How do you like your ladyscape? We are talking below the beauty belt, the most highly coveted of all luxury femme spots. This juicy diameter of sensual real estate is the most highly sought after of all love zones where a man likes to nestle his netherrod as frequently as possible. We’ve heard from hundreds of hobbyists about how they like their vajayjays and this is what they told us:
Completely bare doesn’t grow there
Also known as the Hollywood or the Sphinx, The Brazilian is the Queen of all waxes. Bagging the bush is definitely the preferred style for the majority of gents who date our velvety-smooth, independent escorts. As soft as a baby’s butt is the resulting texture of a lady’s most Southern region with not a fuzz to be found. Period. The muse that regularly waxes her well-appointed mound and areas found further below bares the most erotic of looks sure to drive her man out of his honey-lovin’ mind.
No lady garden left unattended
Waxing doesn’t exactly tickle and therefore isn’t for the faint of heart. For many escorts, there is an alternative method of maintaining a clean conejo that produces the same delicious sans carpet style that you all love. Shaving has evolved into an art form, an intimate ceremony between a lady and her flower that if ever witnessed by you kitty-obsessed dudes would surely get you off with hardly a stroke. The attention with which she pays her hoo-hee starts with a long soak in a hot bath (just imagine her curves glistening through the suds as she massages herself so as to soften the skin prior to trimming). She then proceeds to groom her fleece until it is no more. She will conclude with yet another massage of perfumed oil to preserve this most succulent of areas in preparation for the fun to follow.
Trimmed and tidy
For the man aroused by a subtle shade of au naturel, this is the way to go. Of course, an escort must never style her canyon coiffure without first knowing her final destination. If she is especially creative, she may opt for a heart, floral or triangular shape for some extra added surprise. If she is of the brunette variety, that frisky shape will peek right through her lacy lingerie, beckoning immediate attention from who other than her admirer of the evening.
The Landing Strip
A glimpse of natural womanhood is the theme for this well-intentioned look quite arousing for the gent who loves his independent escort to catwalk in nothing more than her stilettos. It is a calculated groom, angular in nature and requires a mirror for accuracy. To achieve a precision look, many escorts opt for a partial Brazilian wax which implies to her date that she really cares about making a good impression.
Beauty bling for lady bits
Ooh la la! For the poon aficionado who likes his punani sparkling with jewels, the Vajazzle is the macdaddy of looks. Foofed out with a delicate flower, butterfly, heart or the like, her pelvic area is adorned with a delicate decoration that delivers one message to her inamorato: come and get me you big, handsome hunk. What man on this pink mink earth could resist?
How do you like your honey pot?
In the competitive industry of independent escorting, flaming hot good looks will attract hobbyists to you. A bright and charismatic personality coupled with talents inherent in an independent escort will draw repeat clients. This is the winning combination crucial for the independent escort who wants to be successful!
Attraction encompasses much more than just the physical
Here’s a silly analogy but you will get the idea: imagine receiving a beautiful gift for your birthday ornately wrapped and tied with a silk bow. When you open the box in sheer anticipation, it is empty. How disappointed would you be? As an independent escort, if the box is your physique and the content is your personality, a hobbyist is going to be disappointed if he is left with nothing. You will hear hobbyists talk about ‘how beautiful’ or ‘how hot’ she was. But you will also hear comments about how engaging, interesting or genuine she was. Good looks will get your foot in the door with a gentleman. Your sparkling personality will cause him to want to see you again and again.
The world is saturated with beautiful women
If you are just starting out as an independent escort, you may get by for a while on just your ravishing looks. But there is more dimension to a successful escort than just her physical charm. With so many beautiful women in the world from which a hobbyist can choose, what sets you apart from the rest? At the end of the day, the world will not stop for your mouth-watering looks. Humble yourself and ask, “how can I better myself?”
Create repeat clients with your personality
When a hobbyist is at ease, he is more likely to relax and reveal his desires to you. Accommodate your client with the charisma of your personality. When you yourself are relaxed, inviting, engaging and understanding, you provide a sanctuary of comfort which is exactly what a gentleman is looking for.
