RECOGNIZING TER FOR WHAT IT IS

Shout out to the adult world!

When one door closes, another opens. In our case, that door would be the pearly gates of BestGFE. Baby, open’m up ‘cause we’re comin’ home!!!

City Girls’ video production department (who knew?) has just released a stunning allegorical tale about trustworthiness and betrayal. As the story unfolds, our senses are drenched in a soundtrack that tugs at our hearts while arousing our spirits for Ana is breathtakingly gorgeous. While this video is not to be missed, we suggest that you watch it at least three times for it is rich with symbolism. This article will serve as your cliff notes.

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Recognizing disloyalty and treacherous behavior that is The Erotic Review

With biting precision, this film tells the account of a beautiful independent escort (shall we call her Crista?) who has been betrayed by her man. Demonstrating total disregard, he dismisses her as evidenced by tossing her paperwork into the garbage. Though open to interpretation for there is no dialogue that we the viewers can hear, Crista is shocked by his callous actions but displays impressive resilience. Her emotions are clearly affected because she trusted this man and now her livelihood is at stake. But she takes the moral high ground, heroically standing up to this ogre of the adult world as we can all but hear her put him in his place.

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Suddenly, our stomachs ache with butterflies

As Crista seeks refuge in the bathroom with this man at her heels. We get a strong sense that he is already feeling remorse for his careless decisions which have turned her world upside down as he beats on the door with regret written all over his face. Staring into the mirror in twisted anguish, she makes a shotgun decision for betrayal is the ultimate transgression and it’s time to move on. We cannot help but feel compassion for this beauty because she has a good heart and does the right thing: she sends a text message to her ‘Best’ friend to ‘please come pick me up!’

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Its mine, and I`m taking it?

In all her bravery, Crista opens the door and faces malevolence as he physically tries to stop her. But she will not have it, breaks free to pack her bag and leave but not before she claims what is rightfully hers. Can she rely upon her best friend to be there for her? Substance of the friendship is soon put to the test. Reaching into the trash to collect the stack of papers that we saw tossed at the beginning of the film, a question mark glows in our minds and we are left wondering.

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We’ve all been there, been screwed over

As the music builds to a climax we are mesmerized on the edges of our seats. Crista must now contend with fear of the unknown, that poignant stage of vulnerability entering into an undeniable rite of passage as she removes herself from the darkness to face the light. What better way to symbolize this metaphorical pathway than with closure of the gates as we watch Crista exit without looking back. She walks through the cold, solitary snow toward a Mercedes sedan that is waiting for her. Suddenly, she is approached by a friend that extends a single pink rose. Crista retains her elegance and holds her head up high with a gentle yet ravishing smile, never compromising her standards or ethics even in the face of temptation. Though he appears to be a gentleman and is clearly smitten, Crista politely declines the rose and his company, instead tucking a small white card into his pocket, motioning him to call her. He is left standing there, bewildered as he watches her climb in the car of her best friend. And what is inscribed on the license plate? BEST GFE 777. 777 is a message from angels that one is on the right path serving a divine purpose in life.

 

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City Girls is a rock!

Crista and her best friend drive off into the peaceful, snowy weather. Implications shift to the disappointment written all over this man’s face as he reaches for the white card in his pocket that is inscribed with www.NowItsAHistory.com. As the film comes to an end, our fingers race to the keyboard where we view a list of more than 120 girls just like Crista who were left in the same predicament. We wonder if these ladies were affected by the same fate. But in our hearts we know that Crista’s best friend is also their best friend and we chuckle for who is left holding the bag? I think we all know the answer.

 

Ultimate Guidelines for Becoming a Sugar Daddy

Most independent escorts enjoy their profession because of the freedom and independence that it gives them. On occasion, a companion may find herself becoming extremely comfortable with a client or even having feelings for him. When a hobbyist shares her sentiments, a potential sugar relationship is born.

When an independent escort becomes a sugar baby, her regular business becomes inactive. In some cases, she maintains multiple sugar relationships simultaneously. For the hobbyist turned sugar daddy, what is his role? We have come up with some guidelines based upon what we’ve seen and heard within the industry.

