When one door closes, another opens. In our case, that door would be the pearly gates of BestGFE. Baby, open’m up ‘cause we’re comin’ home!!!
City Girls’ video production department (who knew?) has just released a stunning allegorical tale about trustworthiness and betrayal. As the story unfolds, our senses are drenched in a soundtrack that tugs at our hearts while arousing our spirits for Ana is breathtakingly gorgeous. While this video is not to be missed, we suggest that you watch it at least three times for it is rich with symbolism. This article will serve as your cliff notes.
Recognizing disloyalty and treacherous behavior that is The Erotic Review
With biting precision, this film tells the account of a beautiful independent escort (shall we call her Crista?) who has been betrayed by her man. Demonstrating total disregard, he dismisses her as evidenced by tossing her paperwork into the garbage. Though open to interpretation for there is no dialogue that we the viewers can hear, Crista is shocked by his callous actions but displays impressive resilience. Her emotions are clearly affected because she trusted this man and now her livelihood is at stake. But she takes the moral high ground, heroically standing up to this ogre of the adult world as we can all but hear her put him in his place.
Suddenly, our stomachs ache with butterflies
As Crista seeks refuge in the bathroom with this man at her heels. We get a strong sense that he is already feeling remorse for his careless decisions which have turned her world upside down as he beats on the door with regret written all over his face. Staring into the mirror in twisted anguish, she makes a shotgun decision for betrayal is the ultimate transgression and it’s time to move on. We cannot help but feel compassion for this beauty because she has a good heart and does the right thing: she sends a text message to her ‘Best’ friend to ‘please come pick me up!’
Its mine, and I`m taking it?
In all her bravery, Crista opens the door and faces malevolence as he physically tries to stop her. But she will not have it, breaks free to pack her bag and leave but not before she claims what is rightfully hers. Can she rely upon her best friend to be there for her? Substance of the friendship is soon put to the test. Reaching into the trash to collect the stack of papers that we saw tossed at the beginning of the film, a question mark glows in our minds and we are left wondering.
We’ve all been there, been screwed over
As the music builds to a climax we are mesmerized on the edges of our seats. Crista must now contend with fear of the unknown, that poignant stage of vulnerability entering into an undeniable rite of passage as she removes herself from the darkness to face the light. What better way to symbolize this metaphorical pathway than with closure of the gates as we watch Crista exit without looking back. She walks through the cold, solitary snow toward a Mercedes sedan that is waiting for her. Suddenly, she is approached by a friend that extends a single pink rose. Crista retains her elegance and holds her head up high with a gentle yet ravishing smile, never compromising her standards or ethics even in the face of temptation. Though he appears to be a gentleman and is clearly smitten, Crista politely declines the rose and his company, instead tucking a small white card into his pocket, motioning him to call her. He is left standing there, bewildered as he watches her climb in the car of her best friend. And what is inscribed on the license plate? BEST GFE 777. 777 is a message from angels that one is on the right path serving a divine purpose in life.
City Girls is a rock!
Crista and her best friend drive off into the peaceful, snowy weather. Implications shift to the disappointment written all over this man’s face as he reaches for the white card in his pocket that is inscribed with www.NowItsAHistory.com. As the film comes to an end, our fingers race to the keyboard where we view a list of more than 120 girls just like Crista who were left in the same predicament. We wonder if these ladies were affected by the same fate. But in our hearts we know that Crista’s best friend is also their best friend and we chuckle for who is left holding the bag? I think we all know the answer.
Virtual voice of City Girls here again with more TER drama but in a good way.
We were wondering whether it is true that all breakups end with pain and loneliness. Perhaps for most ‘relationships’ but City Girls is certainly the exception. As the association with The Erotic Review took its last breath, CG pleasantly discovered the silver lining after only five short days sans TER.
Numbers talk, right folks?
According to statistical tracking, our models have seen a 5-10% increase in dates since the day before getting dumped by TER. Why is that?
Let the truth be told
In our last article, we announced the banning by TER. Less than 24 hours later, we received a windfall of feedback from loyal hobbyist friends in the community. Voicing their commentaries on our blog, seems that some of our prior members had been cut loose from City Girls due to misunderstandings related to the TER rating system. Consequently, many member statuses were restored followed by immediate bookings. Now that’s what we call a blessing in disguise. We do not agree with the TER rating system but that topic is reserved for a subsequent article. The mere fact that some memberships were restored following this discrepancy only underscores our separation from TER.
