How GFE Can Increase Your Self Image


Intimacy comes in many different flavors beyond the physical. Consider the gentleman who seeks the company of a true GFE escort in an effort to fortify his self perception. It is not a coincidence that many relationships fall apart because they grow apart, leaving identities and feelings of self-worth in the dust. Lack of intimacy can lead to angst, self-doubt and beliefs of inadequacy. Unconscious desires (or conscious, as it were) and emotional needs can in fact drive a man into the arms of an independent escort whose beauty goes beyond skin deep. But why does he choose the strategy of intimacy for hire versus traditional courting?


GFE represents the red pill into sensual wonderland

If a man has had turbulent, unfulfilling or traumatic experiences with women, turning to the company of a GFE for personal validation can be liberating. We are not referring to the fast food of affection, where you’re in and out in an hour. This GFE-inclined man tends to spend more time with the same lady (or maybe a few), one whom he has deliberately sought out because he believes she is a good match for his needs. He seeks those watershed moments that feed his manly worth and deeply enhance what might otherwise be considered bland life occurrences. His companion takes him by the hand and jumps down the proverbial rabbit hole of passion, satiating his security and validating his self-esteem. In the conventional dating world, it might be years before he discovers this same depth of passion and compatibility with another woman and maybe never.

Masculine validation lies at the core of the girlfriend experience

Perhaps his companion does not even refer to herself as a GFE, that overused term to which we are all so accustomed. She is aware that the sum of her intellect, appearance and style will speak to the gentleman looking for a connection that actually goes way beyond what the acronym implies. In the world of companionship, everyone is looking for something. This man is looking for a transformation, one that will boost his mental and emotional dispositions and one that will amplify his love life.

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Losing the emotional baggage through GFE represents a healing encounter

Is it true that engaging in an ongoing affair with a compatible escort can improve a man’s mental health? Depending on his motivations, we tend to think so. Not getting your physical and emotional needs met can cause loneliness, frustration and isolation. A courtesan as gifted with intuition as she is blessed with stunning good looks can be the catalyst for healing gratification that her gentleman friend needs.

Men who seek the girlfriend experience for psychological gratification are more common than you think

Diminishing affection due to lack of attention from the wife who’s got her own story; demands of work which have all but given you a heart attack or physical impairment that leaves you feeling unattractive are just a few of the motivators that inspire men to look to the GFE for pleasure, healing and elation.

What Makes One Escort Better Than Another?

Your zeal for beautiful women has inspired you to date countless independent escorts over the years. Certainly, some have been better than others. All are unmistakably attractive and most have pleasured you at least to a certain degree. But in what sense is one companion superior to another? Let’s take a closer look at some of the qualities that form the ‘total package’ that is a first-rate escort.

She has a rockin’ body that doesn’t quit

It is the type of figure that every woman covets. Naturally, she is big into fitness which lends heavily to those long, lean yet muscular legs and ridiculously firm bubble bum. Her stomach is chiseled to perfection just below bouncy curves that defy gravity. Her feet are perfectly manicured and bring out the fetish in you.. Her body is a showstopper akin to a Victoria’s Secret model and you go out of your mind with desire. Most importantly, she knows what to do with it.


She has illustrious hair and velvety-smooth skin

Two of the best assets on an independent escort are silken skin and long, glorious tresses that your hands cannot get enough of. Whether it’s an evening of romantic dining at your favorite restaurant or a flurry of private matters in the boudoir, both serve as delicious eye candy and you’ve got a major sweet tooth.

Her carnal aptitude is mind blowing

As a natural pleaser, this trophy of an escort spoils you with ground-shaking delight the likes of which you have never experienced. Now, that’s saying a lot being that you’ve been hobbying forever. What separates this lascivious muse from the rest is an animalistic drive that needs to be satiated on a regular basis. Such cravings WOW your intimacy which is why you feel like king of the universe every time you see her. In short, this chick is the real deal.