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A sugar daddy should be in a position to meet his financial obligation

A sugar daddy is an established gentleman who is usually a wealthy entrepreneur or operates a successful corporation. He is at a point in his life where he can enjoy the freedom and exhilaration that being with a sugar baby gives him. His net worth is solid, he drives a luxury automobile and he can afford to take care of himself. He has ample income to compensate his sugar baby on a regular basis (weekly, bi-weekly or monthly). In exchange, he enjoys her companionship through regular dating, traveling, conversation and intimacy.

A sugar arrangement should be respectful and beneficial to both

A sugar relationship is a contracted relationship. Both parties should enter into the agreement fully aware of what each gives to the other. How often will a sugar daddy want to see his sugar baby? How much advance notice does she need to set aside quality time to see him? Details of the arrangement should be understood at all times to keep things clear. A proper sugar daddy demonstrates the value and worth of his sugar baby by looking out for her in several ways:

  • He sees that she is well taken care of with an elegant wardrobe;
  • He makes sure that living conditions are top notch;
  • He ensures that her transportation is more than adequate and accommodating;
  • He regularly shows his appreciation for her beauty, intelligence and is there for her when she needs him.

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Generosity is important

Above and beyond the agreed financial compensation that a sugar daddy bestows upon his sugar baby, he shows his generosity by giving her gifts and trinkets and even surprises her with romantic travel excursions. Remember, the little details that count! On one occasion he may bring her flowers; on another he may surprise her with tickets to the theater; he might treat her to a luxurious dinner at a prestigious restaurant; and in some cases, may even buy her a new car. A sugar baby should feel that she is special to her sugar daddy. The sum of his gestures and her gracious receipt of them will encourage a wonderfully exciting and stable sugar relationship.

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Setting boundaries is the golden rule in a sugar relationship

No matter how genuine, intense or romantic a sugar relationship becomes, a sugar daddy and sugar baby should not become too attached and never lose respect. Doing so goes against the rules of the contracted relationship, blurs boundaries and can seriously jeopardize the arrangement. Even though she is a sugar baby, she has a life, may have a job or go to school and even have children. A sugar daddy should expect his sugar baby to establish some sort of schedule that applies to how often and when they see each other, frequency of phone calls and communication in general. On the other hand, a sugar daddy should not:

  • Abuse the relationship by taking advantage of her in any way;
  • Show up at her home unexpectedly;
    Control her life; or
  • Infringe upon her private matters.

A sugar baby is not an object but a human being to be respected at all times.

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Never forget good hygiene

When a sugar daddy takes good care of himself his sugar baby will appreciate his efforts and likely find him more attractive. The last thing a sugar daddy should do is ‘let himself go’ because he feels that he is entitle to do so. Chances are that his sugar baby will be considerably younger than him with a lot of vitality. Regular exercise, a healthy diet and vitamin supplements all contribute to good health. Neat, fashionable attire, meticulous grooming and regular skin treatments are all a part of maintaining good hygiene.

A sugar relationship should be loads of fun

The world is an exciting playground in a sugar relationship! Build great experiences by getting to know one another, going places, traveling, dining, talking and laughing. A sugar daddy should take in his sugar baby’s youthful exuberance and positive energy by living life to the fullest. Isn’t that what it’s all about?

Unforgettable kisses, Chloe xoxo

When a Hobbyist Wants to Marry an Escort

When a dating engagement is carefully measured, considering all aspects of compatibility, the stage is set for explosive chemistry. Such is the scenario when a hobbyist pursues the company of a companion or courtesan who excels in the girl friend experience. Most likely, he is not looking for permanent love. But if he seeks emotional and/or psychological fulfillment or restoration from loneliness, his heart becomes vulnerable. Factor in his escort’s physical splendor and charismatic personality and he becomes a bulls eye target for amour.

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While this may appear as a scary question due to the nature of her work as a companion, what man really knows the difference in the beginning of any love relationship? Romance and matters of the heart involve powerfully blinding emotions that can skew the good judgment of anyone.