Rebounding from TER
At first, business contracted in the form of canceled engagements, putting our reputation at risk. Being that our presence on TER literally disappeared overnight stirred a perception of problems in the public eye. However, our immediate news release enlightened our friends and things quickly settled down to a normal pace. Now, we are enjoying the traffic coming from and to BestGFE.
Business as usual
What touched our hearts was everyone’s support. We have heard from many who canceled their TER accounts and opened new accounts with BestGFE. Someone even submitted a complaint to TER support. Interestingly, TER responded that they are waiting for additional information from us and might possibly restore our account and profiles. How is that possible when after opening a new account in an effort to communicate that account was banned as well? Such feedback that TER is ‘waiting for additional information’ is false.
City Girls salutes our friends!
We are incredibly thankful for a loyal following that has proven to sustain our business through this transition. We only ask that everyone cease and desist from approaching TER support any longer. We plan to send them an official request to remove all of our information from their database for as we see it, TER is not a partner that we can depend upon and there is no turning back.
Exit TER, enter Best GFE
In the upcoming days, we will complete a seamless transition to Best GFE to the delight of all of our friends. Details will be released in our Wednesday blog article. Stay tuned.
A surprise for our friends
If you haven’t yet registered on Best GFE, take a few minutes to do so. It’s super easy and we’re giving you an incentive. Be ready for a little surprise after your registration is complete.
The virtual voice of City Girls here again with a jaw-dropping announcement: BANNED BY TER
Just in case, TER stands for The Erotic Review. Our account has been blocked and we cannot log in. This means that we also cannot post weekly tour advertising of our models which you all look toward and we cannot update profiles of models.
Why has City Girls been banned by TER?
Probably, because we featured on our website a special arrangement with BestGFE members to promote TOFTT*, available only to BestGFE members and apparently, TER does not like that.
What is TOFTT?
TOFTT stands for ‘Take One For the Team’ and offers a special $250 hourly donation: when a gentleman has dated an independent escort who has not yet received any escort reviews. TOFTT protocol is a fair and balanced approach to supporting both hobbyist and independent escort: a win-win situation. He respectfully highlights his encounter with fellow hobbyists within the community whether his experience was off the charts, mediocre or a one-time wonder. In following TOFTT philosophy, he has rated his experience by putting the word out to his fellow hobbyist comrades. In turn, the model receives a review, strengthening her reputation.
Is TER feeling okay?
This past summer of 2015, TER had their chance to participate in our TOFTT program which we so graciously extended. Out of the blue, they voluntarily requested to be excluded from our promotion on the basis of a moral conviction: offering a $50 hourly discount is unethical. Seriously?
TER offers FREE VIP Membership for writing reviews
Hmm. Cat got your tongues, TER moguls? Offering a free VIP membership (a value of approximately $33) for writing two reviews sounds similar to the very TOFTT program which they declined to endorse!
What TOFTT really does for its VIP members
Let’s get real, folks. I think we all know that TOFTT is not a movement to coerce our VIP members or ask our independent escorts to do anything that they wouldn’t do otherwise. About this we have always taken a transparent position.
The elephant in the room
Could it be that TER is bothered by the fact that BestGFE participates in the very TOFTT arrangement that they declined? A bit psycho, but seems to point to why they have banned us.
A parallel situation occurred with EROS
We used to advertise on EROS and decided to implement a marketing technique that promoted an RS2K (Room Service 2000) special refund granted upon completion of their verification process. On October 29th, 2012 we released a post on our blog talking about this RS2K promotion. Five days later, EROS contacted us announcing that they had removed us from their advertising.
City Girls will NOT be bullied
If TER carries through with the act of banning us from their site, this is a BAD thing and will cast a shadow upon them. We stand on a solid foundation of character and integrity – virtues by which our members have come to rely. Will City Girls quit? Never!!!
For the past few years, City Girls has offered the TOFTT program to its VIP members. Whether you are a hobbyist versed in its amazing benefits or just getting familiar, below is useful information about the new and improved features of TOFTT.