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Personalities just don’t get more charismatic

Is she faking it? Moodiness is not a word to describe her starburst disposition. She has a temperament like sunshine that breaks through the clouds after a thunderstorm. Her cheery disposition melts all stress rattling your nerves and all is right with the world. Here is an escort who is chemically balanced and emotionally grounded with a positive outlook on life. If only more women could be like her…

She is witty and smart but not stuck-up

Since you are a gentleman who seeks the girlfriend experience for whatever reasons (only you know what they are) it is quite nice to be able to carry an intelligent conversation. Equal to a woman’s physical splendor is a quick wit and innate wisdom for a combination of appeal that renders her the keeper that you seek. This companion is the sum of such allure and has piqued your interest to no end.

Her psychology is spot on

Quite possibly the summit of all attributes is this escort’s quiet ability to know what you are thinking, feeling and desiring pretty much at all times. She reads your male radar with total precision. More importantly, she gauges what to say and how to say it without going overboard. It is an invisible talent that she uses to the advantage of both of you. In a nutshell, she is a true lady and the highest compliment a man can hope to ask for.

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Defining the Perfect Kiss

How was your last make out session? For an intense sensual experience, kissing exchanges a host of information about compatibility with your date. The more time you spend kissing the more your evening is primed for the time of your life. Kissing opens the doors to passion that builds naturally. Before you begin your next romp, consider the following:


First base equals facial intercourse

It’s the first time you’ve met and your anticipation is intense. The door opens slowly to reveal the most intoxicating escort you have ever encountered. Before any words are spoken, this buxom vixen takes you in her arms and delivers the most delectable kiss imaginable. As you embrace, the kissing only intensifies and things quickly advance to second base. Then, you awake and realize it was only a dream.

Kissing releases feel-good endorphins

Those full, moist lips gently glossed reveal a dazzling smile and promises of ecstasy. Did you know that saliva contains testosterone which triggers the libido ? Passionate, playful, long and hard is the kiss that speaks for itself.

What’s your favorite kiss?

Whether you have seen your companion several times or are just hooking up, what kind of kiss delivers the ‘I really want you’ message?


The French kiss

It is a timeless, passionate gesture done with lots of saliva. Tongues circle while hands exploring each other as the movement and excitement heighten. French kissing can continue for hours or lead to urgent ecstasy.

The single-lip kiss

Perhaps you have seen your date more than once and the affection is obvious. The single-lip kiss is where the mouth of one gently closes in on the top or bottom lip of the other. It is a soft, playful kiss that signifies romance.

The neck kiss

It is the kiss that takes your breath away and leaves you panting for more. It is a kissing motion full of caresses on skin that is sensitive and not generally touched very often. Generally followed by a luscious session of French kissing, neck kissing tends to release the wild side in both.

Preparing to pucker up

Before you engage in any deep kissing, a nice, close shave is best to remove any stubble followed by a few dabs of cologne. Freshen your breath by brushing followed with a swig of mouthwash. If you really want to sweeten the deal, gift a box of strawberries to your date to activate the sweet receptors in your mouths so that your sense of taste goes into overdrive. Be prepared for a grand slam!

Kissing is an art

And the key to intimacy. It is the ultimate in sensual excitement because you are completely engaged in one – lips, bodies and minds connecting. Allowing the hands to do a bit of exploring only intensifies the experience. You owe it to yourself to keep smooching!

What Goes into a Ten Rating?

Why does one escort who appears not quite as beautiful as the next repeatedly receive ten ratings? At a glance, she is certainly very attractive and fit, with curves in all the right places. You’ve read her escort reviews but still detect an elusive quality, a je ne sais quoi that you can’t quite put your finger on and you go for it. You book a date with this distinctly stunning companion and hope for the best.


You are an experienced hobbyist in the best of ways

You’ve had earth shattering encounters (especially through City Girls) with wondrous escorts who put conventional women to shame. As a love connoisseur, your palate for intimacy is rather sophisticated. You have experienced various shades of passion that fall somewhere between off the charts, excellent, good and not worth the time of day. At this point in your hobbying life, no lady of the night is going to pull the wool over your eyes.