Is it really love or just infatuation?

There are no guarantees in any relationship and if there were, insurance companies would bank! There are men and women alike who come from multiple divorces, dysfunctional families, broken homes and even abusive backgrounds. Someone, please reveal the ideal formula for a marriage that does not end. Even childhood sweethearts with storybook families end up divorced. Who is to say that the hobbyist/escort romance cannot tie the knot and prevail indefinitely?

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Is he headed down the sugar daddy path?

There is a chance that if she stops working in order to devote her time exclusively to her man and their relationship, her income will vanish. Both parties must check within themselves for genuineness of their involvement. Further, supporting a partner is a financial and emotional responsibility (regardless of his net worth) which can burden the relationship if not handled openly and with clear intent. However, if hobbyist turned fiancé accepts his role as main breadwinner, they are in love and escort turned future wife agree, then it is not a sugar relationship.

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Will she continue working as an independent escort if they marry?

Now here is an interesting twist that defies all convention. Admittedly, there are those marriages in which an escort remains same with knowledge and acceptance of her husband. Are they swingers? Do they have children? Does he fully accept what she does for a living? Personally, I do not know what the divorce rate is of such a unique demographic, but who cares? Even the most conservative couples divorce for a myriad of reasons. Often when an escorting couple divorces, the split is caused by reasons indirectly related to the act of escorting itself.

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Will she sign an annulment?

Doing so may be considered a true test of love. While I understand how a gentleman would want to protect his assets, especially if he has an x-wife who took him to the cleaners during the divorce process, many women find the proposition offensive. Truthfully, two people should marry for nothing but love and a balanced ability of both parties to support each other spiritually, mindfully and psychologically. But that is not the way the world works for most.

Proceed with caution and wisdom

Perhaps the most difficult challenge for the hobbyist who wants to marry his escort is honoring the deepest corners of his integrity. He should remain clear about his true intentions with a sharp eye focused on the fate of his future. In the end, both parties should remember that despite what conventional society has to say, what do they know? If there was a perfect formula for marriage then no one would be divorced.

With boundless kisses, Chloe xoxo

Managing Emotions in Escort Dating

What is the true nature of a meeting between a hobbyist and an independent escort? While discretion is paramount, a companion’s emotional warmth should be sincere yet measured within a zone that feels safe to her. Not all providers may agree with this as there are those who keep clients at far more than an arm’s length. All being said, how an escort and a hobbyist choose to manage their emotions is purely subjective.

The decent and trustworthy gentleman who deserves a little more

He is a companion’s best client. He demonstrates his patronage by requesting the pleasure of her company often. He revels in her presence and there is a sense of loyalty about him. She may recognize him as a gem and even a friend. One would suspect that such an ideal hobbyist/provider relationship deserves extra recognition because there is value evident on both sides. Perhaps such a scenario should allow for genuine warmth and a certain amount of trust.

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Portrait of the man in a hood against an urbanistic wall – stranger. Screening is Important!

The green provider who ignores her instincts

Independent escorts who are new to the industry should learn to recognize men who take advantage of naïve providers. In this situation, an independent escort who is not backed by a club or agency may be placing herself in harm’s way without properly screening potential clients. In this case, possessing good common sense is critical. Without such, she may override her instincts for the mere sake of scheduling an appointment. Regrettably, there are plenty of providers who exercise poor judgment and place their reputations or even lives in danger as a result.

Where to draw the line with empathy

The genuine girl friend experience illustrates a perfect circumstance. When a hobbyist finds himself in a state of emotional neediness due to divorce or marital problems, he may be vulnerable. An independent escort who feels a sense of kinship and genuine compassion to this man may open the doors to sentiment. Her sincere intentions as well as his unguarded disposition make the recipe for feelings gone awry. She should never lose touch with her professionalism and always keep her focus on the client/provider relationship.

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Managing a sugar relationship

While neither man nor companion may refer to themselves as sugar daddy or sugar baby respectively, many such interactions take on all the characteristics defined by sugar. It is rare that a married man with ties to his family will leave his household to fully devote himself to his sugar baby. Therefore, a companion turned sugar baby should keep her wits about her and never fail to recognize the relationship for what it really is – one with benefits and boundaries.