TOFTT dates are $250 per hr!
TOFTT stands for ‘Take One For the Team’.In the hobbyist world, TOFTT means that a gentleman has dated an independent escort who has not yet received any reviews. Following TOFTT protocol, he respectfully highlights his encounter with fellow hobbyists within the community. His date could have been passionately groundbreaking, intimately memorable or boringly bland. In following TOFTT philosophy, he has scored his experience by putting the word out to his escort dating comrades.
Benefits of a TOFTT date through City Girls
Though they are stunningly gorgeous and unspeakably talented, some of our independent escorts are unknown in the hobbying world and therefore not backed by escort reviews. Our ladies are approved as club members based upon recommendation for their obvious beauty and sensual aptitude. For City Girls, TOFTTreviews solidify ladies’ memberships as independent escorts and strengthen our (already solid) reputation as a club that stands behind its VIP members. When a hobbyist gets to date an exceptionally talented beauty at the discounted TOFTT rate, it’s a win-win situation.
Who is eligible for a TOFTT date?
Only VIP members of City Girls backed by a solid reputation of feedback and participation on the BestGFE website qualify. If you are a VIP member of City Girls, you must have participated in a minimum of five BestGFE threads.
How to get approved for TOFTT status
Log in to your VIP account
Click Menu button and Settings.
TOFTT approval Status and if not approved, press Request Approval.
Enter your BestGFE username and click Verify.
Wait a few seconds for approval status to show below the TOFTT approval indicator. If you do not have a history of participating in five threads in a BestGFE forum, you will receive an error message If you meet the criteria, you will receive a private message (PM) through BestGFE that includes a PIN code. Enter your PIN code to complete the approval process
Don’t have a BestGFE account?No worries! Sign up for your free account at www.BestGFE.com where you will find a wealth of resourceful information and insight about the hobby.
From our perspective, there are all sorts of hobbyists who choose to see independent escorts. Their reasons vary greatly.
They are not necessarily hobbyists though many do fit the ticket. Then of course, there are the exceptions that are not shaped by any mold. We thought it would be interesting to consider the types that City Girls encounters often.
New girl client
In our case, we see this gentleman often. That’s because many of the independent escorts who are a part of the CG Club fall under the guise of TOFTT (Take One for The Team). They are spectacular and come highly recommended. However, they may still be considered ‘new’ to many men in the world of adult entertainment. Perhaps more common in controlled establishments (City Girls is a private club), new girls may fall victim to the Bottom Fish Client (see below). These hobbyists may attempt to exploit the new girl and even abuse her and endanger her life. Having not been around long enough to get her ‘escort wings’, she’s finished before she’s begun. Naturally, City Girls turns their back on these types of guys. We tend to shield our independent escorts with as much knowledge and guidance as possible.
He chooses the company of a companion not because his marriage is happy. Most often, he and his wife co-exist in a glorified roommate situation. The marriage is loveless and totally lacks intimacy. Or, the ties that bind are financial in nature and there might be children involved in a household where divorce is unconscionable. So the marriage dwells in a hapless state. This gentleman seeks emotional, physical and psychological fulfillment from a beautiful provider. She is the best in her field offering intimacy and camaraderie in a genuine capacity. It is common for these male types to be endlessly romantic, seeking the most genuine of girl friend experiences. The lines between a professional arrangement and love relationship are sometimes blurred. While he may not fit the structured definition of a sugar daddy, the relationship may naturally flow into a hybrid version.
Natural asset lover
This hobbyist seeks the company of an independent escort for sport. Her physical criteria are his primary focus. While he may date only a handful of girls, he remains emotionally detached. Gratification is his main objective. He enjoys her much like he would a football game and drinking a couple of beers. Marital status does not apply.
The term fetish is in a class by itself. Though we have written about the topic before, there exists a vast range of unusual interests. It could include a specific fixation on an object, body part or material facilitated by a companion who makes no claim as a fetish expert. Or, it could be a more sophisticated, psychological obsession that requires a highly specialized dominatrix.