It’s all in the fine details of the experience

When she answers the door, your jaw (and knickers) practically fall to the floor. She is scented with a floral aphrodisiac that envelopes you like a spell. Never mind her figure that absolutely no photographer could capture the essence of for this angel has mesmerizing eyes that speak to every ounce of testosterone in your being. Instantly, the chemistry is overwhelming not because you’re insanely attracted to her but because her soul speaks genuine craving and that smile places you squarely into her pleasure dome. Then, she greets you with the kind of kiss that whispers, “I can’t wait to please you.”

You’ve barely met and already feel like King of the universe

Holy mother of Jesus and all of the archangels above. It’s like someone suddenly cleaned the windows of your erotic world and for the first time ever you recognize a rare pleasure that you never knew existed. From an aesthetic standpoint, her appearance is flawless as you drink in the details of her physical splendor and the way her barely-there attire praises her feminine parts. Did this glorious knockout of a muse actually employ a professional stylist to compose her looks just for you? Coming back to earth, you recognize your compatibility because the conversation is so richly engaging that all you want to do is savor every last morsel of her. Her calm confidence and refreshing candor put you at ease and a sense of happiness washes over you. Quite expectedly, frissons of desire sizzle in your veins for she is now touching you in ways that are utterly arousing. But it’s the manner of her caresses that enliven your manhood for you can actually smell her pheromones. Suddenly, a surge of animalistic hunger pulls you into her and you feel beyond a shadow of a doubt that she wants you terribly.

Her affection is a feast of high ranking ecstasy

It’s like she cannot get enough of you and you’re barely inside the boudoir. Already, a river of wanting flows from her secret sanctuary and she needs to be satisfied. No doubt, the two of you are on the fast track to bliss. It is just incredible how turned on she is but even more extraordinary are her skills. Does this pinnacle of female essence have a manual on how to please you? What follows is a sometimes slow, sometimes voracious mélange of intimacy that several hours later renders you absolute, romantic mush.

She is actually an eleven

In this keeper of an escort you have discovered the pure embodiment of sensual eternity. You don’t want to leave. But then there’s the luscious goodbye which brings you full circle and somehow you find your way back to the car. Now you have a firm grasp on that pinnacle description that lies behind a ten rating for such gifted companions are far and few between.

Happiness and the Art of the GFE

The art of the GFE can be compared to traits of the art of the courtisanerie. In Italy during the Renaissance, the original courtesans were known as cortigiana onesta. These cortigiana were ‘honest courtesans’ in that many were regarded as intellectuals. They were well-educated, worldly and often maintained other careers. A highly refined GFE is an independent companion with traits and characteristics similar to original courtesans.

Psychology of a GFE

There are different layers within the girl friend experience that vary from escort to escort and from culture to culture. A GFE in the truest and deepest sense hones a relationship with her client on a longer term basis. She realizes that contentment is a state of mind out of reach for some gentlemen. Therefore, his happiness becomes her focus. She specializes in all aspects that characterize a true relationship zoning in on the desires and emotional needs of her client.

Young passionate couple of escort and hobbyist holding hand
Young passionate couple of escort and hobbyist holding hand

Is the GFE fantasy or reality?

In most cases, the GFE experience offered by an independent escort is pure fantasy. She spends an hour or two or three with her client and takes him on a euphoric ride to ecstasy. At the conclusion of their engagement, they part ways and he rides a sensual high of fulfillment with memories of her for days to come. He is surrounded of satisfaction, smiling from ear to ear. The GFE experience offered by the companion or courtesan is expressed on a longer term basis. Time spent together spills into reality. She becomes more of a confidante, friend and even travel liaison. He comes to rely on her in certain ways further defining her role as his companion. She fills a void in his life, sometimes many. She completes him, bringing a sense of happiness that in some relationships can last for years. However sacrilegious this may sound to convention, his relationship with her may facilitate the continuation of his marriage and therefore the structure of his inner family.

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Hobbyist washing face with clean water and representing hygiene concept

Where is the art?