The hobby can be richly rewarding or devastatingly damaging

It is not always easy to keep the mind and emotions separate for they often run parallel. Wisdom in navigating the hobby is truly about safety on every level: hygiene, emotion, reputation and even death. Whether you are a hobbyist or a provider, you should always keep your wits about you, never ignoring your instincts. There is always that little voice whispering deep down inside. It generally knows best.

Many kisses, Chloe xoxo

Categorizing the Hobbyist

From our perspective, there are all sorts of hobbyists who choose to see independent escorts. Their reasons vary greatly.

They are not necessarily hobbyists though many do fit the ticket. Then of course, there are the exceptions that are not shaped by any mold. We thought it would be interesting to consider the types that City Girls encounters often.

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A green nametag sticker with the words Hello I Am New for a rookie, trainee, new staff hire, newbie, beginner or apprentice

New girl client

In our case, we see this gentleman often. That’s because many of the independent escorts who are a part of the CG Club fall under the guise of TOFTT (Take One for The Team). They are spectacular and come highly recommended. However, they may still be considered ‘new’ to many men in the world of adult entertainment. Perhaps more common in controlled establishments (City Girls is a private club), new girls may fall victim to the Bottom Fish Client (see below). These hobbyists may attempt to exploit the new girl and even abuse her and endanger her life. Having not been around long enough to get her ‘escort wings’, she’s finished before she’s begun. Naturally, City Girls turns their back on these types of guys. We tend to shield our independent escorts with as much knowledge and guidance as possible.

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Cartoon Ball and chain. Just married man with ball and chain

Married man

He chooses the company of a companion not because his marriage is happy. Most often, he and his wife co-exist in a glorified roommate situation. The marriage is loveless and totally lacks intimacy. Or, the ties that bind are financial in nature and there might be children involved in a household where divorce is unconscionable. So the marriage dwells in a hapless state. This gentleman seeks emotional, physical and psychological fulfillment from a beautiful provider. She is the best in her field offering intimacy and camaraderie in a genuine capacity. It is common for these male types to be endlessly romantic, seeking the most genuine of girl friend experiences. The lines between a professional arrangement and love relationship are sometimes blurred. While he may not fit the structured definition of a sugar daddy, the relationship may naturally flow into a hybrid version.

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Beautiful woman wearing the United States flag bikini holding a football isolated over white background

Natural asset lover

This hobbyist seeks the company of an independent escort for sport. Her physical criteria are his primary focus. While he may date only a handful of girls, he remains emotionally detached. Gratification is his main objective. He enjoys her much like he would a football game and drinking a couple of beers. Marital status does not apply.

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Fetish man

The term fetish is in a class by itself. Though we have written about the topic before, there exists a vast range of unusual interests. It could include a specific fixation on an object, body part or material facilitated by a companion who makes no claim as a fetish expert. Or, it could be a more sophisticated, psychological obsession that requires a highly specialized dominatrix.

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Disguised hobbyist reviewer

Bottom fish client

Unfortunately, they exist. They are the ones who give the hobby a bad rap. They are the ones who will never grace the presence of City Girls’ Club of independent escorts. At the risk of sounding haughty or negative, these men may be of a belligerent nature, motivated by a desire to exploit a provider. Often, he is a woman-hater with a sketchy or unethical past. He may try to take advantage of her and in the worst case, may hurt her. Inflicting pain is not just limited to the physical. He may falsify a bad review of their encounter, knowing very well that doing so will jeopardize her career. Imposing such vengeance on the reputation of a provider can be the kiss of death and end her career. He knows this.

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Businessman in classic vest against row of suits in shop

Perfect client

This type of gentleman is most familiar to courtesans. He seeks true companionship on a higher level. Such a courtesan is acutely aware of who she will and will not spend time with. She will turn down a client if she does not sense a genuine connection. She truly enjoys her profession and usually spends time with a handful of suitors who shower her with utmost respect, gifts and travel excursions. This man is not a hobbyist per say and his is extremely discreet. He tends to maintain his relationship for a long time, sometimes even years. They might become very close friends and he may even assist her in financial endeavors. We have heard of cases where marriage resulted.