Bottom fish client
Unfortunately, they exist. They are the ones who give the hobby a bad rap. They are the ones who will never grace the presence of City Girls’ Club of independent escorts. At the risk of sounding haughty or negative, these men may be of a belligerent nature, motivated by a desire to exploit a provider. Often, he is a woman-hater with a sketchy or unethical past. He may try to take advantage of her and in the worst case, may hurt her. Inflicting pain is not just limited to the physical. He may falsify a bad review of their encounter, knowing very well that doing so will jeopardize her career. Imposing such vengeance on the reputation of a provider can be the kiss of death and end her career. He knows this.
This type of gentleman is most familiar to courtesans. He seeks true companionship on a higher level. Such a courtesan is acutely aware of who she will and will not spend time with. She will turn down a client if she does not sense a genuine connection. She truly enjoys her profession and usually spends time with a handful of suitors who shower her with utmost respect, gifts and travel excursions. This man is not a hobbyist per say and his is extremely discreet. He tends to maintain his relationship for a long time, sometimes even years. They might become very close friends and he may even assist her in financial endeavors. We have heard of cases where marriage resulted.
City Girls is in no way biased toward any person
We support freedom of individuality. Every hobbyist, independent escort or sugar daddy/baby is totally unique! We recognize the good in folks and encourage that everyone practice higher ethics through virtuous behavior. Do unto others as you would have them do to you!
Independent escorting is all about the art of relationships. Some companions are more talented than others, bestowing gratification that will mildly faze you or better yet, permanently alter your being. Whether your encounter is brief or extended, how can a hobbyist detect which lady is going to make his day verses the one is going to rock his universe?
How genuinely sensual is she?
There are ladies who are born sirens and others who rise to sensual epiphanies due to life circumstances. The truly erotic woman is one who knows how to handle herself and takes her profession seriously. She understands that the objective of her business lies in satisfying clients by calling upon all of their senses. In short, she enjoys being with people on a deeply intimate level. She is intuitive, patient, balanced and oh so physical. She is a ‘therapist’ of sorts, maybe not licensed but her wisdom cuts to the core of humanity as we know it. She is indescribably humane, sharp and shrewd when it comes to whom she will entertain. At City Girls, we know well about that which we speak!
Her bio should tell all
Scanning for a quick fix will land you a little pleasure but probably not nirvana. A sugar daddy is versed in reading the content of a potential sugar baby’s biography because he is interested in taking on a more fulfilling relationship. As a gentleman in the hobby, learning about your companion is part of the deal. Surprisingly, a lot can be learned by absorbing the mood and tonality of what a provider has written in her biography. A tremendous amount of insight can be gained by reading an escort’sbio!
Pictures tell the visual
There are escort photos that are straightforward and undeniably attractive. There are other escort images which are well, beautiful but may cause the viewer to question their authenticity. Photoshop comes to mind. Will you recognize her when you meet? City Girls private club and agencies tend to feature recent images but with independent websites, one must search a bit. The professional escort will most certainly post images that were taken within the last six months. If the descriptions in her escort reviews match what you see in her photos, all is good.
To review or not to review
Escort Reviews are like little insurance policies that your investment into time spent with an independent escort will pay off. Nowadays, a trend is growing toward escorts who wish to maintain a sense of anonymity when it comes to clients detailing their encounters. City Girls offers alternatives that equal the same sense of confidence as any review.
City Girls is not about women who choose to escort as a means to an end
Our ladies Club members are authentic entertainers who happen to radiate dazzling beauty and truly enjoy the company of their gentleman counterparts. Independent escorts at City Girls are all about the art of sensuality which is why our ladies are so highly revered.
As a hobbyist, a man is in a position to take whatever approach he chooses when dating an independent escort.
In extreme circumstances, a hobbyist may show little consideration for the feelings of his date even displaying rude behavior. That’s the best way to get screwed on your first date and we do not mean in a positive way. Reputation spreads like wild fire for the rude hobbyist. The gentleman who knows the ABCs of good manners and proper etiquette is the same one whose dates will explode with fireworks and resound in the mind of an independent escort long after their date ends.
Don’t be late on your First Date
You’ve had a long day at the office. Now, it is rush hour and you are leaving on time to meet your date. There is a car accident on the highway and the roads are jammed which leads to your tardiness. You arrive late and disgruntled, wishing you had left earlier. Every independent escort who is a true lady will greet you with a smile and do her best to accommodate an awkward introduction. But what is she really feeling and thinking beneath her smooth demeanor? Will your lateness adversely impact the quality of your first date? While hobbyists do not have official escort reviews, escorts talk and you want to be recognized for many positive attributes including punctuality.