Learn how to ‘read’ the needs and desires of a hobbyist
Evaluation of your client may present somewhat of a challenge that eventually you will master if you set your mind to it. Flexibility and intelligence play a big role in ‘reading’ or interpreting his fantasies. Is he a casual guy looking for fun? Is he a corporate figure stressed who needs to unwind? Is he entangled in a troubled relationship and needs your understanding? Always be polite and never uptight. Smile and maintain your sunny disposition. It is your job to move him into your comfort zone. Regardless, you can be sure that he will make the most of your time together. But it is your job to give him more. Give him an experience that will resound in his memory causing him to want to see you again and again.
All that glitters is not always gold
Independent escorting is not a mindless job. There is a psychological element to escorting and those companions who ‘get it’ are the ones who prevail with success. Hobbyists seek the girl friend experience from an independent escort who is understanding and talented. Set your mind to these tasks and you will succeed! Stay tuned for part two of this topic. There is so much more to talk about!
City Girls says, Think Pink, ladies! Say this to your girlfriends, sisters, aunts and mothers every time you speak to them during the month of October.
As a lady, I think I can say that we all have breasts and they are very important to us! Independent escorts, women, mothers, wives and human beings all need to take care of their health. No matter what, your body is your temple.
Does breast cancer run in your family?
1 in 8 women will get breast cancer in the United States. That ratio is a little scary, if you ask me. Next to skin cancer(watch that sun-baked skin, ladies!) it’s the most common form of cancer found in women. When you’re young and in your twenties, you may feel invincible and immune to any sort of health issues. But breast cancer doesn’t discriminate, especially if it’s inherent in your family. If you don’t have health insurance (and even if you do) there are plenty of health clinics around the nation offering discount mammograms in honor of this month’s awareness. In case you’re not sure, a mammogram is actually an x ray of the breast and is very safe.
Signs of breast cancer
Okay. It’s not a fun topic but something as ladies we all need to think about. If you feel that you are showing any of these symptoms see your doctor even before your scheduled mammogram:
- A lump in the breast
- A change in size, shape or feel of the breast
- Fluid (discharge) from a nipple
Escort’s health maintenance is critical
On a broader note, as an independent escort taking care of your physical health and inner health is so, so important. Getting plenty of rest and drinking loads of water are magical secrets to beating the health curve if you are functioning at a deficit. If you are under a lot of stress and find that you cannot sleep, try meditation and deep breathing before resorting to sleeping pills or anti depressants. Try homeopathic sleep herbs that will cause you to rest like a baby without the sleep hangover of a synthetic sleeping pill or a couple of martinis.
Exercise regularly and maintain a healthy diet. If you’re wondering what on earth consists of a healthy diet, here are a few tips that can get you on track immediately:
- If it’s raw, it’s best (vegetables, juice, salad, fruit);
- If it’s dry, it’s worst (crackers, chips, candy);
- If it’s beige, it’s probably fried and best avoided (anything from a fast food restaurant);
- If it has preservatives, eat at a minimum;
- Lean meat, chicken and fish are loaded with protein, vitamins and minerals and taste great, eaten sparingly, unless you are vegan or vegetarian;
- Beans, legumes and tofu can make for some very creative and tasty dishes and are all low fat;
- Take a good multivitamin, preferably organic;
- Make liquid acidophilus a staple in your refrigerator and take a swig every morning (go to Whole Foods or any health food store).
Laughter and socializing are prescriptions for good health!
Maintain your social life. Go for dinner with a friend or just a walk in the park. Watch a funny movie. Tell jokes with a close friend or acquaintance. Laughter is healthy and free!
City Girls cares about its members
This article may seem a bit off track but it’s not, really. Good health begins internally and the lack thereof can lead to unconscionable conditions such as breast cancer. While City Girls does not profess to be a doctor or a health advisor, sharing our humble knowledge of basic health tips can prove to be powerful if implemented. Equally important, we care about our lady members. Often, the best advice is that obtained between friends. City Girls is your friend.
“Principles? But I’m only an escort!” may be your first thought. The truth is that escorting is a real job just like any other whether you are full or part time. At City Girls, when you take your business seriously and make the most of your skills you will be successful. Recognizing and following a basic set of standards can get you there.