City Girls is in no way biased toward any person

We support freedom of individuality. Every hobbyist, independent escort or sugar daddy/baby is totally unique! We recognize the good in folks and encourage that everyone practice higher ethics through virtuous behavior. Do unto others as you would have them do to you!

Many kisses, Chloe xoxo

Connecting Deeply Through the Girlfriend Experience

Ever wonder if there are hobbyists who seek companionship for connection deeper than just a few hours of frolic? Many beautiful relationships are shared between independent escorts and hobbyists who seek meaning that delves beyond skin deep.

Understanding the role of a companion

Many companions serve different roles in diverse capacities. Spending an hour or two with a gentleman to entertain him is probably the most common. But there are companions and independent escorts whose roles in the lives of their hobbyist friends extend far beyond a quick tryst. These ladies are well acquainted with passion. They are confidantes whether gentlemen express their deepest feelings or taboo desires. A courtesan understands the psychological composition of her client. She is nurturing in an emotional aspect. She caters to his physical needs much in the same way a massage therapist ‘feels’ the physiological needs of her patient. No matter her label, a provider is a master of men. Her expert tuition lovingly and compassionately nurtures his physical, emotional and psychological whims according to his needs and requests.

What circumstances lead a gentleman to an escort?

It is true that many men seek the company of an escort because they want to have a good time. Motivation is different from man to man. Perhaps he is single and is looking for a thrill. He may be lonely and desire to confide in a companion who pampers him and takes care of him in many ways. He might come from a troubled marriage and seek healing in total confidentiality. Perhaps his needs are of a fetish nature and he secretly desires to explore them. On a different note, there are women, girlfriends and wives with cravings to explore introduction of another woman into their relationships. In all cases, sensual openness is the main component in assisting ladies and gentlemen to understand and fulfill their needs.

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Deep connection

Defining the deep connection

Establishing chemistry moves beyond stunning lingerie, a good time and a few laughs. There is a strong sense of openness, a flame that is ignited, a kindling of the spirits that turns a date into an ongoing affair. It might take two or three encounters to seal this kind of connection. As with any relationship, qualities build from there. As a result, there are those hobbyist/escort interactions that evolve into sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangements. There are also gentlemen who re-discover intimacy with their wives through interacting with an independent escort. They talk about their marriages in a therapeutic form. And there are couples who seek to explore their relationships with the guided hand of a companion.

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closeup picture of man and woman’s hands with gift box

The girlfriend experience is a multi-faceted one

It means different things to different people. Just the same, different factors draw hobbyists to independent escorts for different reasons. Most certainly, it is the emotional familiarity of the experience to which they connect and often even nostalgia that men seek. There are many different layers of love. Marriage represents one of them. Some hobbyists fall in love with their companions as a result of the connection. Regardless, intimacy seems to be the missing link in marriages or relationships that lead gentlemen to find the girlfriend experience within the company of an independent escort.

Fervent kisses, Chloe xoxo

Turning a Companion into Your Sugar Baby

The sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship takes the hobbyist/escort interaction to a more integrated level. As a hobbyist, you may not intend to secure an ongoing girlfriend arrangement and it just happens naturally. Or, you may go all out and profile your objective on various sugar websites.

Perhaps you are a man who seeks a ‘bargain’ with an escort to see her for a fixed amount of time on a consistent basis on a discounted consideration structure. Let us explore the different types of sugar babies within the United States.

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Your basic, several-sugar-daddy sugar baby

There are companions who make it their goal to date several sugar daddies to achieve an elevated lifestyle, meet the expenses of their college educations or support their families. For these ladies, it’s all about the bottom line, a numbers game. How much are you as a sugar daddy willing to compensate her for her company? Her goal is to take on as many sugar daddies as she is able to spend time with while simultaneously meeting her income needs.