Show a little chivalry
If you are a true gentleman you will not forget your manners. Open the door for your date. Pull out her chair when dining. Never walk ahead of her. Do not interrupt when she is talking. Always have a compliment ready to deliver.
Mind your cell phone manners
No matter how demanding your obligations, keep a tight leash on that pesky little machine. At a minimum, face it down (or out of view all together) and on silent so as not to disrupt your time together. Postpone any calls and text messages. If you absolutely must, politely excuse yourself and discreetly make the call. Apologize upon your return for interrupting your time together.
Don’t get inebriated
As most hobbyists are aware, many independent escorts have ‘no drinking/drug’ policies. If you greet your date intoxicated there is a chance that she will send you away and she should. On the other hand, you may be having such a fabulous time on your first date and forget your intake limits. In all the glory and intimacy of your first date, you could lose control and have one cocktail too many, rendering you drunk. Remember to maintain your pace and limit your intake.
Tipping well speaks volumes
You may think she doesn’t notice. When the check comes, you pay the bill and leave a squeamish TIP because you felt that the service was subpar. But she does notice and now thinks less of the gentleman who might otherwise have left a glowing impression in her mind. As a rule of thumb, always TIP at least 10%, 20% or more when the service warrants. You’ll be glad you did.
Reputation is everything
In the world of hobbying, nice guys finish first. Hobbyists with good reputations take precedence over those with notorious behavior. Dates just seem to flow with ease and satisfaction when an independent escort feels appreciated. Who gets the benefit?
In this article, we will dive a little deeper into cultivating your clientele and growing your business as an escort.
Last month we talked about how to conduct yourself as an independent escort. Quality of life is just as important as making money because the two combined will empower you as an independent escort with the freedom to pursue other interests. Escorting can be a turnkey business in that a lady can pretty much start making money tomorrow if she’s prepared. However, an escort’s business not managed properly can leave her financially starved or worse, endanger her life.
Know your client profile
As your entertainment skills become more refined, you will see a pattern emerge of characteristics in men whom you attract – if you are paying attention. If you are an established independent escort and are unsatisfied with the quality of your clientele, it’s time to re-assess and profile the clients who don’t work for you (also known as weeding your garden). In order to enjoy what you do it is important that you like [most of] your clients. Escorting is a highly personalized job calling upon every aspect of your being. Some ladies go so far as to cherry pick their clients, turning down many in the process of accepting the ones who appeal to them. Knowing yourself and what type of man you would like to attract is a huge step in the right direction. Steering clear of those who don’t interest you or worse, those who you may find offensive is a bold step in the right direction.
TIP: Wealth and affluence is not always an accurate gauge for targeting the right client. Often, the gentleman who appears to be ‘worth less’ than the ‘affluent’ man may excel in generosity and passion with which he approaches the hobby.
Become a stickler for screening
If you truly care about your safety and the longevity of your business, screening is one of the most important practices in your job as an independent escort. If you are part of the City Girls Club of Independent Escorts, well then, this tedious task is taken care of for you! But if you also see clients as an independent escort on your own, don’t slack on screening. Keep it official and never rely exclusively on the ‘vouch system’ (where you receive referrals from other providers). Always use a third party service to verify clients.
TIP: If a client cannot be 120% verified, move on!
If you are an attractive escort with a rockin’ body and sparkling personality, you are way ahead of the game. In your job as a companion, you will swim in a sea of many different types of providers. Beware! Not everyone has your best interest in mind and there are those who will take pleasure (and even aspire) in watching you go down. Don’t let that happen! If you can befriend a lady with a stellar reputation who is seasoned in the business and you humbly follow her advice, your fate as a successful provider will be sealed.