A true GFE is refined, intelligent, social, supportive and sensual. She is articulate, often bi- or multi-lingual and might have an alternate or full time career on the side. Her hygiene is impeccable and her physique at its best. Though her attributes and characteristics come natural, she harbors a strong awareness as a courtesan to constantly maintain and improve herself. She cures her image as the ideal companion for upscale gentlemen who seek the company of such a lady. She is sophisticated in the sense that her suitor desires to spend regular and lengthy amounts of time with her. This is because she incites normalcy in his life as the companion that she is by evening out those areas in which he lacks. She instills happiness more as a measured lifestyle rather than a short term burst of excitement. Together, they build meaningful memories. She brings meaning and satisfaction to his life.

Managing Emotions in Escort Dating

What is the true nature of a meeting between a hobbyist and an independent escort? While discretion is paramount, a companion’s emotional warmth should be sincere yet measured within a zone that feels safe to her. Not all providers may agree with this as there are those who keep clients at far more than an arm’s length. All being said, how an escort and a hobbyist choose to manage their emotions is purely subjective.

The decent and trustworthy gentleman who deserves a little more

He is a companion’s best client. He demonstrates his patronage by requesting the pleasure of her company often. He revels in her presence and there is a sense of loyalty about him. She may recognize him as a gem and even a friend. One would suspect that such an ideal hobbyist/provider relationship deserves extra recognition because there is value evident on both sides. Perhaps such a scenario should allow for genuine warmth and a certain amount of trust.

Screening is important
Portrait of the man in a hood against an urbanistic wall – stranger. Screening is Important!

The green provider who ignores her instincts

Independent escorts who are new to the industry should learn to recognize men who take advantage of naïve providers. In this situation, an independent escort who is not backed by a club or agency may be placing herself in harm’s way without properly screening potential clients. In this case, possessing good common sense is critical. Without such, she may override her instincts for the mere sake of scheduling an appointment. Regrettably, there are plenty of providers who exercise poor judgment and place their reputations or even lives in danger as a result.

Where to draw the line with empathy

The genuine girl friend experience illustrates a perfect circumstance. When a hobbyist finds himself in a state of emotional neediness due to divorce or marital problems, he may be vulnerable. An independent escort who feels a sense of kinship and genuine compassion to this man may open the doors to sentiment. Her sincere intentions as well as his unguarded disposition make the recipe for feelings gone awry. She should never lose touch with her professionalism and always keep her focus on the client/provider relationship.

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Male and female legs during a date

Managing a sugar relationship

While neither man nor companion may refer to themselves as sugar daddy or sugar baby respectively, many such interactions take on all the characteristics defined by sugar. It is rare that a married man with ties to his family will leave his household to fully devote himself to his sugar baby. Therefore, a companion turned sugar baby should keep her wits about her and never fail to recognize the relationship for what it really is – one with benefits and boundaries.

The hobby can be richly rewarding or devastatingly damaging

It is not always easy to keep the mind and emotions separate for they often run parallel. Wisdom in navigating the hobby is truly about safety on every level: hygiene, emotion, reputation and even death. Whether you are a hobbyist or a provider, you should always keep your wits about you, never ignoring your instincts. There is always that little voice whispering deep down inside. It generally knows best.

Many kisses, Chloe xoxo

How to Stay Calm on Your First Date

Scheduling time with an exceptionally beautiful lady does not preclude a gentleman from feeling nervous. The notion of time spent with such a stunning goddess can hold him back. His stomach may churn if for nothing more than excitement of the unknown. Concerns about making a good first impression on a first date, fear of rejection or even performance anxiety can be a bit intimidating.

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If you are a hobbyist reading these words, how do you combat ‘gorgeous date anxiety’? We spoke to a few of our top VIP members and this is what we summarized:

Focus on your date

Listen to what you date talks about. Pay attention to her words, body language (well, this one may be obvious), smile and eye contact. Communicate with her. Stay outside of yourself and downplay internal reactions. In other words, try not to get stuck on thoughts or opinions. Make an effort to absorb what she talks about.

Optimistic Word Cloud Concept in red caps with great terms such as hopeful, upbeat, happy and more.
Optimistic Word Cloud Concept in red caps with great terms such as hopeful, upbeat, happy and more.

