Susanne Brend, Heart to Heart

I recently had the opportunity to meet with Susanne Brend over a cup of coffee on an early Sunday morning. She’s a busy girl! Expecting the glamorous, sex kitten that we’ve all seen in her photos, I was met by a friendly, outgoing girl wearing no makeup and even more beautiful than her pictures.

Susanne Brend stood tall, lean and casual in a light pink terry, sweat outfit with a slightly exposed navel and a peak of cleavage. I couldn’t help but notice heads turn as she approached for very few women can pull off a stunningly fresh and natural look with little effort. She greeted me with a generous hug, emanating a soft confidence surrounded by a light floral perfume, a young lady not afraid to show her true colors. Her genuine smile warmed the mood and we launched into an easy conversation like long lost girlfriends. I was flattered by her candor and the sweet nature of her personality. I had a curious collection of questions which she was eager to answer.

  1. How did you get into the adult industry and become a porn star?
    Susanne Brend: This may sound simple but it’s the way it really happened. A girlfriend invited me to participate in a lesbian sex scene. At first, I was reluctant, but she was so hot and gorgeous that I couldn’t resist. After that episode, I sort of got addicted. I mean, more opportunities came my way and I was having such a good time that the next thing I knew, I kind of fell into becoming a porn star.
  2. What do you like best about what you do as a porn star and as an escort?
    Susanne Brend: Being a porn star is exciting. I just love it! Maybe that sounds weird to some people, but the action, the cameras, the men, they all add up to an unforgettable chapter in my life. Escorting is a little different because I’m not in front of the camera. It is a glamorous and exhilarating way to meet a variety of people from different nationalities and walks of life.
  3. Describe your likes and dislikes.
    Susanne Brend: I’m a bit of a risk taker! I just love a thrill and if I’m going to do something crazy it’s skydiving or driving a fast car. I love music because I can always express myself in a song that reflects my mood and passion. I’m into the arts, especially theatre, because the actors are so raw and performances are uncut. When it comes to cuisine, I have a palette for Latin food with its big, rich flavors. I must confess that I’ve been afraid of lightning since I was a little girl! (She giggles). I know it sounds kind of silly and I don’t know why but anytime there’s a thunder storm I just want to snuggle up under the covers. Forget horror movies. They scare me, too! I’m up for a drama or comedy. And chocolate? Way overrated. Give me a juicy piece of fruit or a creamy sorbet and I’m your friend for life. I’m sure sunrises are beautiful and I’ve seen a few. But you might find me a bit grumpy in the early morning. A girl needs her beauty sleep!
  4. What do you think of the girl friend experience?
    Susanne Brend: I think it provides a nice comfort zone for the man. He has a chance to get to know his partner and form a sort of emotional bond. It creates a more intimate kind ofrelationship, if only for the moment and sometimes longer.
  5. How do you manage your personal life as a porn star and escort?
    Susanne Brend: I don’t really have time for a personal life (Susanne laughs). I have friends to hang out with and my work has never affected my personal life.
  6. Talk about some of the similarities and some of the differences between being a porn star and being an escort.
    Susanne Brend: I mean, I see the whole thing pretty simply. There isn’t too much difference between being a porn star and being an escort. Working in the porn industry is different in that I’m in front of the camera which I love and in front of the world; escorting is all about privacy and discretion.
  7. How does being a porn star affect your job as an escort?
    Susanne Brend: Being a porn star increases the requests that I receive for companionship.
  8. Have you ever gotten attached or involved with any of your clients?
    Susanne Brend: Bringing emotions into escorting would be very unprofessional. While I truly enjoy spending time with my gentleman friends, I never get attached.
  9. What advice would you give to a newbie just entering the scene?
    Susanne Brend: She should try to have a relaxed, friendly attitude along with a somewhat outgoing personality. In the beginning, it might not be easy but will improve with time. She must enjoy the company of men. She needs to be willing to give more of herself because escorting is often about the social time spent with a client. You may be surprised how important this is to most men.