The non sugar baby

This lady is more of a courtesan who will never refer to herself as a sugar baby. She is the sophisticated lady whom by passers quietly wonder if she is a kept woman but will never verbalize it because she is simply too classy and demure. She runs in elite circles, is smart and educated with a phenomenal figure, a chic, expensive wardrobe that whispers of sensuality and a presence that will make any man desirous of her. She is the lady who keeps tight, highly confidential relationships with men of stature. She is a lovely confidante who cultivates a deeply influential connection that far surpasses what these men have with their own wives.

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beauty young woman in white shirt at home smiling friendly, girl next door

The organic sugar baby

She is a natural born entertainer who loves her profession. She has a knack for deep, spiritual connections and genuinely revels in the glamour, respect and attention bestowed upon her by gentlemen friends. Her clients do not refer to themselves as sugar daddies but they are looking to spend sincere time with a lady whom they feel has it all. Clear in their intentions, they seek her out, become enamored with her and naturally fall into the sugar daddy pattern. Her work comes easy for her and she is good. She is acutely aware of her charms, intellect and radiant personality the sum of which manifests an air of charisma that radiates about her. This rather mysterious aura acts as a magnet that attracts the esteemed gentleman who falls in an amorous state with her. She embodies perfection but could also be the girl next door, unsuspecting in her role as a sugar baby. In short, you would never guess.

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Relationships of all sorts

Romance comes in all shapes and sizes. Marriage and conventional relationships are the two most common types that are talked about and accepted in the mainstream. Busy beneath the surface of our society are other types of involvement not talked about. These gentlemen (and even ladies) are driven by needs and desires burning for fulfillment to the degree that they seek and find their sugar babies. The inner workings of these relationships are transparent and confidential, rarely publicized and hardly ever recognized by the average, ignorant eye.

Kisses, Chloe xoxo

How to Marry an Escort

You have met the perfect escort. She is your soul mate, beautiful inside and out. What’s more, the two of you have fallen in love! How do you deal with her job? This week’s article will talk about a plan of action when a gentleman wants to marry an escort.

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As a hobbyist, you have fallen in love with an escort. The emotion and physical gratification bestowed upon a gentleman from such feminine perfection can be overwhelming, leaving your emotions in a state of total confusion. If the love is genuine and not coated with infatuation, the two of you will inevitably face decisions on adapting your respective lifestyles to join together in some form of marriage (spiritual, traditional, religious). Though they do exist, successful escort marriages are far and few between that form lasting relationships in which the escort continues to entertain other gentlemen in what would constitute a non-conventional relationship. As a soon-to-be-retired hobbyist, below are a few questions to ask yourself after your heart has riveted your world and taken the lead:

Will she stop escorting?

If your new love does not enjoy her work in the adult entertainment industry, then it will be easier for her to retire. But if she is rather vested in what she does and has a tendency to bond more intimately with friends, it is possible that she will find it a little more difficult to break away permanently.

Is she addicted to a lucrative income and luxurious lifestyle?

A companion who enjoys her career as a professional entertainer may find the lifestyle flattering and rewarding. If you as her new found love can match that comfort level then the strength of transitioning into marriage is strong. Such a situation does not render you a sugar daddy or her a sugar baby for that matter because love forms the foundation.

Is she attached to relationships that define her escort identity?

Many companions form durable friendships with their gentlemen friends that shape their individuality as entertainers and confidantes. Much of their time spent together includes plush entertainment and opulent travel reinforced by gentlemanly attention that nurtures and flatters their egos. While entering into a marriage by two people from any type of background can be challenging in today’s complicated world, doing so by an escort can be rigorous. Marital partners should be prepared to acknowledge awareness of each others’ pasts and be prepared to meet their respective needs to the best of their abilities.

New career, new start concept
New career, new start concept

What will be the direction of her new career, if any?

Assuming she chooses to retire, the independent escort who has outside aspirations will adapt to her new, conventional marriage by pursuing her ambitions. How exciting as her new and true identity takes form! As her husband, you the gentleman should be nothing but supportive (as should she be of you) so as to insulate the transition and ensure peacefulness within the marriage.