Be open minded and optimistic

Companions come from all walks of life. Focus on the positive possibilities of your date by suspending judgment and not dwelling on trivial details. Set aside personal assumptions, beliefs and thoughts and allow yourself to enjoy the moment! Be optimistic and open. As a result, you will notice a warm interaction, perhaps exchange a few jokes and opinions.

Identify the positives and opportunities

Independent escorts (and even random strangers) have something unique and interesting from which we can learn. Keep an open mind and take an interest in understanding who she is and where she is coming from.

Practice curiosity

It will remove you from your head and help see the positive aspects of your encounter. You will feel more social, enjoy better conversations and get to know your date just a bit more. Look for ways that will help the two of you connect. The act of exchanging perspectives, experiences and opinions can be a great segway to intimacy especially if you are the nervous type. Identifying a sense of familiarity can go a long way in breaking the ice and lead to a fabulous time together.

Romantic egg couple
Romantic egg couple

Keep in light and flirty

Focus on happy topics of conversation and avoid talking about dramatic, traumatic or negative events. However, if you are a gentleman seeking emotional fulfillment through a true girl friend experience, you may be more inclined to approach deeper subjects and needs. If you sense chemistry, chances are that you will see her again. You can then feel more at ease taking the time to establish a sense of familiarity during your first engagement. Then, your second date will be better than ever! The goal is to be ‘growth oriented’, to play and have both people enjoy time spent together.

Diminish worry and anxiety

No matter the scenario, dating a beautiful escort can be riveting at best, nerve racking at worst. Your encounter should be beneficial, enjoyable and memorable. Beyond the obvious, finding the fun in your date can enrich your experience by volumes! When both hobbyist and independent escort connect, there are no limits to gratification.

Love, Chloe xoxo

Quieting Holiday Loneliness with a GFE

Amidst happy lovers bundled arm in arm, Christmas carols resonating throughout the city and holiday shoppers bustling at the mall quietly mingle the lonely souls of many hobbyists

They show us what they want us to see: smiling faces, secure demeanors and professional composure. Yet beneath the surface dwells a state of unfulfillment in their homes. They experience lack of love and intimacy in dormant marriages that have been frozen for years. These hobbyists coexist with their wives in a barren world of monotony, mortgage payments and facades of false happiness. On a darker side, their marriages suffer from arguments or worse, fighting, separation and divorce.

Not all hobbyists are necessarily out to turn a few tricks or on a more perverse note take advantage of women as independent escorts

There are a lot of good men (whether single or not) who dabble in the demimonde of adult entertainment out of yearning for genuine companionship that surpasses the mere physical aspect associated with escorts. Herein lies the reality that shatters the stigma attached to independent escorting. These men have a hunger to satisfy their needs for closeness and understanding in a loving and non judgmental environment offered by gorgeous companions who believe in the girl friend experience.

Silhouette of kissing girl and guy
Silhouette of kissing girl and guy

What exactly is the girlfriend experience?

It means different things to different people. The term has evolved since its origin to the point that some independent escorts do not want to be associated with the acronym or any other label that might pool them with all the rest. Many escorts use it as a marketing tool while others genuinely offer the girlfriend experience. The modern day, successful GFE possesses sophisticated, psychological insight and a charismatic talent for attracting and bonding with her clients. Often times, hobbyist and companion become close friends, blurring the lines between paid companionship and true camaraderie.

When such a relationship reaches this heightened level of intimate stability, it may stabilize into what is known as a sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangement or simply an ongoing tryst.

All alone on Christmas Eve

It doesn’t have to be this way. A hobbyist or gentleman who does not have a conventional girlfriend, close friends or family does not have to suffer in silence with an aching heart during the most sentimental time of year. Whether he chooses to spend one hour with a smoking hot bombshell or a weekend with a tender soul blessed with understanding and total femininity, there are companions out there eager to become the period at the end of his sentence. It is just a matter of defining who she is and finding her.

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Check list. Vector illustration EPS version 8.