Understand and implement basic marketing skills
Often in life, simple gestures resonate the loudest. After a date, send a carefully crafted and sincere email reflecting the pleasure you took in spending time together. It doesn’t need to say much and you certainly don’t have to be Pulitzer Prize winner to send it! But make sure you run a spell check. Develop a data base of your clients (even if you only have three!) and systematically email them to say hello. Talk about what you’re doing, where you’re going and how you would like to see them (never sound desperate or needy). If you feel comfortable attach or enclose a recent photo because visuals are very important. In other words, stay at the forefront of your clients’ minds. Maintain a daily presence in the chat rooms and escort forums. Make sure your comments and posts sound natural. Diligence is the key to good marketing skills. Give it some time to cultivate and you will reap the rewards!
Choose your friends wisely
When you become a companion, you will come across many ladies whether in the chat rooms, forums or meet and greet parties who may pose as your friends. Proceed with caution. A true friend is an asset to your world and has your best interests at heart. Never reveal too much of yourself to quickly. The only person who can protect yourself is you.
TIP: While this may sound totally cliché (and it is), friends are like wines: they take time to cultivate and that process is a one-way street with no shortcuts allowed. Before you totally reveal yourself to a new acquaintance, she/he must withstand the test of time to qualify as a friend. Any time sooner and you risk jeopardizing possibly your safety and reputation.
City Girls realizes that women have a gift for intuition
Make good use of it! No matter your age or where you are in the world of escorting, when the tiny voice at the bottom of your stomach whispers (and it will), by all means, listen! It is the most valuable gift that we have as women and we shouldn’t be afraid to heed that tiny little voice. It is very powerful.
As an escort, your date begins way before you meet. It starts when a client is drawn to your photos on the City Girls website.
It continues when he reads your biography. By the time you are face to face, he has already built a sexy, romantic image of you in his mind. As a provider, it is up to you to manifest that image, making his dreams of you come to life. Closely observe the needs of your client from the first seconds of your encounter. Paying attention to detail – his body language, the manner in which he greets you and how he speaks to you and responding accordingly, will set the pace for a successful engagement.
Always prepare yourself before a date
You may be surprised that most men pay attention to seemingly little details such as well-manicured hands, toes and soft feet; your bikini line (especially!); well-shaped eyebrows (get them professionally waxed or plucked if needed); whether or not your body is in the best shape that it can be; the style and condition of your hair and here’s the big one: the softness and suppleness of your skin. So, preparing yourself ‘before’ a date begins long before the actual date. What I am talking about is a way of life in regular maintenance of your physical and emotional being.
Dress like the bombshell that you are
I myself am a huge advocate of jeans and own at least five pairs. I’ve seen women who can make a $30 pair look like a million bucks especially regaled with the right pair of heels, flattering blouse and accessories. But unless your date specifically requests that you wear jeans (or you are going to a sporting event, park or walk on the beach), I strongly recommend expanding your creativity and wearing something else unique to your personality and style especially on your first date with a hobbyist. I never met a man who didn’t react favorably to an escort adorned in a sexy dress, skirt or other type of classy pant. When your date arrives, never answer the door wearing a robe with a towel on your head. Believe it or not, I’ve heard of some ladies who do!
Look like the girl in your photos
Unless you slip a magic potion in the beverage of your date, he will adversely react if you look very different from the girl in your photos. Chances are, you’ll get through the evening and he may even be satisfied. The worst that can happen is that he writes a negative escort review of you which then becomes part of your indelible branding and reputation as a provider who has falsely represented herself. Don’t get me wrong. The whole purpose of a good photo is to make you shine! But don’t use Photoshop as a tool to look considerably thinner or younger than you are.
Open gift receipt is a no-no!
Open discussion, or receipt of your donation should remain a business policy that is staunchly forbidden under any circumstances! Your client should know the protocol with regard to your donation. Never compromise your standards, ethics or safety if he acts otherwise. If your date attempts to engage you in discussion of your donation or gives you a hard time it is in your best interest to regrettably end the date right then and there, all with style and class, of course.
Often, a client knows immediately if he wishes to see you again
First impressions resound. Naturally, the course of your date, how you conduct yourself and whether or not your client leaves with a smile on his face impact the evening. As an independent escort, you should approach every engagement with the intention of converting your client into a repeat client because he loves to spend time with you. They are the bread and butter of your business.
City Girls endorses you!
As a provider, you need support and backing. Whether it’s from a network of friends, associates or City Girls, no woman is an island. Stand on your own as an independent escort but think smart and get the foundation that you need. City Girls is here for you!