Success stories of married escorts who maintain their careers

There are married couples who swing while maintaining open relationships. There are those escorts whose husbands accept continuance of their work with an open mind. In the latter, most at some point do retire if for no other reason than to relieve the strain that escorting can place on a marriage with a man who desires not to share the intimacy of his woman with other men. All being said there are no rules in life except those that work. Dance to your own tune but follow your instinct and find the strength to ask yourself questions addressed in this article.

Putting the Sexy Between Hobbyist and Halloween

Halloween is the eve to toss aside all righteousness and honor your appetite for unspeakable desires! Let the spookiest holiday kick off the hottest time of year. If you are a hobbyist with a flaming hot date tonight, don’t fear. We’ve got you covered with a little hocus pocus.

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Last minute Halloween costumes for escorts

It’s the eleventh hour and if you are anindependent escort who hasn’t a clue what to be, we’ve got some ideas for you! Forget resorting to pre-fab drug store costumes. If you are a companion with a flair for originality, we’ve got some tips to add pizzazz to your Hallow’s Eve regalia.

Fashion Art Girl Portrait. Punk Style
Fashion Art Girl Portrait. Punk Style

The instant glamor girl

Most independent escorts have a long gown of sorts hanging in their closets (prom dress, bridesmaid dress or anything formal). If your dress looks like it’s from the 60s (a narrow sheath), go as Audrey Hepburn or Diana Ross.

If it looks like it’s from the 50s (full skirt, tight waist), dress up as Grace Kelly or Dorothy Dandridge. If your gown is black and strapless, dress as Rita Hayworth. If your dress is slinky, go as the 30s star Jean Harlow. If you are curvaceous and your dress is form-fitting, go as Mae West. Pile on the makeup and jewelry and voila! You’ll have a glittering look that will wet the appetite of every gentleman.

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There’s nothing naughtier than a female pirate

If you are an escort with some sass and a devilish side, dare to dress as a sexy, female pirate. Most of what they wore was rags sewn together. Wear a nit hat or wrap a bandana around your head. Wear a man’s shirt with a vest on top. Wrap some material around your waist as a sash. Slide a wide leather belt across your torso as a baldric. Wear cropped pants or leggings that come to the knee and white knee socks. Pirates wore flat shoes but we’re suggesting high heel boots that lace up or some chunky heels to add definition to your shapely legs. Pop into a drugstore for a plain black eye patch and cement the look!

Celebrate with the sultry feline in you

If you are a companion with a black body suit and a lithe figure to go with it, you are a pussycat waiting to spring your sly self onto your date. Stuff a long black stocking with cotton or socks and you’ve got yourself a tail. Cut two triangles of black construction paper attached to a headband and you have kitty ears. Don’t hold back on plenty of black eyeliner, thick lashes, whiskers and red lips. Paint your nails black or red. Be prepared to turn plenty of heads!

What to do on Halloween

This holiday is not just for kids. Conjure up a little adult creativity of your own sprinkled with a little imagination. Your date will be impressed and sparks will fly!

Plan a private all-night party fest

If you are staying in for a cozy evening of sensuous loving, go the extra mile and set the mood with haunting romance. Illuminate the room with a plethora of scented black and orange candles. Done right, you won’t need any artificial light. Yummy nibbles, mini pumpkin pies and delicious chocolate morsels are perfect for feeding each other. Serve some spiked apple cider or rum punch and kindle the warmth between you and your date sealed with hot kisses. Share a few horror stories as your date snuggles up next to you for safety. If the two of you haven’t become hopelessly entangled in each other by then, play truth or dare or a fun, flirty game of strip poker!

The outcome of a game of strip poker with women's clothing strewn over a chair and table and a man's shirt on the right side.Two partly full glasses of wine are also on the table.
The outcome of a game of strip poker with women’s clothing strewn over a chair and table and a man’s shirt on the right side.Two partly full glasses of wine are also on the table.