Make a list and check it twice

If a man wanted to purchase a car, he would eventually develop a ‘needs list’ of the features that the automobile should contain after looking at so many. Before he made the purchase, he would know exactly what he wanted. Do your homework. Start by making a list on paper of the features that define the woman who best suits your personality, needs and desires. Shop around. Read biographies. Look at photos. Get a feel for her style. Inquire with a few (without wasting their time) to get a sense of chemistry. If it fits the budget, one or two pre-requisite dates are highly recommended before spending significant holiday time with a lady to find out the hard way that the two of you may not be suited for each other.

New Year’s Eve is just around the bend

We all know that life slows down to a crawl this time of year. Many ladies are spending time with family and may not be available. Connecting with an independent escort whom you really like is a task that should be pursued well in advance before the actual holiday arrives. Who knows? The two of you might actually take a trip together to ring in the New Year.

Many kisses, Chloe xoxo

Becoming a Bon Vivant

Becoming a bon vivant is all about the gentleman who pursues the finer luxuries in life. Such a man enjoys fine dining, wines worthy of conversation, culture, traveling, fashionable attire, fresh hygiene and that overused word – class. Being a bon vivant begins with an attitude that does not require you look like Al Pacino.

Beautiful young sexy woman in luxurous dress


What if you are a sneakers and jeans kinda guy or a dude who is clueless about fashion? You harbor secret aspirations to be ‘that guy’, the James Bond of every escort’s dream date. In any case, we have easy solutions to becoming a hobbyist who wants to be a bon viveur (French derivative) starting with just the person you are.

Identify your culinary expectations

While frequenting five-star restaurants is usually a safe bet, a true bon vivant will discover the less known culinary establishments that bring heightened definition to cuisine. Often, the chain or larger establishment restaurants are pleasant or marginal (depending on which city you are in). Many sugar daddies favor smaller bistros or independent restaurants that flatter with personalized attention and culinary art this side of orgasmic. In short, whatever your taste in food whether fried chicken or escargot, make it your passion to find the best.

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Develop your palette for fine wines

As a general rule of thumb, a good wine is usually not to be purchased at the grocery store. If you aspire to become a vino aficionado, discover a few local boutique wine merchants in your area who host wine tastings. It is quite possible to purchase a bottle of wine for a few dollars with a 10 rating. Such boutique merchants are good sources for such secrets. Wine regions the likes of Tuscany, Piedmont, Barcelona, Madrid, Mendoza, Santiago, Chile, Bordeaux, Loire and Rhone name just a few. Attending wine tastings and getting to know your palette is a fantastic dating option!

Hone your cultural cravings

Are you into classic or modern art, gothic or comedy illustration art? As a hobbyist, do you harbor an artistic niche that captures your attention? Perhaps theater, dance, classic rock or symphony interests you. If you answered yes to any of the aforementioned, expand your lifestyle and get to know your interests.

Miami Vizcaya museum garden view
Miami Vizcaya museum garden view

Travel overseas or in your own backyard

Did you know that Tennessee is home of the Great Smokey Mountains? New York home of the Guggenheim and Museum of Modern Art? Chicago the Briar Street Theater? Miami the Villa Vizcaya? I could go on and on. Take romance to the tenth power with your date to Hawaii, Europe, Latin America or the Orient. Companions who are into the girlfriend experience and are willing to travel will only enhance your encounters.

Close-up of elegance man hands with cufflink over dark background
Close-up of elegance man hands with cufflink over dark background

How to dress fashionably

Looking good in clothes makes a man walk taller. If you are a hobbyist who is wardrobe compromised, the section applies to you. Gentlemen, there is no excuse for being unexposed to fashion. Begin with the style of dress you like to wear and take it to a new level. Plan a shopping day and visit department stores and boutiques who will attend you with customized service. You do not have to spend a million bucks to look good.

Hygiene is second to none

Taking good care of your body extends beyond a shower and washing your hair (which should be well-trimmed and neatly styled). Men, take control of bodily fur by way of shaving or waxing; if the vision of your toes and bottoms of your heals are less than desirable, visit a spa; have your teeth cleaned regularly to curb bad breath; take vitamins and herbal supplements to cleanse from within. You will thank us when your companion is all over you!

