting relationships in which the escort continues to entertain other gentlemen in what would constitute a non-conventional relationship. As a soon-to-be-retired hobbyist, below are a few questions to ask yourself after your heart has riveted your world and taken the lead:
Will she stop escorting?
If your new love does not enjoy her work in the adult entertainment industry, then it will be easier for her to retire. But if she is rather vested in what she does and has a tendency to bond more intimately with friends, it is possible that she will find it a little more difficult to break away permanently.
Is she addicted to a lucrative income and luxurious lifestyle?
A companion who enjoys her career as a professional entertainer may find the lifestyle flattering and rewarding. If you as her new found love can match that comfort level then the strength of transitioning into marriage is strong. Such a situation does not render you a sugar daddy or her a sugar baby for that matter because love forms the foundation.
Is she attached to relationships that define her escort identity?
Many companions form durable friendships with their gentlemen friends that shape their individuality as entertainers and confidantes. Much of their time spent together includes plush entertainment and opulent travel reinforced by gentlemanly attention that nurtures and flatters their egos. While entering into a marriage by two people from any type of background can be challenging in today’s complicated world, doing so by an escort can be rigorous. Marital partners should be prepared to acknowledge awareness of each others’ pasts and be prepared to meet their respective needs to the best of their abilities.
What will be the direction of her new career, if any?
Assuming she chooses to retire, the independent escort who has outside aspirations will adapt to her new, conventional marriage by pursuing her ambitions. How exciting as her new and true identity takes form! As her husband, you the gentleman should be nothing but supportive (as should she be of you) so as to insulate the transition and ensure peacefulness within the marriage.
Success stories of married escorts who maintain their careers
There are married couples who swing while maintaining open relationships. There are those escorts whose husbands accept continuance of their work with an open mind. In the latter, most at some point do retire if for no other reason than to relieve the strain that escorting can place on a marriage with a man who desires not to share the intimacy of his woman with other men. All being said there are no rules in life except those that work. Dance to your own tune but follow your instinct and find the strength to ask yourself questions addressed in this article.