Feast at a frightfully dazzling restaurant

If you are a sugar daddy with a dash of sophistication, wine and dine your sugar baby at an upscale restaurant that is celebrating Halloween with enchanting festivities. Call a few of your favorite culinary hotspots and ask what they are offering. Be sure to let your date know where you are going so that she can adorn herself accordingly. For pre-dessert (because we all know that the two of you plan to have each other as your final course), attend a haunted house tour. The anticipation is sure to incite supernatural ecstasy!

City Girls has your bag of tricks

We host a cauldron of ideas for every hobbyist and independent escort for every occasion. Unearthly pleasure reigns with us. So live it up and trick or treat baby!

A Hobbyists Guide to Stress Relief Through Meditation

Jerry Seinfeld, Rupert Murdoch and Oprah Winfrey do it every day. Bob Roth, executive director of the David Lynch Foundation has been teaching it for more than forty years. It’s called Transcendental Meditation (TM for short) and if you’re thinking flower power, stop, breathe deeply and listen up before you recoil.

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Fortune 500 companies the likes of Google, AOL, Apple and Aetna offer meditation and mindfulness classes to their employees. TM is no hippie nonsense and it’s not a religion. Anyone can benefit from meditation especially hobbyists who are under a lot of stress.

Where did TM begin?

With roots in India, meditation became popular in the Western world during the 1960s and 1970s. Maharishi Mahesh yogi, originator of the TM movement said, “Through Transcendental Meditation, the human brain can experience that level of intelligence which is an ocean of all knowledge, energy, intelligence, and bliss.” Today, practicing TM does not mean that you must be a Buddhist or even subscribe to any religion because it does not have a philosophy unlike some other forms of meditation.

Golden Buddha, Wat Pho, Thailand
Golden Buddha, Wat Pho, Thailand

It’s time to unplug

Occasionally it is necessary to reboot our computers. Practicing TM is similar, sort of like clearing the cache in your brain and restarting your energy with a sense of calmness that lifts the soul. Many hobbyists and gentleman seek the company of independent escorts because they are stressed out. Being in the company of a beautiful companion, someone who provides a total girl friend experience is certainly exhilarating. Implementing TM twenty minutes, two times per day can make the difference between a fantastic date and phenomenal encounter when the mind is relaxed and open.

Quieting that busy mind

Plagued by racing thoughts at night or on the weekends when you should be chilling out? Do you struggle to sit still? Anxiety caused by stress is a killer and cause of heart disease.

How TM works

Allocate twenty minutes a day of quiet time and use a mantra to liberate your mind from conscious thought which triggers meditation. Mantra is a Sanskrit term for a sound, syllable, word or group of words that is considered capable of ‘creatingtransformation’ (remember the famous mantra, Om?).Mantras work in theory because they are meaningless word sounds as we know them. One is chosen for you by a TM teacher from a library of dozens that goes back to TM’s ancient Vedic traditions. Your mantra is never to be shared with anyone without affecting your karma. For the consideration that a hobbyist puts forth to spend a few hours of delicious time with a gorgeous independent escort, you can learn TM. With a certified TM instructor you will become familiar with Transcendental Consciousness which is the most pure nature of the mind. Most ladies and gentlemen are only aware of the active mind, the sleep state and the dreaming mind.

Why Transcendental Meditation?

While you may think that meditating sounds crunchy or earthy, science suggests otherwise. You’ll think more clearly because TM increases brain wave coherence; you’ll be less stressed and could even live longer because TM decreases production of cortisol, the stress hormone; you’ll be more organized because brain coherence gives more control to the prefrontal cortex, home of the ‘executive function’; you might quit smoking, drinking or doing drugs (if you’re one of those hobbyists we don’t like to engage with) as many TM folks have claimed.

City Girls cares about its club members

Hobbying is exclusive to those who can afford the luxury. A sugar daddy basks in the attention of a beautiful babe because he has the financial freedom to do so. An independent escort enjoys a comfortable lifestyle of traveling, a dazzling wardrobe and lavish attention bestowed upon her by her suitors. The quality of your interaction with a lovely companion is discounted when your mindset and health are compromised by life’s difficulties. At City Girls, we believe in taking a well-rounded approach to good living that begins with the inner you and a little meditation.

 

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