A is for attitude, V is for virtue

Locker room lingo should not only be left at home but deleted from your vocabulary. The operative word is ‘genteel’, the man who is respectful with a true admiration for women. He is the same man who treats customer service with respect in public and does not assume an arrogant attitude at any time with anyone. He stands up humbly for that in which he believes.

We’ve only touched the tip of the iceberg

Becoming a bon vivant will only enhance your girlfriend experience. Readers, follow these steps closely and be on the lookout for addendums to this article. City Girls is determined to provide you with as much knowledge as you choose to absorb! Happy hobbying

Love, Chloe xoxo

A Hobbyists Guide to Stress Relief Through Meditation

Jerry Seinfeld, Rupert Murdoch and Oprah Winfrey do it every day. Bob Roth, executive director of the David Lynch Foundation has been teaching it for more than forty years. It’s called Transcendental Meditation (TM for short) and if you’re thinking flower power, stop, breathe deeply and listen up before you recoil.

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Fortune 500 companies the likes of Google, AOL, Apple and Aetna offer meditation and mindfulness classes to their employees. TM is no hippie nonsense and it’s not a religion. Anyone can benefit from meditation especially hobbyists who are under a lot of stress.

Where did TM begin?

With roots in India, meditation became popular in the Western world during the 1960s and 1970s. Maharishi Mahesh yogi, originator of the TM movement said, “Through Transcendental Meditation, the human brain can experience that level of intelligence which is an ocean of all knowledge, energy, intelligence, and bliss.” Today, practicing TM does not mean that you must be a Buddhist or even subscribe to any religion because it does not have a philosophy unlike some other forms of meditation.

Golden Buddha, Wat Pho, Thailand
Golden Buddha, Wat Pho, Thailand

It’s time to unplug

Occasionally it is necessary to reboot our computers. Practicing TM is similar, sort of like clearing the cache in your brain and restarting your energy with a sense of calmness that lifts the soul. Many hobbyists and gentleman seek the company of independent escorts because they are stressed out. Being in the company of a beautiful companion, someone who provides a total girl friend experience is certainly exhilarating. Implementing TM twenty minutes, two times per day can make the difference between a fantastic date and phenomenal encounter when the mind is relaxed and open.

Quieting that busy mind

Plagued by racing thoughts at night or on the weekends when you should be chilling out? Do you struggle to sit still? Anxiety caused by stress is a killer and cause of heart disease.

How TM works

Allocate twenty minutes a day of quiet time and use a mantra to liberate your mind from conscious thought which triggers meditation. Mantra is a Sanskrit term for a sound, syllable, word or group of words that is considered capable of ‘creatingtransformation’ (remember the famous mantra, Om?).Mantras work in theory because they are meaningless word sounds as we know them. One is chosen for you by a TM teacher from a library of dozens that goes back to TM’s ancient Vedic traditions. Your mantra is never to be shared with anyone without affecting your karma. For the consideration that a hobbyist puts forth to spend a few hours of delicious time with a gorgeous independent escort, you can learn TM. With a certified TM instructor you will become familiar with Transcendental Consciousness which is the most pure nature of the mind. Most ladies and gentlemen are only aware of the active mind, the sleep state and the dreaming mind.

Why Transcendental Meditation?

While you may think that meditating sounds crunchy or earthy, science suggests otherwise. You’ll think more clearly because TM increases brain wave coherence; you’ll be less stressed and could even live longer because TM decreases production of cortisol, the stress hormone; you’ll be more organized because brain coherence gives more control to the prefrontal cortex, home of the ‘executive function’; you might quit smoking, drinking or doing drugs (if you’re one of those hobbyists we don’t like to engage with) as many TM folks have claimed.

City Girls cares about its club members

Hobbying is exclusive to those who can afford the luxury. A sugar daddy basks in the attention of a beautiful babe because he has the financial freedom to do so. An independent escort enjoys a comfortable lifestyle of traveling, a dazzling wardrobe and lavish attention bestowed upon her by her suitors. The quality of your interaction with a lovely companion is discounted when your mindset and health are compromised by life’s difficulties. At City Girls, we believe in taking a well-rounded approach to good living that begins with the inner you and a little meditation.


Chloe xoxo