You had only good intentions. Keep things simple and safe. Just dabble in a bit of fun on the side with a bombshell brunette. You know. Kick up your heels a bit and put the F back into fun. The wife’s content with her world and you’re both on decent terms; work’s going great and the mortgage is almost paid off. But then, you done went and fell in love. Seriously?
The heart is never invited to those steamy encounters
But on this particular date things were different. Maybe it’s because life is fairly bland and hasn’t thrown you any curves balls in a while so your guards were down. Or, perhaps a hint of loneliness has been tugging at your psyche for a while and this companion pushed all of your emotional buttons. She actually fulfilled you in more ways than just with frolic. Somehow, things felt so right during those few hours and you felt ardently on top of the world. She left you with a hop in your step but more importantly, a swell in your chest because you’ve been with butterflies ever since.
A hobbyist is not supposed to fall in love
But it happens. Heck, we’ve even seen a gent and his escort tie the knot. Sugar arrangements are probably a more common answer to intense romance – when you must see your muse on a regular basis otherwise you can’t function properly. In a way, such an emotional entanglement can present a sort of ball and chain in that it robs you of the very freedom you enjoyed going into the whole hobbying thing in the first place. Or not.
She makes you feel young again
Now, gents. Youthfulness is a state of mind and can be robbed of your soul at any age. If you’ve been working your tail off for decades and intimacy at home is in the refrigerator, her affection just might manifest the juvenescence in you. Voila! It’s sensual spring time and and you have a new lease on life.
The prime of your life renewed
Not only are you hizzit’n the skizzins like a virile 18-year old into the wee morning hours, but this chick gets off riding the flagpole like a wild cowgirl and has rendered you immortal in the process. You’ve got your mojo back and that glow about you shows. It’s just that her incredible body void of even an ounce of baby fat and those succulent lips drive you mad with desire. Whatever self- control you used to have is nowhere to be found and your brain is on holiday for the heart rules. Sure, all those yummy escorts you’ve dated over the years were epic but none of them ever had a vice grip on your heart.
Maybe it’s that small golden talisman that she wears on her nude person
Or the way her long hair falls about you when she’s…well, you know. Or perhaps it’s because she listens intently to everything you say and doesn’t ask too many questions, only to respond with another round of kisses. Her energy is unfettered; her inhibitions nonexistent. Her attitude is untainted; her desire for pleasure lustfully unconstrained. When the timing is right, no man can resist.
When does it end?
Only fate knows the answer. But for sure, when it is supposed to. Most important is not to muck things up with drama. Keep your affair neat, clean and confidential. Never spill the beans about your private life, personal affairs or those of your wife and kids (if you have them). Should your relationship ever turn South, the last thing you want to face is a confrontation or worse, a divorce. Enjoy the ride while you can because you never know if it will be the last.