- Making the mental break – City Girls understands the importance that psychologically you must be able to handle being an escort. If you think you cannot, it’s best to find another job. You must be able to maintain an emotional separation between being intimate with men whom you’ve never met before and your personal life. Escorting is a glamorous and exciting job that can reward you richly. But there will be days when you don’t feel like doing your job as an escort. Maybe it’s that time of the month and you have the blues. Those are precisely the types of moments that will challenge you emotionally and you won’t want to work. However, you must be able to put on your game face and entertain your date because escorting is after all your job and you work to make a living. Never mix your personal life with your business life. As an escort, your date is your client and no matter how charming and persuasive he seems he is really not paying for your time to hear about what a rough week you had or that your son needs braces. He is there with you to be entertained and to enjoy what you do best. Even though he may appear interested in your personal life, accept it as flattery and button your lip. Be smart and always resist the urge to share any details about your private affairs.
- How to be a good conversationalist – The intellectual disposition of your client may be unknown until the moment you make his acquaintance. Are you prepared to talk about most anything? Becoming a good conversationalist is really not as scary as it may sound. With a little bit of preparation (which can be really fun in the process!) you can make your job much easier by expanding your flexibility to talk about most subjects especially if you are attracted toupscale clients. Stay on top of current events by watching the daily news (Fox News and CNN News will give you a well-rounded scope) and browsing a variety of magazines (Forbes, People, Vogue, Wall Street Journal, The Economist, The New Yorker, Conde Nast Traveler are just a few). This doesn’t mean that you should read every publication cover to cover and you could go into the poor house subscribing to all of them. Make a habit of going to the book store or library, grab a latte and have some fun browsing headlines and breezing through a few articles. You’ll be surprised how much knowledge you’ll pick up in a short period of time. And it’s a great way to expand your communication if English is your second language!
- Using humor to your advantage – A small dose of wit will warm any situation. This doesn’t mean that you must be a comedienne or feel forced to deliver contrived jokes or always be funny. But when you are comfortable with yourself and the situation, your body and job, a light, whimsical attitude will take over and lend a sense of ease to the environment.
- Taking care of your physical being – Your body is your temple. City Girls believes in taking great care of one of your greatest assets – you! Beautiful women come in many shapes and sizes. You don’t have to be as skinny as a pencil to qualify as gorgeous and desirable. Most important is to maintain your body to the best of its ability with exercise, a healthy diet, vitamins, supplements and spa treatments (or simply a good exfoliant and moisturizer at home). It shows when a woman takes care of her physical appearance. Soft, supple skin is a huge asset. Drink lots of water every day and go easy on salt and alcohol especially the day before a date.
City Girls is a strong advocate of regular physical examinations to stay on top of your health when it comes to escorting. If you don’t have private health insurance, locate a good health care center in your area. Meet the doctors or registered nurses who will attend you. Since you will be visiting your caregiver regularly, make sure that you are comfortable seeing this doctor or nurse as he or she may assume that you are an escort (some escorts are comfortable disclosing within the privacy of the doctor/patient relationship that they escort for a living). The time to find a good caregiver is not when you need to go. Do your research as soon as possible. Ask other escorts in your area for referrals.
- What about family? There are escortswho openly share with their families what they do for a living. Those instances are uncommon. Escorting makes you lead a secret life guided by discretion. Some ladies escort well into their forties (and even some into their fifties). However, it is more common thatescorts retire at a much younger age and take on another career. Think about the impact on your family if you feel compelled to tell them about your glamorous job as an escort. They may not understand all of the benefits as escorting is still conventionally unaccepted and even considered taboo by most of society. You won’t be escorting forever but the notion that you did could make an adverse impact on your family that could cost you indefinitely. City Girls says think twice before you publicize your secret life.
- Protecting your privacy – You will meet clients who adore you, worship the ground you walk on. This is flattery at its finest. Soak it up and allow it to reinforce your confidence as anescort. But the buck stops there. As an escort you are an entertainer, a master at creating an illusion of happiness which is why you get paid good money. Resist the temptation to divulge your private phone number, home address, details about your day job, names and locations of relatives and children. By all means, never give out your social security number! Creating a persona is the first step in building a shroud of protective privacy around your personal life. While you will build deep, intimate friendships with some clients, stay in control and always be able to walk away from your job as an escort and go back to the privacy and sanctity of your private life.
City Girls maintains a high standard of ethics required to be met by its Club Members and VIP Members. In doing so, an environment of safety and professionalism is automatically created. In this regard, we have no reservations looking out for our members with honest, upfront advice and knowledge about what escorting really entails. It is this sense of comradery that draws our Club Members to join the family. If you want to take your business as an independent escort to the next level backed by the professional support that you need to get there, join City Girls. You won’t regret it.